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Question Posted Wednesday August 9 2006, 2:43 pm

So yesterday I went to a baseball game with my friend. My other friend found out and go jealous. So today the other friend was suppose to come over but she said she would come later because she was going to the high school with another friend. I wasn't jealous i was just upset that she ditched me. So I talked to my "friend" about it and all I said was that i'm mad that she ditched me. So the jealous friend heard that I said that and said I was talking about her behing her back. Was I talking about her behind her back?

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SHELBYcrunkpants answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 4:06 pm:
Yes you were but she shouldnt have gotten mad over it. She ditched you and she needs to deal with the consequences. She is probably just unstable right now so try to talk to her about your guys relationship. Tell her she has no reason to be jealous and that even if she mightve got jealous, that she shouldnt have ditched you.

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ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 3:28 pm:
Seems like this friend gets very jealous and is unstable with herself and seeks revenge when she's hurt.

So you went to a baseball game with a friend. So what? Nothing to make a big deal out of it. I mean she's the one who is being the immature one. You offered her a chance to hang out with you because she was upset but she declined it and now she's saying that you're talking behind her back when you weren't talking about her.

You need to confront her face to face and talk this out and if this behavior continues, she's not worth your time

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JBAR answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 3:23 pm:
Well, yes, but not in a bad way at all. Also, if you only told one person that, then wouldn't she have been the one to tell your jealous friend? Just don't talk about anyone to that friend anymore, because you never know who she'll tell, even though you said nothing bad about the jealous friend at all.

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allishow answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 3:09 pm:
well technicallly yes because she wasnt there to hear it. but if you just say somthing about her casuially then it isnt. oh and you shouldnt trust that "friend" with any other secrets if shes loose in the mouth with secrets. she shouldnt have told your other friend what you said.
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