about

hey im allison
im 14 and i go to WBHS.
i love volley ball and snowboarding and i love spending time with my friends.
im a dork and i love it...and i dont care what you think.
music just so happens to be my life.
i like most music...just as long as it doesnt include a BANJO!...eww.
other then music...my life is dedicated to my bestest friends amber conner rachelle michelle and linnea. they are my reasons for breathing. ive had my heart broken twice by the same guy. and it was just recently. i really want some one to show him how i feel. but im still in deep like with this kidd. i dont regret the things that i do...i regret the things that i didnt do when i had the chance. that would happen to be my motto. tee hee(btw...i use 'tee hee' WAYYYY too much!)i like school. but im not good at it. im ok at it. but im still on 'second string' if you will. finding song quotes or just random takes up most of my time. and i have about 3 notebooks filled up in the last 2 or 3 months. im also eager to get better at drawing. i just really like it. but im not that passionate about it. that is really it for now. tee hee...(see! i told you so!!!)
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allison

advice

Alright, well there is this one guy that I've been hanging out with, but basically we're only friends so far. Everyone says that he likes me, and I like him, but I'm not sure about his feelings.

I'm not sure if I should make the first move and ask him out, or wait a little longer and see if he does?

well you should make the first move. if you like him and you are comfortable around him then its a good chance that things will happen in your favor!!
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I was making out with this girl the other night at a party and I guess she was pretty tossed since she freaking threw up in my MOUTH. Since then, I haven't been able to eat anything--because vomit is disgusting, and swallowing some of someone else's vomit grossed me out that much. Whenever I go to eat something I feel like throwing up myself so I can't eat. GaaaahhHhh what do I do?

uhh...was she DRUNK???!!!
jeeze. i feel really bad for you. uhh...dont eat anything that reminds you of vomit. no dont eat anything. stick to water kid.
BLEGH!!!
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hi. ok i was just wondering if there was any software or like an online thingy where i can put my photo in and like change the color of my hair, make up, etc.???? i have a cd rom for it but it doesnt work on my computer my computer is too advanced for it. so i was just wondering if there was any online thingy that does the same?? thanks.

i really hope that you are doing this just for fun because yeah. dont change. im sure everyone loves you just the way you are!
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i have a friend and she had sex with her bf and then everyone found out that she did that and know i barley have any friends cause they thought that i was the one telling everyone witch i wasnt! it was someone else now im kinda scared to go to highskool cuz i think everyone going to talk shiznit that im the "RUMERER" and i had allot of friends know i only have about 4 so cana help a sissta out pizzz??

you need to talk to the person that s telling eveyone about it and ask her to stop blaming you. if she isnt blaming you then ask her to set eveyone straight. if she doesnt go for that then a nice bitch slap can do everyone good every once in a while!
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ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get?

i personally think that you are wayyyy too youeng to have sex. but my bet friend just lost his virginity and i got over that very quickly. so if you think that you are ready for this then you should probably check the bathroom vending machines (wow i did not just sugest that...) or go to the pharmacy they've got em'. trojan. oh and dont be too uhh...for lack of a better word cocky when it comes to size. nothing cane be worse than your condom being too big. that would be the worst.
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My bf keeps telling me what girls hot, and etc. It lowers myself-esteem. How do I look sexxy, so he looks at me, more then them. How can i plan hard to get, for him to want me more. I just want him to want me still.. we've been together for a year and a half.. so dont go saying breakup. Its not that harsh.

((sorry if you've seen this question twice.. the other one got deleted.. sorry))

well your bf is a shallow dick and he needs to change for you. but if you want advice on how to sex it up a little bit try polos' that button a little lover and a cami that is lower cut so you can show off a little skin. tight pants are always good.(just dont go buying uncomfortable pants that will cut off your circulation!!)i also would NOT recoment short skirts. that might make you seem a little bit slutty. also...dont become an easy little tramp. that will please him for a while but then he will come up with something like you are too loose for me and leace you on the curb. i should know...its happened to my friend and i end up having to deal with her tears. but dont do anything that you are uncomfortable with. that always leads to trouble.
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Guys, my dog is an inside puppy, hes about 10 weeks old, and we leave him outside sometimes, like when we have to leave, and when he was out there today, he found out how to open one of the ant poison things, AND ate everything in it!!!!
Does anybody know fi thats strong enough to kill him?! PLEASE HELP ME

that stuff is very poisious. my advice is take him to the vet rite away. it could discover and stop any problems before they get to big to handle.
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at our school we have to do a project on the book we read and im not very good with names and i forgot all the names of the main characters in the book. i only want your advice if you have read the book. it is called double dutch.
these are the people i need:
~the main girl that can't read
~her friend that is always telling the lies
~and the boy who lives home alone cause he doesn't know where his father is

i think the first one i mentioned was delia and i think the second one was destiny but i can't remember i also have the tolliver twins, if you know both of their names that would help too if not just the 3 above thanks and i will need the advice by this friday, the 11

hah i was supposed to read that book for language arts!!!! yeah rite. sorry.

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My group of friends are pretty close and have known each other for awhile. We know pretty much everything about each other. But we would really like to play the drinking game "I've Never" (where everyone sits in a circle and someone says something true about themselves like, "I've never stolen anything over 10 dollars" and anyone in the circle who has, has to take a shot, you find things out). I need some suggestions to sort of get it going in a deeper sort of way. I need good "i've nevers" for people who know the basic things you've never done...maybe taboo sort of things we wouldn't normally tell each other. I know its stupid, but any i've nevers would be appreciated.

ive never skinny dipped
ive never hooked up with a friends sibling
ive never done something that i regreted
ive never gotten stung by a bee.

ask stupid questions that will insure eveyone gets shit faced drunk. i play the same game but we call it never have i ever. and when we are in school we call it 10 fingers...and when one applies to us we have to put one finger down. its quite amusing.
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yesterday i spent the night at my friend savannah's.
we went through her woods to meet my boyfriend @ 2 in the morning..bunch of bugs.
then i used her deoderent this morning..
and i shaved yesterday..
i have a really annoying rash under my underarms and it hurts really really bad..and i dont know what it is so i dont know how to treat it..

any idea?

maybe its just razor burn but it could also be because of yousharing deoderant...ask your friend if she has the same rash
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ok... so im confused... well i've been treated like pure shit when it comes to boyfriends... they all start out amazing but end terribly... i no alot of relationships end badly but this is pretty ridiculous... my last one we were dating for like 5 months... the day he left for vacation he told me he loved me... 9 days later when he got back from mexico he broke up w/ me... he really didnt have a reason... and i havent done anything to make him all of the sudden want to break up.... the only thing he said is he was going into highschool (i already go to the highschool) and it is going to be cross country season (which i thought was a poor excuse becasue i play tennis)... well i know you dont want to read alot.... but seriously i want to talk to some people (ill tell you about myself so maybe you can help me understand y this keeps happening) but basically i really dont understand and im confused becasue i dont know y some guys are like this.. i told myself that they were just stupid and made a mistake... hopfully u can tell me... but before you do i think you need to know about me.... so please respond and ill tell you about me

my only answer for this is guys are dicks. they only know how to be dicks. most of them are just afraid of commitment. some of them dont realise what they have. the rest just dont know what they want. if this has happened to you a lot... then im not trying to be mean when i say this but maybe you just have bad taste in men. this will change whe you find someone who truly loves you and means it when they say this. there is someone out there for you. just try not to end up with someone who doesnt appreciate you.
hope i helped!
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I've been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. I suppose to everyone else he's a dog- thats just what I've been told, but it was never the most important thing to me. He has the best personality and he's hilarious. My problem is, I've started fantasizing a lot, and I know its ok to do sometimes, that its normal and all, but I can't stop. I can't stop wishing he had a hot body like some of our friends. When those friends are around, I find myself flirting shamelessly because I'm just overcome with lust! He's said he's going to start working out and that he wants to get fit, be more attractive physically, but he's not very motivated. I want to stop fantasizing- it makes me feel so guilty! I'm starting to pull away from his affection because I can't help but notice his love handles or spare tire or whatever. My body is less than perfect, but its not that bad because I work out and take care of it. Is it wrong of me to feel this way? How do people deal with these feelings???

well if you say that you are commited and you tell people that your commited and you tell him that you are commited...then BE COMMITED! dont be shallow and dump him or any other drastic measures because he doesnt have a 'hot bod' like all of your other friends. if you truly love him then things like that shouldnt bother you.
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So im trying to get in better shape and so ive been drinking alot of water, and ive start to go out jogging for 30min to an hour each night and ive been doing about 300 crunches each day. Is this gonna help me lose weight and get in shape?

i think that this is a very good ritual... (i just might have to follow it my self,tee hee)you will most definitly help you with weight loss and with getting into shape.
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Alright basically i was diagnosed with anorexia two years ago. Now my question isnt about me being it cuz i know im not ive been keepin an average menstration cycle. My question is should i go on a diet or do you think that would be stupide becuase if i restrict i might become anorexic again. Im weighing at 115 im size 2 and small - medium in shirts..so im not huge but im not very very thin..im 5'3" if that helps you get a vision of my boy type im fit but i wonder if itd be okay to limit my foods. Im supposed to be at 124 but 115 is okay to..id like to be down to 112 im 16 years old. alright now that ive rambled on what do you think?

stayy at what weight that you are. its a healthy weight. if you were going to do anything then you should gain a few pounds. but you should be content with where you are at.
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What's a good skin care ritual? Like what are some of your suggestions for products to use, when to use them and how to use them to prevent and treat acne without drying out your skin too much? Thanks in advance!!!

well you should try proactive it really worked for my really good friend. shes got really clear skin. but for me (i dont have terribly bad acne) i just use astringent. it works really well. i use either avon blackhead solution (not just for blackheads!) the clinique line is really good. but if your on a low budget try oil free neutrogena. it also works really well.
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I'm aware that the new style is now 'skinny' jeans, but I think they are absolutely hideous. I refuse to wear them. My question is will I stick out in school this year? It seems like lots of people are switching to skinny jeans, and I'm sticking with my flares. Just tell me that truth, I need to know. Are flares still okay or is it all about skinny?

stick with what you like. you shouldnt waste your money on something that you absolutely hate because everyone else likes them.
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if my boyfriend went down on me= with kanker sores what would happan?

uh... im not really sure but you should be searching for something unusuial like a sooer. if any appear see a doctor immediatly. but if not just be careful.
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is doing about 700 crunches in one night within about 20/30 minutes unhealthy & bad for you ? & how affective would that be if i'm trying to burn fat on my stomache and tighten it up some ?

well it certainly will tighten up the muscle and help you lose body fat. but i think that 700 crunches is a bit extreme. so loosen up a bit. dont do too many. if you are really that serious about it try 500 a night. it will stll help you with the muscle and stomach fat but you wont get worn down as easily.
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well this guy i know and have dated
the first time we dated i broke up cause my friend sayed he cheated.
then we dated agian and this time i dumped him
cause he said my friend was a stupid b...
but now i'm really confussed and someone is lying
to me and i wanna know who.
last time i dated him was the first time i
ever saw him this mean.
but i think both my friend and him are lying about each other.
cause usually he's really nice.
but she always says crappy things about him.
and he denys it.
and he always says crapy things about her.
and she denys it.
and her boy friend called me asking me to go back out with him.
cause there friends.
but he's always going on about how cool he is and
how all these girls like him. so why can't he just leave me alone?
i need help.

i think you should go for it!
but only if you are up to it. dont do it for him do it for yourself. and just try to tune out all the bad crap that they say about each other. those are the things that will ruin your relationship with both the guy and your friend. because if you listen to both of them you will get bad ideas about them. that is never good.
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So yesterday I went to a baseball game with my friend. My other friend found out and go jealous. So today the other friend was suppose to come over but she said she would come later because she was going to the high school with another friend. I wasn't jealous i was just upset that she ditched me. So I talked to my "friend" about it and all I said was that i'm mad that she ditched me. So the jealous friend heard that I said that and said I was talking about her behing her back. Was I talking about her behind her back?

well technicallly yes because she wasnt there to hear it. but if you just say somthing about her casuially then it isnt. oh and you shouldnt trust that "friend" with any other secrets if shes loose in the mouth with secrets. she shouldnt have told your other friend what you said.
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