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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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okay, its my birthday so I have alot of extra money, the thing is I really really want a good hair straightener.I have like 150$ in birthday money but I really really want to spend a maximum of 20 but I'm willing to go over a LITTLE bit if you know a quality hair straightener that heats up really quickly and is good.

i have 20 dollar striaghtner and it is by conair. it is really good and it hetas up in 60 second and it has a 2 year lifetime warrenty.. hope this helps.

♥ Steph

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I am 17 years old i have a 2 month old daughter but i am married and have been for a year to the babys father. Well i have just come across a very serious problem. My husband i have been sleeping together but we used protection but i think i might be pregnant again is that possible. I am very scared. I know if i am everyone is going to say i am a slut and im so worried but wwe both have jobs and stuff but i am scared of what a=our families wil say what do i do.

they cant really say your a slut because your married.once you are maried you cna have as many kids as you want. isnt that the point of getin married. to be able to have sex and not worry about anything because you can handle beign a parent. i wouldnt stress abotu it to much because stress can make your period let and then you wont really know for sure if your pregnant or not..

♥ Steph

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Good afternoon,
Okay..in the begining it was all about him what he wanted too do what he wanted he cheated on me a coupple of times with various girls one being a stripper...ah mean after a year i turned too the only other person i cud trust my ex ..and then well we kissed and thats all and my boyfriend found out...oo well and well too realease his anger he choked me off in town ..ah mean it was a bit embarssing at the time and i forgave him ..but then as time passed he began too tell me more hurtfull things when he got mad and so i turned too another friend but this time the realtionship was different we werent intimate but if i alloweed it it would goo there
bascially my bf doesnt trust me for varyin reasons some i may have given himm,, he says i lie to my parents but the only reaason i lie to them is beacause that the only way i go and lime with him ..soo now i rly dont kno what too doo need ur advice!!!shud i move on and forget abouthim and what should i do about the other guy.. lost in love

CaribbeanQueen
Age:20
Female
St.Vincent and the Grenadines

your boyfruiend seems very agressive and hurtful. you should never go otu with aguy that treats you like shit. thta is like the worest thing you can do. think about which guys treats yopu better. which guy you wnat to be with more then make your decision. i cant make it for you but i can tell you from what it sound like, you friend sounds like a better person then your boyfriend. i hope this helps.
♥ STeph

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i have terrible breath and brushing doesnt seem to get it to go away. what can i do to get rid of it?

mouth wash works. you can also try mints, and gum. hope this helps.

♥ Steph

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I was on my boyfriends myspace account and reading the messages that nobody else can read and there was one to a gay guy saying...

"im not gay but i think your wicked cute we should hang out sometime"

i dont know what to think.
i mean i think hes gay but i dont want to.
if he was than why would he be dating me?
Anyone help pleaseee!

i wouldnt jump to conclusions. ui would talk to him abotu and find out what is up. i mean it isnt like you dont look like at a celebrity(female) and think i wish i could be like her you know.. just talk to him about it and see what is up.

♥ STeph

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when you're at a dance, how do you get guys to come up and dance with you?

ok well just friday i went to my first highschool dance. i ama sophmore but i just never felt liek going to one.. anyways i went and some guy out of no were came up to em and started dancing with me. i danced and reallyu didnt talk but we danced he asked me nam,e and i gave it to him and that is about it..
what you gotta do is make eye contact and dance . shake ur botty like you never shoke it before and have fun.. hope this helps.=)
♥ Steph

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How often do mail-in-rebates go according to plan?

If I purchase a Motorola Razr cellular phone from TMobile's website, can I trust the likelihood of the rebate? Or would you advise against it?

yes they ususaly give u ur money back 10-15 days later. if it doesnt come in aroudn that time then u can call the company and see whats up.=)


♥ Steph

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my boyfriend is two years younger than me. is it bad? i mean he acts alot older and we really do like eachother..

nope there is nothing wrong with that. as long as ur happy and he is happy then there is nothing wrong with it.
♥ Steph

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I am 21 and just recently lost my virginity. About ten minutes after we had sex I started my period. Is this normal? I normally start the first of each month and I already had my period for this month, I had sex on the 24th.

it is unlikely for it to be ur period i think you just got ur cherry popped.

♥ Steph

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I have a sore breast, it started about six months ago and i have already been to the doctors about it.
They reffered me to a clinic who said there wasn't a lump and refused to give me a mammogram, the doctors said it was just due to my age.
She also said it should go away by itself in a couple of months, that was 3 months ago.
Should i be worried, should i go back to the doctors or am i just being paranoid? There is a history of cancer in my family but not breast cancer.
I just need some reassurance that its okay!

if your rerally worried about then go to the doctor to be on the safe side. dont wait for something to happen go and get what you want. if you want a mamogram then get it dotn let anyone stop you.

♥ Steph

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I was wondering if their was a plastic surgey to like whiten teeth? Like a laser whitener?

&& to get rid of pimples


How much would it be?


Thanks

i dont knwo about the whitening teeth but i can help you with the pimple part..

i actually went to a laser place the other day and they doctor talked to me about my acene and how much it cost and etc, so i am gonna tell you what she said to me..

so ther is this "new" thing out called Blue something sorry i 4got. anyways. what you do is the laser your face and you cant see light for 48 hours. and you go every month for 5 months and your face is supposed to get better but it all depends on how bad your acene is. and where you go to get it done. every place charges different but it goes from 300-500 depending on how many vists you need and were you go.

♥ Steph

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ok well heres the thing ive been going out with my boyfriend scence last tuesday. and i feel kinda distant from him i guess. also im kinda worried because i heard this rumar recently that with every girlfriend he's had, he's had sex with. and im not that type of girl, i think he might know that..but still i dont want him to be takin it too slow. i mean we dont hold hands we havent kissed yet. we've only hugged. i just want him to know its ok to kiss me.. what shoyuldi do to give him the hint??

the ebst way to solve your problem is to talk to him and explain to him how you feel. tell him that you dont want to be moving to slow or to fast. and about the rumor. well rumor arent true (well most of the time)if you want to know the truth the only way to find out is to ASK him for the truth. if he cares about you he will respect your opion and wont try to make you have sex with him if your not ready(or whatever is the reason). hope this helps =)

♥ Steph

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So I've had my period for over a year and it's always been pretty steady, very light flow... So right now it's that time of month, and it's been about 2 days and the flow has suddenly been EXTREMELY heavy -- like one tampon like every HALF HOUR heavy, when for like two years I've gotten an EXTREMELY light flow so -- what's up? Is there any way to lessen the flow?

everyones body changes at a different pace. so you are normal.. if this keeps going for a couple more days go see a doctor. otherwise it is nothing to worry about.

♥ Steph

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this is about tampons.

i should be ending my period in like 2 days,

for school can i still wear a tampon is my flow is light?

will anything happen if there isn't much blood for the tampon


i need to know qwuickly!!

tahnks soooo much

nope nothing can happen unless you have it in more then 5 hours. otherwise nothing happens. =)

♥ Steph

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all my friends are ragging me that i don't wear any thongs i was wondering why people wear them anyways since they so uncomfortable and what should i do about my friends

i only wearng mine around my bf. he tells em he likes that stuff that is basically the only reason. some can be uncomfrontable. and others arent. they way mom thinks there used for is to not show underwear when you wear tight clothing..

♥ steph

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ok I'm really confused right now, i Dont know what to do right now. I like my boyfreind brandon, but he can be a huge asshole. he tells me what and what not to do, he critisizes me, and even yells at me, plus he has problems of his own and i can't deal with him and his problems AND my problems alltogether.he also hides things from me, lies to me, and sneaks about everything. I can't ever beleive him. all my freinds say i should dump him, but i still like and care for him. plus he's not ALL bad. i really enjoy being with him. There's also a guy named Russell who seems to be interested in me, and ditto for me. Me and him talk alot on the phone, and he helps me with alot of problems, and I like him too, but i dont want to leave brandon then go out with russell right after, but if i wait for a while then break up with brandon, then russell gets a girlfreind and loses interest in me, then that would SUCK ASS TOTALLY. i dont know what i should do. should i break up with my boyfreind, or give him 1 last chance. If i DO give him 1 more chance, then this will be the 3rd chance i have given him, and im TIRED of playing games with him. what the hell should i do??

tell brandon that you feel this realtionship is horrible and un order for himt o treat you bette is for him to start seeing new people. and then break it up adn go with Russel like get close with him but dont ask him out let him ask you out.


♥ Steph

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me and my boyfriend have had the same problem for like 8 months. he only rarely makes time for me. but we broke up for a month and we got back togheter and he said that he would fix it cuz he really wanted it. HE CAME BACK TO ME .. you know.

but nothign changed, so i confronted him. and hes like well 'well shoot for hangin once or twice a week', and so far he's made no effort.

so is it unfair of me to give him two weeks and if he still makes no time for me i stop giving effort to the relationship. im sick of feeling like its one sided feelings, cuz what he says is so different from what he does. i just dont knwo what i should do .. any ideas?

explain to him that you dont like feeling like this is a one sided realtionship. tell him mayb when we first broke up it was a good thing because of the fact it really didnt matter..
♥ Steph

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what does it mean to subscribe to someone on xanga?

when u subscribe to someone you get an email every time they update there xanga. instead fo you looking for them and see what they wrote next =)

♥ Steph

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hi, well why does the musical grease still appeal to a teen audience today, after 30 years of it being made. thanks.

Because of the fact it deals with teen matters. it is a love story and a lot of teens can relate to it.

=)
♥ Steph

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I am 13. I have had sex. I am scared to go to the doctor to get birth control pills because i am afraid he'll tell my mom and he'll look at me and be like you only 13... and/or how do i get there.. haha i dont know just some advice will hepl. :]
kthanks

there is a place called PLANNED PARENTHOOD. you can even check out there website which is www.plannedparenthood.com.. to find the nearest one to you. everything there is confideatal. they cant tell anythign to anyone unless you tell them they can. =)

♥ Steph

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