his guy I like wants me to suck his you know what. He has had a lot of girlfriends and he's really cute and I do like him and everything. Would it be bad if I did it?
You understand that you would be engaging in a sexual act (for anyone other than Clinton this would be considered sex). You also understand that the chances are that it will not mean anything more. I am not saying that because it wont mean anything you shouldnt do it, thats up to you. Just as long as you understand it.
You understand the fact that you would be one girl amongst many to him. I hope you dont think that by doing so you would gain emotional ground with this guy... Im not saying its impossible, just pretty darned close to it.
So, if you are ok with this, then its fine. If you are not ok then its not. Needless to say if it was my daughter I would probably bring out the proverbial shotgun, but thats a different matter altogether. [ Alin75's advice column | Ask Alin75 A Question ]
bissos answered Tuesday March 21 2006, 6:58 am: its your choice you have to decied if you can have sexuall activities with someone you dont really know or not
i think you should try to know him better before doin somthing you might regret someday [ bissos's advice column | Ask bissos A Question ]
pinky1 answered Tuesday March 21 2006, 6:42 am: truthfully i dont think you should, i say this because if you wanted to do it, you would have done and you wouldnt need advise on it.
If the time ever comes when you want to "you no what" then you will do this, with out questioning it.
But please dont to this if you think he will like you more because more than likely he wont.
You said it yourself he has had other Girlfriends so its more than likely he asked them to do the same and using you so he can get some. If he liked you he wouldnt ask you to do anything, he would be there for you when you need him to be and things would progess to the next level when you were both ready, not when he wanted it!
Think carefully about what YOU want not what he wants.
Teza answered Tuesday March 21 2006, 12:33 am: All guys want any girl to suck their penis. Does he like you back? To me it seems like he is just using you to get some and he doesn't really seem to like you in that way. Since you like him and if you want him to like you more for a stupid reason like sucking his penis, then go ahead. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
crazyxbeautiful answered Tuesday March 21 2006, 12:03 am: he looks like hes just looking to get some. once he gets it, hes prolly going to go around to other girls and treat you like your nothing. it all depends on how you want to be treated in the long run. but if u like him enough and dont care that he's just using you for pleasure, then go for it. i prolly wouldnt though [ crazyxbeautiful's advice column | Ask crazyxbeautiful A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Monday March 20 2006, 11:52 pm: Hate to say it, but if you can't call a penis by its proper name, you're probably not mature enough to be touching his. But yes, he's probably just looking for sex, I wouldn't do it if I were you :) [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
melissa answered Monday March 20 2006, 11:10 pm: Think of it this way:
the guy does not like you back ..im sorry but he doesnt :(
if he did he would not be asking you to suck his "you know what." Instead he would want to hang out with you,cal you on the phone,talk with you, get to know you. But all this guy wants is some action. You doing this for him will NOT make him like you in the bf/gf way..you doing it might make him feel good..but it wont make him want to date you. Dont fall into the trap of doing something just so the guy will like you..it doesnt work that way
I wouldnt do it..but hey its your life *im not being sarcastic either* Seriously..its your choice. If you want to go ahead with it go for it..but dont expect him to start to like you...he just wants ass. [ melissa's advice column | Ask melissa A Question ]
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