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i am sick in all aspect... what shall i do?..
I AM SICK! in all aspects, i am sick!.. emotionally, physically, academically, spiritually, and [soon] mentally sick...
i have lived trying to convince myself that everything was alright. i've tried to be the coolest person that i can be despite of my problems... and thankfully, for the past years i have overcome the pains and thought that these Pains that i have overcome made me a stronger person... but then, this notion has changed TONIGHT... these pains are hittting me back ('with a vengeance' as they call it) as if i've thrown them on the wall and bounces back at me. and i can hardly bear all of them...
i got friends [i think] but i can't tell them what i am going through for it's too complicated and nobody even seems to care... they keep laughing when i get serious and eventually i'll find my self laughing with them. that secanrio makes me forget both the problem and my attempt of telling them. that's why laughing to problems is all i did to overcome them. but that's another wrong notion i have made... i've realized how it's not helping...
"Too Much, Too Soon" said a Green Day song... and yah, i'm soon to burst. so don't be shocked if one day you'll hear from people that I'M DEAD....
PS- i'm a guy who laughs it all but this is a serious matter...pls don't laugh...
PPS- i'm not being EMO!
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Hey there, everything will be alright! You come across to me as a very intelligent, but hurt man. You are experiencing an emotional crisis, and I believe you should go for help. Don't wait until things get out of control. You are feeling terrible, and you shouldn't! There are many many people who care about you and want to help you.
I just came across a very inspirational quote that I believe applies to you: recognize that you have the courage within you to fulfill the purpose of your birth. Summon forth the power of your inner courage and live the life of your dreams.
Be a fighter, man! You have all the inner strength it takes to survive this and find your happiness again.
As for your physical sickness, go see a doctor, and tell him everything that's going on. You'll be glad you did.
I'm always here for you. If you need any support, you can leave a message in my inbox.
Good luck and take care :)
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It is possible that there is something genuinely wrong, but you're not going to be able to self-diagnose this.
Start by seeing a doctor. I guarantee he won't laugh when you describe what's going on. See if you can identify some specific symptoms to tell him about, such as: Where are these pains? What is the nature of them? Are you having trouble eating, sleeping? Do you feel tired most of the time? Are there triggers which make you feel sicker?
He may recommend a psychologist. This is not necessarily a suggestion that it's "all in your head", but simply an acknowledgement of the fact that many illnesses have a psychological component as well as a physical one. You may wish to see a psychologist even if the doctor doesn't mention it, for that reason.
When you speak with these medical professionals, do not make light of your situation or use humor to defuse it. You must be totally honest with doctors in order for them to do their job and help you.
You do not have to live this way, but you do need to be the one who takes the first step toward fixing it, because no one else seems to understand the depth of the problem.
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