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Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 4:11 pm

theres a kid i went out with then i dumped him because i didnt have feelings for him now i like his brother and he's really mad at me because i like his brother i don't know what to do should i go back out with him so he wont be madc or like his brother?

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xocutiepiesxo answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 8:24 am:
no way! if you don't like him..don't go out with him no matter what anyone else says! his brother is just being stupid right now..he'll get over it! if the feelings aren't there..there isn't gonna be a relationship..so why waste your time? go out..have fun..and meet new people! =)

<3*Chelsea<3*

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xxoBriannax answered Monday August 9 2004, 5:18 pm:
like his brother.. dont go out with someone just so they wont be mad.. fuck him tell him he had his chance and you dont like him like that!!




-xxoBrianna

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BeachBum5724 answered Monday August 9 2004, 4:56 pm:
you can't help who you like. if you like his brother, i think you should keep liking him. you shouldn't stop liking someone just to make another person happy. and if you don't like that guy anymore, he should be able to accept that and move on.
*Jess*

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LoViny0ux914 answered Monday August 9 2004, 4:43 pm:
dont go out w. someone out of guilt! if you dont want him 2 be mad, then just dont pursue nethin w. his bro. if u wana go out w. his bro, then go out w. him but dont expect ur friend not 2 b mad!! gl

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jj15 answered Monday August 9 2004, 4:43 pm:
tell him that he had his chance

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alisonmarie answered Monday August 9 2004, 4:27 pm:
Of course he's mad - that's how people act when their feelings get hurt. You did the right thing by not staying with him out of pity; that would be worse in the long run. You ripped the band-aid off quickly instead of letting it fester and grow moldy.

Good job.

I'd treat his brother the way you treat any other guy you like, but be aware that he might consider his brother's feelings of hurt. He might not date you out of consideration for his brother.

Either way, remember this: Don't date people to make them not mad. Date people to make yourself happy.

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Monday August 9 2004, 4:23 pm:
Like who you like and don't go out with someone if you don't like them anymore.

xox
casey

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