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No More Drama No More Pain
i have a friend and she had sex with her bf and then everyone found out that she did that and know i barley have any friends cause they thought that i was the one telling everyone witch i wasnt! it was someone else now im kinda scared to go to highskool cuz i think everyone going to talk shiznit that im the "RUMERER" and i had allot of friends know i only have about 4 so cana help a sissta out pizzz??
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Screw them. They SUCK.
Walk up to your "friends" and go, "LOOK ALL YOU FAGGOTS. I DID NOT SPREAD A FREAKING RUMOR ABOUT MY FRIEND. YOU CAN'T JUST GO BLAMING THE FIRST PERSON YOU SEE. IT WAS (say the faggots name who told everyone)! OKAY? NOT ME. SO STOP TALKING ALL THIS CRAP ABOUT ME."
They seriously are being immature, though. Pshhh four is more than none anyways. At least they believe you. It's better to have four true friends then 53 faggots who talk about you behind your back and lie to you and all that crap.
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you need to talk to the person that s telling eveyone about it and ask her to stop blaming you. if she isnt blaming you then ask her to set eveyone straight. if she doesnt go for that then a nice bitch slap can do everyone good every once in a while!
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hey, well you should have a little meeting with eveyrone that was involved. let everyone including you explain there side of the story. then from there see what happens. if you want further advice like if that didnt work just send soemthing in my inbox and ill continue helping you.
-caitt♥
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Well if you really didn't do it then you should tell her and everyone that you weren't the one that told people. If they don't believe you then maybe they weren't that good of friends in the first place if they can't even stick with you and try to believe you.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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First of all does your freimd believe taht you didnt start the rumor??If she does,the she should help you by telling the others that it wasnt you who started it.If she doesnt beilive you then thats her problem,next school year just stand your ground and tell everyone the truth,they dont have to beilive you,and if you have freinds that beilive you,let them stick up for you.
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to be honest ;; there isn't really anything you can do to change the way people think. they will alwyas do what they want. highschool is full of drama. just be yourself, and act like it doesn't bother you. you know that you didn't tell everyone. and if they didn't want people to know their business, they shouldn't have told ANYONE!! they aren't your true friends if they will sit there and get mad over something like that. when you didn't even do it. just let it go, and over time people will forget about it.
[♥]barbie[♥]
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Wow, that is HARSH. You need to have a talk with that friend. Try and found out who was spreading the rumors in the first place.
Don't be afraid to go to high school. Hold your head up high and face them. You can't runaway from it so just face it.
If people won't be your friend for something they can't prove, don't waste your time on them.
We are lucky to have even one true friend in our life so having 4 is good.
Remeber, don't yell, get mad or anything when someone says something like rumorer to you or something. Just state what you know in a CALM manner.
Being CALM is the key and if you dont, the people will just twist that fact to make you look bad.
Remeber high school is full of drama and cat fights. Just keep yourself out of it and you'll be fine.
and do not do not go around spreading or saying bad stuff about your friend or anyone else because they'll grab the false info about u saying something to use against you and its a big big ...ahhh
just stay calm and don't get yourself caught up in the drama
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