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Help! I am in terrible need of advice! There's this guy I like and we're graduating soon. This is my last chance of letting him know my feelings for him. But i'm too chicken to admit it to him. What should I do? And if I get the nerve to tell him, how do I do it? Pls.help! (link)
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ok well if you like him, you need to let him know, because if you dont you'll never know if he feels the same.
If you cant find the curage to tell him face to face, then write him a letter, sounds old fashion i no but it works, or maybe email him if you know is email address.
Hope this helps.
Good luck
Pinky1
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What do you do if you have a test in a class and just dont understand anything? And the teacher, your parents, and tutors just cant explain it well enough to get it?? Im so worried and sad about a test coming up because I dont understand it! Its history, too, so its memorizing too and I just dont get it! I seriously think Im going to fail this test. (link)
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ok well do some research, books libary internet etc. And use the notes you alredy have.
When i have test's the best revision method i have is find a quite place where i cant be disturbed and read through my notes over and over again, it gets boring, very boring but without you realising it all sinks in and when a quetion comes up which you think you dont know, you mind takes over and everything you read all comes flooding back.
Hope this helps
Good luck
Pinky1
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ok so i have posted stuff about my realtionship and my breakup before but for those who read this and dont know, we dated for 2 years and been broke up for a little over a month. i am 19 he is 23. ok so my latest problem is kinda complicated. ok here goes i had to meet him today to give him his stuff well our little meeting turned into a 2 hour long meeting, and here is what he had to say i am sorry i never meant for this to happen i do love you i just dont know what i want. i told him he acts like he doesnt care. he said that he stays up sometimes wondering if what he is doing is right. i told him i thought we are making a mistake he said you are probably right but i guess i will find out the hard way. what does that mean? ok so tell me what he meant by all this i dont understand, why he would say all this and still not want to be back together and it is killing me. what do you all think i dont know anymore. please let me know something. i just cant stand being apart from him. i have to meet him again on sat becuase i forgot some stuff and so did he what should i say hoe should i act. god i dont know what to do anymore i am going crazy i really do love him and want to be with him but i dont know how long i should wait on him. i never doubted that he would be back but i just dont want to wait should i give him a aultimatum or just give him time. (link)
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I real feel what you going through, iv been through something very similar, i was with my ex 7 years and he cheated i found out and we split up!
Truth is you deserve better, I no you love him but do you really want to be in a relationship when he making you feel the way he is doing?
the next few weeks....months will be hard, really hard, you have days when you dont want to get out of bed but you have to. Y
ou have family and friends who are there for you support you and give you the love and support you need.
Belive me when i say it gets easier because it does. I am talking from experince i really am. 1 year later after my split and im with some1 else and so so so happy i now no the true meaning of love and what i had with my Ex will i guess it was a test, test in life which i passed. and this is your test, which i really hope you pass! He probably does love you but dont wait around for him, he made this decision not you. You need to try moving on let things be and within time he will regret it and if he really does love you, he will want you back, and thats when you decide whether you truly love him or not.
Be Strong
Good Luck
pinky1
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his guy I like wants me to suck his you know what. He has had a lot of girlfriends and he's really cute and I do like him and everything. Would it be bad if I did it? (link)
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truthfully i dont think you should, i say this because if you wanted to do it, you would have done and you wouldnt need advise on it.
If the time ever comes when you want to "you no what" then you will do this, with out questioning it.
But please dont to this if you think he will like you more because more than likely he wont.
You said it yourself he has had other Girlfriends so its more than likely he asked them to do the same and using you so he can get some. If he liked you he wouldnt ask you to do anything, he would be there for you when you need him to be and things would progess to the next level when you were both ready, not when he wanted it!
Think carefully about what YOU want not what he wants.
Hope this helps
Good Luck
pinky1
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well i have this friend, and like most people ive made new best friends. and whenever i talk to them and not him, he "feels left out" i told him that there are a lot of other people that hang around with us, who you can talk to. but he says "he feels left out" of the conversation im in. i mean, i cant stop talking to them just so he's happy. nor can i run around making sure he doesn't feel left out, or make him be involved in the conversation's. if he feels that way, he should involve him self right? well i told him that, and he just isn't having it.
thank you, please give advice, need it badly
p.s then when he feels like that, he goes and tells everyone so that i look bad. (link)
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Ok looks like he really values your friendship, and as silly as it sounds wants you all to himself.
As harsh as it may sound he need to share you, you need to sit down with him and tell him you have other friends, and u want to be his friend as well as others.
Theses other friends of yours, are they just your friends or both of yours, because if they yours he is bound to feel left out, he doesnt know these people and will feel left out. If they are mutral friends then he needs to understand it cant be just you 2, and that he needs to talk to other friends.
Hope this helps
Good Luck
Pinky1
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im in grade 11 , im 16. ive wanted to be a vet since grade 7 , but it seems so boring ya know , now i think and research careers, i look at exiting jobs , or so i think , ive looked at pilots, airforce , army , cop , i want to go to university but what courses do i take if idont no wat i want to do in life? How do i find out wat to do? is there a rush? i just dont want to pick a career spend 10 years of schooling and hate the evryday stuff ya no, i also dont no wat im good at honestly, i have no hobbies i like to hang out with friends , tv , ect... i feel like i have no talent, wat should i do? (link)
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I can see you are very confussed, but you are still young.
What makes you think being vet would be boring? Maybe you should try going to few vet places see what happens,ask if they will let you help them out in you free time. If you dont enjoy it then you know that is not the career for you.
1st thing you need to do is maybe make a list of what you like, and what you dont like and maybe you can explore from there.
Good Luck
pinky1
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