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is it slutty
Is it slutty to give your boyfriend a hand job and letting him finger you when you're only 13?
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I always thought it was;
until my best friend did just that.
I tried to show her that even though she
made some stupid choiced like that, she was
still my best friend.
But yes, I still do not think thats very appropriate for a 13 year old.
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I wouldn't say slutty since you're not jumping from person to person giving strangers hand jobs. But you are to eager to get sexual! You have already lost your virginity at the age of 13. What would people think of you? Although people who are older won't think of you as a slut, if the word got out that you and your bf had have been doing what you guys are doing, it's going to be really bad. If it got out in school, it could get to the counsler, your parents and yikes. It becomes a big mess. I think that you two are way to eager to have sex and the next think you know, you two will be having sexual intercours! Did you know that even if he doesnt penetrate you or you don't put his penis in your mouth, you can still get STDs? What will happen then? Mom, I'm 13 and I have syphilis. What if you got pregnant? Did he come on your hand? Did you wash it throughly? His sperm can somehow get into your body and boom, you're a 13yr old mom! It takes more than $100 for diapers. $50 + for formulas. And oh so much more. To take care of a baby (not including daycare) it can add up to $700 a year!! For ONE baby.
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Well, It's not Slutty as he is your boyfriend it's not like its just some random dude, BUT you are way to young to be having sex. A person should only have sex when there mature enough to handle the consequences. Could you handle having a STD? Could you take care of a baby?-And I don't mean just take care of one, I mean have YOUR OWN money to feed it, clothe it and everything else, not to mention you have school, so you would have to pay for daycare which is $500.00 a month not unless you drop out of school and just be a stupid child with a child. I'm not trying to be mean to you at all so forgive me if I come off that way, I just don't think your ready (or any one at that age for that matter) for all the consequences sex can have. And if your already particpating in some sexual activities then it wont be to much longer before you do the real deal, so just think long and hard if you are TRULY ready because that is the REAL question here.
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In my opinion, yes, because you have no idea what you are getting into and you need to understand more about the situation before going that far. But I also know some 13 year olds who have done more then that. You need to slow down and start acting like a kid again, don't grow up too fast. And if you keep doing what your doing, soon you will regret it.
//X0 H0LLY
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nope.
not if hes your boyfreind
but if hes not your boyfreind then yes a little bit.
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