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ok well me and my bf say we love each other and have been 2gether for a while... but he told me he still has feelings for his x *loves her still* but i no tht he loves me and i no tht they were 2gether for a long tym but she treated him so badly and it hurts me 2 no tht and so i dont no y he loves her but i no being 2gether tht long tht he is still gonna have feelngs for her... so can someone help me out w/ some suggestions on how 2 talk 2 him about this, and should i be jealous tht he still has feelings for her?
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no, you should not be jealous..unless he wants to get back with her. But you just have to talk to him about it, just tell him you feel really strange about all of this and you just need to be re-assured that hes the one you want to be with and he loves you...and its normal for people to have feelings for their x`es..especially if they were going out for a long time..but after a while if he still really luv`s her and he always talk bout her...then you need to figure out who he luv`s more...so just talk to him and let out all your feelings, cause if he really loves you he will repsect you for talking to him about it and for telling him everything thats on your mind!
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I have experience with this. It is normal that he still has feelings for his ex...but as long as he loves you you have nothing to worry about. If you are uncomfortable when he talks about her then simply ask him to not talk about her.(but ask nicely)He will understand. If you dont care if he talks about her with you then just tell him how you feel.Best wishes ~Rosie~
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well i think there is reallii no tlking to him... i mean he reallii cant help it... nd he loves yu too...buh there`z gonna be a part of him that loves her if they were together for a real long tyme ya kno... nd yu have tha right to be a lil jealous cuz its makes yu think about yu guys m0re...buh if he says he loves yu nd he d0esnt wanna be wit her no more...then dun sweat it as much...cuz as tyme g0es by when yu`r wid him im sure he will grow more feelin`z for yu then he ever had for her
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I wouldn't say you should be jealous, but rather hurt. If he really loved you, why would he still have feelingsfor his ex? maybe he loves the thought of being in love with you. You should ask him what about his ex does he loves so much that he could possibly jeopardize your relationship by telling you so? I hope things really work out for you here.
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I think its ok for him to still have feelings for his ex..i mean you cant help what you feel, right? As long as he doesnt act on those feelings.
You can talk to him about it by asking about his relationship with her..ask him what he saw in his old gf..talk about how she hurt him.. and be supportive. Its pretty cool that your bf is open enough with you to tell you about his feelings (as long as he doesnt constantly talk about her).
Yes! Its perfectly ok to be jealous
hope i helped out
-melissa
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Be honest with him sweetie!!Let him know how that makes you feel.Tell him definitely doesn't make you love him any less but that it does hurt/bother/worry you that he still has feelings for his ex.I would tell him that he needs to really give this some thought because you don't want to continue in a relationship where your boyfriend is thinking of another girl!!!Whether it's good or bad,you deserve a straight answer out of him.You don't wanna allow him to string you along or to put off telling you his true feelings.It's good that he was honest and upfront with you about his situation.Hopefully he will keep up that pattern!!Best of luck hun,and let me know how it goes!!!Hope this helps some! :)
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hey hun! well most of the time people still have some feelings for their ex's! its perfectly normal as long as he doesn't break up with you for her..but if he does..then he's a loser and you can do better! =) i'm here if ya need to talk!
<3*Chelsea
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First of all, you say that you all have been together for a while.. well he should of dont forgot about her. Now if he talks to her on a regular basis, that is probably why. If i were you I'd just be like look.. We've been together __ months and if your not serious about it.. then you need to tell me. If you still love your ex, then obviously your not totally committied.
That was kinda blunt.
Celeste
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you should tell him that he's in a relationship and i don't know if it's serious but if it is you tell him that he has a gf and he needs 2 stop talking about his old love and forget her!! tell it's more for him 2 think about you 2!! :)
<3 .*.BeSs.*. <3
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