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Is my boyfriend gay?
I was on my boyfriends myspace account and reading the messages that nobody else can read and there was one to a gay guy saying...
"im not gay but i think your wicked cute we should hang out sometime"
i dont know what to think.
i mean i think hes gay but i dont want to.
if he was than why would he be dating me?
Anyone help pleaseee!
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i wouldnt jump to conclusions. ui would talk to him abotu and find out what is up. i mean it isnt like you dont look like at a celebrity(female) and think i wish i could be like her you know.. just talk to him about it and see what is up.
♥ STeph
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The issue that hit me wasn't the question of his sexual preference, but your respect of his privacy.
Anyways, I think you should tell him exactly what you just wrote, that you looked around, saw his messages, saw that, and want to know what's up.
Be honest and straightfoward about this situation, as I'm sure you would want him to be. I don't think he's necesarily gay, but could be "bi-curious". The media won't say it, but they are basically implying that it's 100% natural and therefore OK to act on your sexual imuplses at any age with any person. Probably the worst message out there after that one guy's idea of trying to create some kind of 'perfect race'.
Anyways, talk to him. Tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him exactly how you found all this and what your concerns are. To me, if he's keeping that message or other things like that from you, it could be for a reason. But then again, what's your reason for looking through his messages? I'll leave it up to you. Talk to him. Hope that helped and good luck.
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He could just be bi. He says he's not GAY, but he says the guy is "wicked cute".
Stay with him and see how your relationship goes... If you feel you want to ask him if he is bi, then do it. If you feel the need.
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Well, obviously if he says he's not gay, he's not gay then, but he may be bisexual. If you don't know what bisexual means, that's whenever someone both likes females and males.
Younggrandma is right. If you really want to find out what it means, you're going to have to confess to him that you went snooping through his messages and everything, but if I were you, I'd confess cause I'd want to know.
Or he seriously just might be straight. I mean, girls can be straight, and still call eachother pretty and cute and whatnot, and sure, it does sound a little weird if a guy does that to another guy, but they can tell eachother they look good too.
Like I said, I would just talk to him about it and find out exactly what's going on.
I hope I helped.
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He said in his message to the guy "I'm not gay".
So I would imagine he is not. If you really want to know for sure WHY he would write something like that
you will have to confess to snooping and ask him.
Otherwise don't worry about it and let it go.
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