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ok well me and my bf say we love each other and have been 2gether for a while... but he told me he still has feelings for his x *loves her still* but i no tht he loves me and i no tht they were 2gether for a long tym but she treated him so badly and it hurts me 2 no tht and so i dont no y he loves her but i no being 2gether tht long tht he is still gonna have feelngs for her... so can someone help me out w/ some suggestions on how 2 talk 2 him about this, and should i be jealous tht he still has feelings for her? (link)
hey hun! well most of the time people still have some feelings for their ex's! its perfectly normal as long as he doesn't break up with you for her..but if he does..then he's a loser and you can do better! =) i'm here if ya need to talk!



Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

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i think you should wait! thats the best thing to do! you are a little young! this might be something you regret in the end..so wait a while longer is my advice! =)



ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something? (link)
no..lol its not a magnet effect! lol yea..the guy has to insert it..just be careful in any choices you make and stay protected! =)



Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage? (link)
I wonder the same thing! the world has changed a lot! now i don't realli believe in waiting until you married cause you can fall in love at any age! its just a matter of how mature you are and when you are readi to give up your virginity! i dont encourage you or anyone else to give up your virginty at a young age..wait until your AT LEAST 15..and make sure your realli in LOVE! and i'm not even saying 15 is a good age..just wait until you are mature and readi to do it! oh yea and make sure you have been with your partner for a realli long time before you make a decision and make sure they aren't only going out with you for sex! just stay safe in any choices you make and that was a great question! =)



okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
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do what your heart tells you to do! and don't give in if you don't want to even if he is the sexiest guy on earth! =)



okay i invited this cute guy 2 my cottage down the beach and it's only gonna be me and him and i wonderin if he comes down what should we do??
i really like him!! so what do you think??

*Blonde Beach Babe* (link)
try making out with him for now! thats the best thing to do! and if he likes you..then its perfect for the to of you to have a huge makeout session! and then another idea is at night..take him for a walk on the beach! very romantic! =) lol good luck!



OKay guys! On the first day I have narrowed it down to two diffrent choices:

1. blue jeans, a halter top w/ a cute shirt (the kind that have the buttons at the top that u leave undone (i know complicated to explain), black flip-flops, and a pink and black purse and pink and black back-pack!

2. blue jeans, a dark pink and blue shirt (the polo kind) with pink flip flops and a pink and a pink and black purse and pink flip flops!!

3. other.

okay please choose one!!!!! :D Keep in mind I am starting a new school and I'm confused about the style!! Thanks guys! (link)
Number One! it sounds adorable! =)



ok i know this has been asked a billion times already but oh well.

i am perfectly comfortable with how i look except for my stomache. it could be skinnier. i go back to school in about 3 weeks and i want to know some good workout ideas to get my stomache firmer by then.

if you have any ideas at all that you know will work, write back!!! (link)
exercise and eat healthy! try doing crunches..situps and stuff like that to tighten up your stomach! good luck! =)



I didn't know where to put this question, but anyway, I can ride horses bareback very well and I jump horses very well (with a saddle of course). Think I would get hurt if I tried jumping without a saddle? I've never fell off a horse bareback, and I flatout gallop them. Just wonderin. (link)
yea..its best to use the saddle..i don't know if you'll get hurt or not if you don't! but i think its safer to use the saddle! good luck! =)



I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do? (link)
just talk to her and be like "i'm trying to be a good friend and i don't want to see you get hurt..pregnant..or ruin your life..please understand this from my point of view" or something like that! =) good luck!



Ok this might sound so waird but....All my friends have done weed that i basically know or wanna try it theyre not pushing me into it but i wanna try it to like REALLY badly but i have second thoughts all the time like what if my parents found out and i dont wanna be llike that i wanna be a good kid well atleast i try to i dont know what to do!!!! (link)
follow your heart and don't do what other people want you to do! your not readi to try it and thats fine! i hope your never readi cause its not a good thing to do! these people don't realli seem like good friends either if they are pressuring you to do things you are not readi to! don't give in please! good luck! =)



theres a kid i went out with then i dumped him because i didnt have feelings for him now i like his brother and he's really mad at me because i like his brother i don't know what to do should i go back out with him so he wont be madc or like his brother? (link)
no way! if you don't like him..don't go out with him no matter what anyone else says! his brother is just being stupid right now..he'll get over it! if the feelings aren't there..there isn't gonna be a relationship..so why waste your time? go out..have fun..and meet new people! =)



Is it dorky to roll up your jeans if their to long or is that in style? j/w (link)
nah..its not dorky! just try doing it and creating your own style! hopefully you will be a leader and people will copy it from you! =)



hey i need help really quickly.. i have a digital camera but i dont know how to get the pic and like put it on the computer from the camera!?! if anyone knew that would be GREAT! xoxo!! (link)
i have one and i have a little cord with mine that is hooked up to the computer! and you stick it on this hole on the side and it automatically comes up on the screen! maybe you should call and ask the company that made it!



hi im 14 yeears old and i hasve had my period for quite awhwile, when i was 13, i have been using tapons for almost the hole time when i was taking it out it hurt and i couldn't get it out i looked and theres like a piece of skin not liek a piece but its suppose to be there, the string got hooked around it and i had to untangle it to get it out, is that normal?? (link)
um..i'm not sure if that is normal or not..but just talk to your parents or a doctor about it! thats the best thing to do! =)



Hey! I am a sophmore who recently moved from Arkansas to Texas and I have no idea if the styles are diffrent or not!!! I would really like to know what to wear on the first day since I don't know anybody. Oh and could u maybe tell me what your wearing! *I RATE HIGH!* (link)
maybe look at magazines around texas and see what the style is! but the best thing to do is just to be yourself and have your own style! =)



I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?
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just hang out with your friends..try exercising..and meeting new people! =) he probably did care...and just doesn't want to show it! thats how guys are! my ex was like that! lol try to be friends with him..but if that don't work..then just meet some other guys and have fun with them! you'll get over him eventually!



im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this? (link)
your not fat or ugly! your beautiful on the inside! don't worry about the age of getting your first kiss! the first time should be special and that day you remember forever (and the person you remember forever) age is nothing but a number! so please don't lower your self-esteem just cause you havent had your first kiss yet! your perfectly normal!



What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible? (link)
its all a matter of how mature this 14 year old is..like if they are into drugs..sex..or anything like that..i wouldn't leave them with a kid period. but if they are mature..i think maybe 1 year old or 2 years old it is fine! =)



Where can I get music for my Xanga? thanks (link)
www.xanga.com/xanga_music

www.xanga.com/free_music_here


You right click on it and click "copy shortcut" and paste it under music in the "look and feel" category! =)

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