Am I the only girl who doesn't find Channing Tatum and Ryan Gosling sexy?
Question Posted Monday July 2 2012, 11:14 am
Their looks just look average to me. If anything, above average, but if I saw one of them on the street I wouldn't be like "wow, he is so hot!" I'd just see them as just some regular guy. Not ugly or anything, though.
Celebrities I do find attractive are people like Andrew VanWyngarden (MGMT), David Bowie (when he was younger, without the makeup), and Syd Barrett (when he was young). I don't know, personality really makes me attracted to a guy, too. Channing Tatum and Ryan Gosling just seem like typical guys, so maybe that's what I don't find attractive. They don't seem like they'd be interesting to talk to, and wouldn't really care about worldly issues and what not. They just seem like everyone else, and that's not attractive.
But if I saw a guy that looked like Syd Barrett did I'd be led to think there's more to him than just his looks. I don't know.. is this weird? I slightly see what girls find attractive about Ryan Gosling but especially with Channing Tatum I just don't feel anything. He has a hot body, don't get me wrong, but that's not enough for me to really like a guy, if that makes sense. I'm not that shallow
I don't think I'm gay though, cause I've only crushed on guys. It's just strange cause these are guys that apparently soo many other girls find attractive. Maybe I just like weird guys cause I'm weird myself? haha. Cause sometimes I'll see a guy (not a celeb) and at first he won't physically appeal to me, but once I get to know him and I like his personality then suddenly I start seeing him in a different way, like I'm suddenly aware of his hotness, haha
Razhie answered Monday July 2 2012, 9:50 pm: You are just human is all.
That's all this is. Celebrity culture is something you have to buy into, and you haven't bought into the most common and hype form of it right now. It just doesn't work for you.
Nothing wrong with you. I like Gosling as an actor, but he doesn't really get me going. I find Tatum attractive, until he opens his mouth.
Human attraction is a fickle and many faceted thing.
You aren't a lesbian unless you like women. You like guys, you are just a little more aware of what you like, and a little less invested in the celebrity-ness of the current it boys. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
geraismyname answered Monday July 2 2012, 7:52 pm: First of all...you are gay ONLY if you like girls...come on there you know that already.
Second: you just like guys none of the mayority of girls like....as simple as it sounds.
You do have a stereotype ...when you say u find yourself atracted to David Bowie and so..but mainly you like more the personality than the package.
you are not weird...unless you wanna get the attention of others by showing too much how much you are into weird guys or stuff....just be you and don't brag about it....you'll be fine.
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