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Copying
I got a friend that copies me and now i think she likes the boy i like.
-Amber
What should i do about the copying and then boy liking? I'm not flattered about it either i shouldn't be.
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There is a girl in our form who will do anything to fit in, she will like the same music, boys, clothes to anyone new she meets to try and get them to like her. Maybe it is the same with your friend try and let her know just because you might not have the same interests doesnt mean she isnt your friend and try and get across its putting you off her a bit. With the boy it is probably fake and if its not she might like him, me and my friends have similar taste in boys but it doesnt come between us. I wouldnt be flattered either but the best thing to do is to try and get her to get a mind of her own and tell her you dont have to be identical to be friends.
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you should slip it into a conversation on how you really like orginiality and fake people, not directly aimed at her because I know some people dont like to hear it. If she doesnt catch on tell her that alot of people have been telling you shes starting to act like you or somethng I really hate people like that, I`ve had a couple. About the guy, get him before she does. Maybe she'll learn her lesson.
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I was in the same situation as you were with my friend.
maybe you should talk to her, and tell her how you feel about her likeing the same guy you like, and probably trying to "steal" your style, and just basically copying you.
tell her that she doesn't have to "copy" you to impress people. She should be herself. Tell her not to be afraid to be herself to no one. And not to change for anyone.
But copying you is not the answer.
she'll understand if she is a good friend, right?
Hope i helped :]
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confront her .thats what you should do,tell her that you dont like it
but always rememmber she could be doin this bec she thinks your nice , cool or whatever and wants to be like you.so be kind to her
you could be really good friends when this is all over.good luck
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how does she copy you? does she wear the same clothes, listen to the same music, say the same phrases that you say? i can't say for sure without more information on this situation, but it's possible that she has a poor image of herself and instead finds you to be the epitome of "cool", so she tries to be just like you so she can have the same seemingly wonderful life and personality as you.
as to what to do, try exploring some new things for yourself (music, hobbies, clothing styles, etc.) and try and get her to do the same thing. if she can find something that she herself is incredibly passionate about (like me with computers, video games, and singing ^_^), then she'll most likely discover on her own that she is a unique individual.
hope this helped. go to my column if you'd like any more advice on this, you can email me or chat with me.
~*kitty*~
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i think that you should first talk to your friend about the *boy* to make sure she like's him.. it may be just false signals or something.,
and you should also try to talk to her about copying you, i know its hard but liek she might be doing it with even know (with no intention) ..
*so just talk to her.. and see how it goes..
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