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hey, how can i show to my husband that am sexy and hot?!
what should i do?

Well, you can certainly buy sexy clothes and try to look hot, but according to my experience guys find confident women sexy. Love yourself, and do things that make you happy. Believe in yourself and believe that you are beautiful inside out. Be confident in who you are as a person, and don't let people get to you.

Another thing you can do is show an interest in him and things he loves. Ask him about his favorite assignments at work, if he tells you about a difficult incident that happened, ask him how he managed to rise above it and fight it etc. Show him that you respect him, and he will love you for that.

Good luck! Hope I helped ;)

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Anyone that has had experience with this please your advice is highly appreciated!

My boyfriend (he just turned 21) of 1.5 years has had depression and anger issues for a very long time but 7 or 8 months ago he finally went on depression medication. Things got better until recently when he mentioned he felt ngrylike it stopped working for him and he got his dose upped. Now two weeks later today he blew up over a conversation we were having and was very mean and i told him this is an instance in which he needs to step back and see how angry he gets over unreasonable things. He now tells me dont worry your life and everyone elses will be better off without me and I'm going to isolate myself from the world for a week so dont talk to me. I made him call me and told him i loved him and I wanted to talk to him and he said he would call me later. I asked him if he was going to be okay and he said i dont know, and I told him i wasnt hanging up until he promised he was and he said he promises to call me later.

Then he sends a similar message to his sister that he hates his life and cant take it anymore and is done with everyone in it and it will soon be over. She texted me this and I'm at home he lives like 30 minutes away but I dont know what to do because he turned off his phone and wont answer my calls. She told me she told her dad to go find him and apparently he did, but he still wont answer his phone and I have no idea whats going on and his dad being there doesnt give me much relief because he has a lot of pills in his room so he can easily do something while his dad isnt looking and I'm really scared and don't know what to do, I cant focus on anything today except this! What can I do and even if he doesnt do anything today what can i do to help him!?? Hes told me I do and im the only reason he hasnt tried suicide yet but what he said today is not okay! HELP!?

You need to tell a responsible adult what is going on. Your boyfriend is in a lot of pain, and he needs to go get help. He might have to be placed in a special institution until he's safe to go home. You seem like a great caring girlfriend, and your boyfriend needs your support along this difficult journey. Let him know that you have his back, and you'll support him no matter what. Tell him how much he means to you, and that's the reason you told someone, because you don't want him to get hurt. When someone is suicidal they can't see clear, and they are totally hopeless and helpless. They don't believe that things will get better. That's why they resolve to suicide. Only someone from the outside can help them understand that it is only temporary. You're young, and you shouldn't carry this heavy burden on your shoulders. Let the professionals take over. They will take care of your boyfriend, and teach him methods of coping with his awful pain. He will probably reject you at first, and he'll be really really angry, but in the end, you will save his life, and one day he'll realize that and be eternally grateful.

Good luck and take care :)

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I'm making a video and it has a part where someone from a family dies. What are some songs I could use.

(Has to be pop/slow pop/country-pop.)

You can go to:
coolrain44.wordpress.com/2010/05/25/songs-about-grief-loss-of-a-loved-one/
for a list of songs that might be right for your presentation.

My personal favorite is "Heaven was needing a hero" by: Jo Dee Messina. It's very touching.

Good luck :)

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so recently my friend told me shes had sex with two guys one of which was a one night stand. but the thing is is that we're both 13 and thoses guys hadnt even been going out with her. (they were the same age, though) And every guy Ive ever gone out with (4 of them) all went out with me because they were dared to. And my friend makes a point of this all the time. Im not suicidal, im just insecure because i feel like all these people hate me because ive never even hugged a guy let alone had sex with one. i feel so dumb and stupid.

The dumb and stupid one is your friend for having sex at such a young age. At the time it may seem like the cool thing to do, but as she'll get older she'll forever regret it. Don't rush yourself into these things. You're only a child once, so enjoy yourself while you still can, and don't be pressured into sex ever.

Wait until you're older and until the right guy comes along. You'll be glad you waited.

Good luck :)

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SORRY THIS IS LONG IN ADVANCE . Okay so I am a 14 year old girl & am going to the 9th grade . For most of my life I have these moments when I wake up and just am in a bad mood for absolutely no reason . I am no longer cutting & my friends are helping me with my drinking & drug problem . I know you're probably thinking what is a 14 year old doing that stuff for . Well to tell you the turth i do it to escape the real problem . I have a great boyfriend who supports me 100% & a lot of friends that to as well . I can go from laughing & havimg fun to a dark place where i just get a blank look on my face & anger , sadness,& hate just take over & i have no reason as to why , but i'd really like to get better for my friends & myself . When I tell my parents about it they just say that im acting . they know that i have cut before but i nnever went to therapy to talk to anyone about . & as much as i hate talking about my feelings i even asked them to send me to one so that i could get help . they fight all the time & take it out on me which make me grab the ciroc & the vodka & the knife . Please help me .

It's very tough being a teenager, but what you're going through seems to be more than that. You are very smart to realize that you need to get help, and you are brave to stop cutting. I know how hard that is. It's not fair that you should have to live under such terrible circumstances. We're not doctors, so we can't tell you if you're bipolar. I am bipolar, and even though I had a feeling for a long time that I had the illness, I couldn't know for sure until I was diagnosed. I suggest you go see a psychiatrist, and describe to him what you just described here. You should definitely go see a therapist. The right therapist can change your life. Sit down with your parents, and explain to them that this is for real, and you desperately need to go see someone. If they don't listen to you, talk to an adult you trust about your situation.

I sincerely hope you feel better soon, and your life is great again. You deserve to be happy. Good luck :)

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I am living with my old aged parents & daughter-in-law (4 yrs. old baby) my sister (baby's mother) is a employee in another place. And I have a very affection with this child from last 4 yrs. Recently I married and my wife is not interested to live with this child, and this child does not have any other source to live. Everyday my wife getting pressure on me to go outside from home. I am not ready to leave my old aged parents and young child and I feel to I am doing injustice to all my family members and decided to die............ I am requesting to all life partners please understand to your partners situation and give your support to them for resolving this type of problems..........
Thanks

If you kill yourself, you'll hurt your family that you love so much in an unfathomable way. Don't cut your life short because of this situation. It's very very painful, but there are ways to work it out. I would suggest you leave your wife. If she causes you so much pain that you want to cut your life short, the two of you shouldn't be together. Go back to your family, and try to find a solution together. Suicide is the coward's way out. Man up, and fight your problems, don't chicken out and kill yourself. Before you know it, this will be a thing of the past and life will be great again. Trust me, I've wanted to kill myself many many times. It's a tough situation, but it's not worth your life. Give it the chance, and find out for yourself how wonderful life can be if only you give it the chance. You have so much strength in you, so use it!

Good luck and take care :)

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I really want to die i cant stand my life anymore and i need a way to go painlessly please help me end my sufferring.

I'm sorry you are feeling so awful. I've been suicidal a lot, and I understand how you feel. Remember that your plight is only temporary, and you are strong enough to pull through this. One day your life will be great again. Please get help for your pain. You do not deserve to die, and you do not deserve to live under such terrible circumstances. There are lots of great people who care about you. You can call 1800.273.TALK or 1800.SUICIDE, and talk over your problems. Calls are confidential, and they can really help you. Be a fighter, don't give in!

Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon :)

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I don't like what any of you people have to say for yourselves. Wanting to die? I mean, COME ON, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. You should listen to the 12 year old boy who lost his girlfriend because she was moving somewhere else. Like he said, you have to have faith, and like I say you have to get on with life. My mother passed away 2 years ago and did I get on with life? YES I DID!!! God told me that if you commit suicide, he would put you in hell in the Lake of Fire to burn,die,burn,die repeatedly until 10 years later.Hey,12 year old boy, if you read this, I want to ask you something.I am a 12 year old religious girl who thinks you are faithful and true. I don't want to be your girlfriend, but I want to just tell you that the words you said were very...lovely.God tells me that your girlfriend will come back one day and you will marry,but before that you will have many other girlfriends. One day you meet me and our eyes will lock immediately but we won't recognize each other.

You should feel very lucky that you've never felt suicidal instead of attacking others who feel that way. You are in no position to judge. Suicidal feelings are usually caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain, and the person who feels like that can't help it.

You do not know what it's like to feel suicidal. I can't think of anything worse than that. Giving up on your life is the worst kind of pain. Instead of judging, how about you try to help others?

I fully agree with the person below me. Your talk about hell is very very hurtful. You don't know for sure what happens in afterlife.

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I'm a 16 year old girl in New Jersey. I went to a private all-girls school for grade 9 and 10 , because I hate myself, my body, my lack of confidence and courage. My parents want to send me to public school next year for gr 11 for they can no longer afford private. I've been thinking about committing suicide and cry myself to sleep every night for about 2 years. I hate everything about me, but my skills and love in ICT. I lack confidence, courage, and am too scared to go out in public. I've kept a lot of secrets for friends and for myself from my family, and not helping out my parents in housework has made them weak. I have 3 younger sisters and a brother who's the youngest.

As much as I hate myself and intend to commit suicide for various reasons I cant explain, I want to watch my brother grow up too. I don't want that I commit suicide, and my mother gets ill from it, and the future of my siblings be shattered. I dont want my family to hold their heads in shame after my death. They've done nothing wrong raising me all this time- it's just that I'm a coward. I have migraines and other bodily problems, I dont want to have sex, I hate my body, I dont want to have children and get married, I dont want to step out in public, I dont want to go to college; I'm just too shy and nervous. The problem here is I cant visit or call any one without my family knowing, and I'm planning to get rid of myself before grade 11 starts. I want to die and rot in hell for the bastard and sins I am and have done, but I wanna see my family and sibligs and their future as well. I dont want my death to split the family apart; I'm a horrible rolemodel and my siblings arent that good as they should be either.

I honestly dont know what to do ; I'm too big of a coward for many reasons, but I'll miss living as well. Yeah, this is awkward, but I'm done with convincing myself I can do anything good. I'm lazy, emotional, and a little more than average in beauty. What should I do?

I know where you're coming from. That's exactly how I feel when I'm very severely depressed. You are severely depressed, that explains your extreme lack of self confidence. You should NOT be living like this! It's unbearable, and suicide seems to be the only solution. I know how bad your heart is bleeding. I've been there countless times.

Trust me when I say this: it is not possible to survive this on your own. Please go get help immediately. Life can be really awesome again! I am talking from experience. When you're in that awful dark place, you're not alive.

First of all, let me tell you some things you don't know about yourself. You are a wonderful person, and you deserve the best life possible. The world cannot afford to lose someone as special as you. You light up this world just by being here, and you have so much to contribute to the universe. Don't ever give up on yourself! You are so much stronger than you think you are.

There are many people who care about you, and want to help make your life easier. You can call either of these suicide hotlines: 1800.273.TALK or 1800.SUICIDE. The calls are completely confidential, and they'll really help you out.

As for your feelings of guilt, and your belief that you should rot in hell, that's not true. You shouldn't rot in hell. You may have made some bad decisions, but you can always repent and start over.

Get out, and get a life! Do things that make you happy! There are so many things you still have to accomplish and experience. When you feel down, discuss it with someone who can help, or write it down in a journal or song. There are so many dreams you still need to pursue, so many places you haven't explored yet, so many exotic tastes and fragrances you haven't yet experienced, the list goes on and on.

Right now your life may suck, and it feels like forever, but the truth is it is only temporary. One day the light will shine upon you again like it has on me. You just need to give it the chance.

Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon :) You can leave a message in my inbox if you need any support whatsoever. You are not alone in this!

Remember that life is precious. Experience it, don't settle for this pain!

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which is the tablet to end my life so easily

There's no way to end your life "easily", however there are ways to make your life "easier". Life can suck like hell sometimes, and there really seems to be no way out but to kill yourself. But when you're in that dark place, what you don't know is that there is hope! If you go get help for your awful despair, you'll be surprised at how wonderful your life can turn out to be. I've battled suicide for a really really long time, and I know where you're coming from. I know how badly your heart is bleeding and how you are pleading for someone to hear your silent cry. No one who hasn't been there can understand this or be in any position to judge.

The only reason I'm here today is because of my medication. I can't fathom myself without it. Suicidal ideation isn't anyone's fault, and it so hard to deal with, but with the right treatment, you'll wake up from the suicide "coma", and love life again.

Please give it the chance. You deserve to be happy and have a great life. Whatever challenges you're facing right now are only temporary. I know that it feels like forever and there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel, but there is hope. You have every reason to live, and no bully or abuser is going to deny you that. Don't surrender! You are so much stronger than you think you are. You are facing something so huge, and you shouldn't be dealing with this alone. It is IMPOSSIBLE! Trust me.

Every single friend I have has either thought about suicide, attempted suicide, or was close to attempting, as well as myself. The only way we survived is because we reached out to someone who could help us.

You can call 1800.273.TALK or 1800.SUICIDE. There are professionals taking calls 24/7, and the calls are confidential. They can really help you. Why be so sad when there's an alternative? Remember that you are irreplaceable in this world, and so is your unconditional love, incredible kindness, and your charming laughter. Don't give in, be a fighter!

Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon! You can leave a message in my inbox if you need any support whatsoever. I am here to help you and support you along this journey. Remember that you are not alone!

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Hey alexis!! Its me david and I just want to tell you that me and tiana are oficially in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship as of yesterday. Yesterday I took tiana to see a movie and we watched Brave, not much people where in there for some reason but we sat in the top back row and we had popcorn and hotdogs, I even snuck in some beef jerky.
The date was great! and I paid for everyhing.
After the movie she gave me a kiss and hugged me and thanked me for a great time. As for me I was to shocked at what happened, we never had kissed eachother before and now I feel like the happiest guy in the world, I never felt this way before about anyone.
I just want to thank you alexis for helping me gain back my confidence. Id probably still be with my ex right now if it wasnt for, and I wouldnt be with tiana.
Thank you alexis! You should go see Brave!
- Sincerely David -

Wow David, I am so so so happy for you! Tiana is very lucky to have you, and it's great to hear that you are doing well! Remember a short while ago? You wanted to kill yourself, and now? "I feel like the happiest guy in the world!" That's beyond awesome!

Btw, I had the feeling Tiana would go for the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. Lol!

I am really glad to help, and I love hearing from you! I hope your life is great!

Good luck and take care of your very special self :)

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14/f
Saturday night I was at my younger cousin's birthday party and after most everybody had left, some of my family were sitting out on the back patio on a couch. One of my uncles was sitting next to me and all of a sudden while he was drinking, he put his legs in my lap. I moved away a little and he ended up just resting his feet against my leg. I didn't think too much of it until he started rubbing his foot against my leg and started to pull my dress back a little. But I couldn't tell if it was done subconsciously or not. And then later, more people came out so we all had to squeeze together on the couch. He had his hand out behind my neck and kind of stroked my neck a little. Is this normal? I mean, I'm not really close to any of my uncles and none of them are as "hands on" (like putting arm in a hug) like he is. I feel kinda uncomfortable around him sometimes, even though I know that he loves my aunt and wouldn't do anything stupid or inappropriate to me. But I still have that weird little feeling in the back of my head. I honestly can't tell if it's bad or if I'm just being paranoid.

What your uncle committed is very very inappropriate and serious, and I believe you should tell your parents about it. Pulling up your dress is totally unacceptable, and I would term it sexual abuse. He might go further next time, so make sure to tell someone about this.

Good luck :)

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So, 13/f and I met this dude. 16/m and I haven't really met him offiicially or seen the guy. I just try to imagine him. Lets just say his name is Mike. When I think about his REAL name the thing that comes to mind is blonde hair blue eyes and let the rest fall in place. Well, we talked over the power of the internet and he sounds really nice and harmless. I don't know who he really is or what he looks like we met by chance on this really cool website and happened to hit him up about it. I think I like him, he sounds pretty harmless to me, but that's just the internet, he might be some homeboy trying to get a life. Who knows he might even a 50 perverted year old dude who is lonely and stupid. So, how do I get to bring up the subject of what we look like in a convo while chatting?? Is 3 years older than me way out of my league?? I mean, IDK if he's in a relationship wit someone, but I want to get some ideas. Can you guys give me some please?? Thanks so much.

Don't trust this guy. The chances are, he's not who he says he is. I know lots of cases of people being raped and killed through such meetings. Besides, I don't think you should date a 16 year old.

I was sexually abused a while ago, and I am still suffering awful trauma. Save yourself that awful pain, and get rid of him.

People lie online, and they may seem totally harmless and charming. This guy can be a 30 year old criminal for all you know. Please be careful, for your own sake.

Good luck :)

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i live in aurora colorado

Having sex at 12 can be detrimental to your mental health. You are very young, and not ready. Wait until you are older. There are lots of risks associated with sex such as accidental pregnancy. You may think you're ready, but believe me, you'll regret it. How about enjoying yourself and having fun with your friends? You're only a child once, you don't want to ruin it for yourself. Sex comes later on in life.

Good luck :)

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I need to know wot people think of rules in a relationship. I have this boyfriend with whom I got too many do's and dont's.
Well things like get home early in the evenings when out with friends (m talking 7 pm!)which is really early. Strictly no meeting up with Male friends unless my boyfriend is informed. Even if allowed to meet any, strict deadlines to get back home early. No talking to anybody after 10pm (be it anybody except family )family was made an exception on my request. No wearing shorts or sleeveless! though something i wud have loved in a store.Strictly no drinking when he is not around (he is in a different country). One of my best friend's happens to be a guy. my boyfriend never liked him since this friend cared a lot for me. So one more rule added- 'never talking to him again'!

Well all this i followed religiously until today where I got 2 days left for my birthday and my friends are planning a girls night out. so that means drinking involved. I tried asking my boyfriend if could have this party(strictly girls party) . But he says 'NO'! n also mentions its hurting to say 'no'. Last birthday he didnt let me receive phone calls! so i missed lot of people trying to wish me on my birthday. Later he justified saying he said that only when we were busy with something else. Is this healthy? peolpe say life is not a fairytale. is it true to this extent? what should I do?

You deserve a boy that's better than that. Your boyfriend has no right to control your life. You are your own person, and if you want to wear shorts and sleeveless then do! You have the right to have male friends, and have girls only parties, and whatever else it is.

You have to stand up for yourself, and tell your boyfriend to stop controlling you. If he doesn't listen, then go find someone else. You deserve so much more, and your boyfriend doesn't deserve you. Who does he think he is? This is not healthy at all, and it needs to stop.

Good luck and I hope you work it out :)

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My name is david and im 16 and im having trouble asking a girl out, but the problem is that she is my best friend, her name is tiana she is also 16, we have been best friends since 3rd grade and now where sophmore's. i recently broke up with my gf about a month ago for cheating and tiana has been helping me deal with it every step of the way, i started noticing that i liked her when i started dreaming about her in my dreams, and now i just cant stop thinking of her, everytime i meet her at school i get butterrflies, i just cant stop thinking of her. i want to ask her out on a date but im scared she might reject and we might stop being best friends. i dont know what to do i wanna be with her but i dont wanna lose her, i dont want to lose my best friend... SHOULD I ASK HER OR LEAVE IT THE WAY IT IS? i dont know what to think.

I think you should try hinting it to her, and see what her reaction is. If you really like her, then give it a shot. The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Be prepared for that.

Not asking her out is definitely playing it safe, but if you have those feelings for her and you don't ask her out, you'll never know what her response could have been. I think it's worth trying.

You can try practicing in front of the mirror, so that you're more confident with what you're gonna say.

I'd like to correct Andrew. David did not cheat on his girlfriend, she cheated on him.

Good luck :)

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Their looks just look average to me. If anything, above average, but if I saw one of them on the street I wouldn't be like "wow, he is so hot!" I'd just see them as just some regular guy. Not ugly or anything, though.

Celebrities I do find attractive are people like Andrew VanWyngarden (MGMT), David Bowie (when he was younger, without the makeup), and Syd Barrett (when he was young). I don't know, personality really makes me attracted to a guy, too. Channing Tatum and Ryan Gosling just seem like typical guys, so maybe that's what I don't find attractive. They don't seem like they'd be interesting to talk to, and wouldn't really care about worldly issues and what not. They just seem like everyone else, and that's not attractive.

But if I saw a guy that looked like Syd Barrett did I'd be led to think there's more to him than just his looks. I don't know.. is this weird? I slightly see what girls find attractive about Ryan Gosling but especially with Channing Tatum I just don't feel anything. He has a hot body, don't get me wrong, but that's not enough for me to really like a guy, if that makes sense. I'm not that shallow

I don't think I'm gay though, cause I've only crushed on guys. It's just strange cause these are guys that apparently soo many other girls find attractive. Maybe I just like weird guys cause I'm weird myself? haha. Cause sometimes I'll see a guy (not a celeb) and at first he won't physically appeal to me, but once I get to know him and I like his personality then suddenly I start seeing him in a different way, like I'm suddenly aware of his hotness, haha

You are definitely not the only one. Everyone has their own taste in these matters. I personally don't find Gosling or Tatum attractive. I don't see what everyone sees in Justin Bieber either.

Yet, I've found plenty of boys attractive. We each have our own unique preferences, that's all.

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I AM SICK! in all aspects, i am sick!.. emotionally, physically, academically, spiritually, and [soon] mentally sick...
i have lived trying to convince myself that everything was alright. i've tried to be the coolest person that i can be despite of my problems... and thankfully, for the past years i have overcome the pains and thought that these Pains that i have overcome made me a stronger person... but then, this notion has changed TONIGHT... these pains are hittting me back ('with a vengeance' as they call it) as if i've thrown them on the wall and bounces back at me. and i can hardly bear all of them...
i got friends [i think] but i can't tell them what i am going through for it's too complicated and nobody even seems to care... they keep laughing when i get serious and eventually i'll find my self laughing with them. that secanrio makes me forget both the problem and my attempt of telling them. that's why laughing to problems is all i did to overcome them. but that's another wrong notion i have made... i've realized how it's not helping...
"Too Much, Too Soon" said a Green Day song... and yah, i'm soon to burst. so don't be shocked if one day you'll hear from people that I'M DEAD....

PS- i'm a guy who laughs it all but this is a serious matter...pls don't laugh...
PPS- i'm not being EMO!

Hey there, everything will be alright! You come across to me as a very intelligent, but hurt man. You are experiencing an emotional crisis, and I believe you should go for help. Don't wait until things get out of control. You are feeling terrible, and you shouldn't! There are many many people who care about you and want to help you.

I just came across a very inspirational quote that I believe applies to you: recognize that you have the courage within you to fulfill the purpose of your birth. Summon forth the power of your inner courage and live the life of your dreams.

Be a fighter, man! You have all the inner strength it takes to survive this and find your happiness again.

As for your physical sickness, go see a doctor, and tell him everything that's going on. You'll be glad you did.

I'm always here for you. If you need any support, you can leave a message in my inbox.

Good luck and take care :)

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I am Junior in High School and I have been contemplating suicide for a few years. This year, it's appeared in my thoughts more often than previous years. I am drowning in my own misery and I wish I could silence this storm in my mind. I feel empty and yet I have a loving family and a wonderful girlfriend. Nothing heart-wrenching has occurred recently and I have no idea why I feel this pain. I know how selfish it is, but I'm very puzzled. Often, I feel like I'm the source of disappointment and pain of all whom I love. This "feeling" has consumed me completely and I've cut many relationships with family and friends. But, no one takes my struggle seriously and some even encourage it. I don't know what to do with myself.
I just want to disappear for a while or sleep. I just feel so dead and empty but everything is going so well. The other day, I carelessly plugged in a rice cooker with wet hands and it sparked, but I was unharmed. I was verbally scolded and as I ignored it the only words that I heard were, "I don't give a damn about that thing! It's you I'm worried about! That's replaceable, but there's only one you!"

That makes me want to kill myself all the more.

What you are experiencing is very severe depression. That's why you feel hopeless and empty and you're in so much pain.

I've gone through that a lot of times, more than I can count in fact, and I've learned that this is no way to live, and if you go get help, you'll be shocked how awesome your life can be. Don't settle for this awful pain and despair.

You deserve the best life you can have, and no one has the right to deny you that. You are irreplaceable in the world, and you should be enjoying your life. It is possible! I am talking from very painful experience. It is impossible to deal with this alone, so please go get help!

You can leave a message in my inbox if you need any support whatsoever. I know what you're going through, and I know that if you go get help you will survive it!

Good luck and I hope you feel better soon :)

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I have recently started going on dates with many guys, as well as making new friendships. Now I have four guys who are all interested in me, but I do not know which one to go for. I am very athletic ad adventurous, outgoing, chill, person. So the first guy is older than me, he is a different nationality, very good looking, I met all his friends and they're all really great. He just isn't as adventurous as I am. The second guy is also older but we have alot in common. I have known him for along time but I never thought o us dating ever throughout the years of knowing him. So maybe I'm not that into him? The third has gotten me into fishing, he likes hiking with me and loves my dogs as much as I do. Te fourth is my age, cute ad we have alot of similarities, he also broke up with his girlfriend after he had started talking to me, and he was discussing it with me before, he is also someone I have known for a long time. I am also a 19years old.

Who can you be yourself with the most? Who makes you truly happy? Who treats you best?

Try making a list of the pros and cons of dating each guy, and see who has the most pros.

Good luck :)

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