I told her before she had a boyfriend. Oh wait, I seriously don't know how I could forget to mention this...she's my ex! There was a point where we stopped talking back in January/February, but since May me and her have become good friends. So I'm in fear that if I "over do it" in flirting I'll scare her away again. But seeing as she's my ex, is there no hope? She's even told me that I'm her best guy friend, and thing is she's only recently just broken up with her ex about 2 weeks ago. I'm in a real mess here! btw I really love your advice!
haha oh boy, i can't believe you forgot to tell me she was your ex! this might change some things a little bit. so what i would do in your situation is talk to her. ask her if she would ever consider going back out with you. tell her that you want another chance and things will be different this time (i'm not sure why you guys broke up in the first place?) but if it was because of something you did, then tell her it will be different. my cousin really wants to go back out with his ex but he did some pretty mean things to her which would make her not trust him anymore and so she said he will have to earn his chance. and he will have to show her that she can trust him again and that things will be different. when i broke up with my ex, he wanted to get back together of course but i just wasn't happy with him. i didn't have that same smile and i wasn't the same girl i use to be. i wasn't the girl who could make anyone laugh anymore and it was because of him. i told him that i didn't want to lose my happiness, and that he would have to change and be serious about it if he really wanted me back. i finally had my smile back, and i was the lindsay i use to be, and i wasn't going to just let him back into my life so easily. so yes, you may have to work for her. but in the end, i know it will be worth it. there is HOPE! i'm not saying she will want you back, but i'm not saying you should ever give up. it's hard to tell, because i don't know this girl and i don't really know the whole situation very well but i believe if you want something bad enough, you will get it ♥ LU
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ok first of all, i don't know how to reply on that same question thing, so each time i'm making a new one of these! well like an idiot, sometime in august, I did kinda let her know that i liked her...in a more straight forward way! Not the best move obviously, I think that when someone tells you straight forward that they like you, you feel pressured to like them back right? Well, at the time, I didn't know that..and her reaction was that she only sees me as a friend. But now, she's broken up with her last boyfriend and talks to me more often, but before I go and mess things up again, or even lose a chance with her (if I haven't lost it already), I want to let her know, indirectly, and not like how I did before?
did you tell her while she had a boyfriend? because yeah most girls would back away from someone else in fear of falling for them. anyways what you have to do is flirt with her. text her cute things :) you have to step up your game boy. when you see her next, don't act just as a friend would. but also don't be over the top and too obvious about it. my best friend would always sit with me, and he would flirt with me and put his arm around me while kind of joking around but i knew that he was being serious. you want to know why i fell for him? because i could tell that kid anything, and i knew he wouldn't judge me. i could not be wearing make up and be wearing sweatpants and a sweatshirt and he would still make me feel like the most beautiful girl. you need to do that. make her feel comfortable around you. when you flirt with her though, see what her reaction is. if she flirts back, it's a good sign but if she acts kind of weird then tone it down a little bit. i hope this is helping! keep asking if you have any more questions! ♥ LU
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so what are some songs about you liking a guy who just broke up with someone, and they keep getting back together, not matter how many times they break up. and you still like him.
i've had this happen before too, i'm sorry sweetie :( but i've got some good songs for ya!
nikki flores- let it slide (MY FAVORITE!)
leona lewis- best you never had
keri hilson- promise in the dark
jesse mccartney- told you so
jordin sparks- this is my now
tynisha keli- i wished you loved me
llyod- i can change your life
david archuleta- crush
if you need more, let me know ♥ LU
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hey you answered my last question and it was really good advice..the thing is she is kind of my good friend but whenever I do talk to her, most of the time, she talks about other guys to me, so that makes me wonder that she only sees me as a friend. I really do like her but I just don't think she sees me in the same way? Normally when I text her, I text her with a reason behind it (so it isn't just out of the blue, because it can get annoying right?) well again, most of the time when I text her, she texts once expecting a reply (because she asks a question) but then I don't get a reply after that. Is that just because she can't be bothered with me?
hey :) i will admit, girls are very confusing. most of the time we don't even know what we want haha. but i liked my best friend, but i ALWAYS was talking about other guys to him. you want to know why? to try and make him jealous. i wanted to show him that i wasn't just going to wait around for him to finally do something, and that there are other guys who are interested in me. maybe this is not the best thing to do, but all girls do it. sometimes it will push the guy away but it's definately not our intention. maybe she doesn't know that you like her, maybe she just thinks you see her as a friend! thats what happened with me and my best friend. i think we both just figured neither of us would ever think of each other as anything more than friends UNTIL he made a move, and i knew he was interested. i then could show how i truly felt because i knew he felt the same way. you have to talk to her, please!! you don't have to flat out say, i like you. but flirt with her, you can even ask her who she likes. i do the same thing with guys though, i will only text them if there is a reason behind it because otherwise i feel like i'm bugging them but it's not like that at all. she probably likes it when you text her! we hate having to do all the work. if she is your good friend, she will not think you are annoying, trust me on this one. you have to take chances, even if it may be hard. don't go on wondering "what if.." all the time!! i didn't exactly get the last part you were saying, but maybe she was just busy, or was texting too many people at once. that always happens to me, like five people will be texting me and i will forget to text some people back, oops. but don't let that bother you. if you're comfortable enough with her, then let it all out. i've learned the hard way that if you wait too long, you might miss out on something amazing! and remember, never give up on something you can't go a day without thinking about! i hoped this helped, don't be scared to come back if you have any other questions or i didn't answer something good enough ♥ LU
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well i'm a guy who's 17 and I really like this girl but how do I get the courage to talk to her properly and not make a fool of myself? I want to erm..be all that she thinks of? (well that's going over the top) but I want to get her attention and not just seem like any other guy but just someone that catches her attention. Help?
Thanks!
all i want from a guy is someone who will actually listen to me and just be there for me when i need someone. i liked this guy, but he just didn't treat me how i wanted to be treated. i hate guys that don't seem interested or are hard to read. what you need to do is show her that she can trust you, show her that if she needs someone to talk to that you will be there to listen. make the first move and text her, or call her. i would love a guy who would do that for me. i hate feeling like i always have to start the conversation because it makes me feel like they're not interested or i'm bugging them. but trust me, when you text us we really do like it :) i love a guy who can be funny and be outgoing, and just put a smile on my face. even if you think you're making a fool of yourself, she will probably actually think its cute. please DONT text her though saying that she is perfect, and that she is all you think about because i've had that happen before to me and it did kind of creep me out lol. guys think that they can talk to all these girls, and they wonder why we think they're not interested! i mean you don't have to stop talking to your girl friends, but don't be flirting with them or anything in front of this girl because then she will either think you are just like any other guy and plays girls, or you simply aren't interested in her. give her attention, thats all we really want :) hope i helped, good luck boy!!!! if you need anything else, feel free to ask ♥ LU
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hi, i am surprising my bf with tickets to disneyland..but i want to present it in a very cool way, like a game or something fun. any ideas?
ohhhhh what a good girlfriend :)
well you could do somewhat of a scavanger hunt. i know one of my friends did like clues, and her boyfriend had to go to each place and talk to someone or look for something that led him to the next place, and you could be standing there with the tickets at the end, and be wearing like minnie mouse ears, or something like that. get it? it depends on how old you are, and if your boyfriend can drive because otherwise it may be hard if he doesn't have his license. OR you could make him like homemade cookies and decorate them with a bunch of disney stuff, and hand him the tickets too even though thats kind of dorky haha. gahhh i'm trying, i'm trying hard to think here! if you know how to do this, or can find somewhere that will do it for you, blow up some baloons and put the tickets inside of the baloons and you can give them to him, or you can make a game out of it and have him pop the baloons and have like little things such as candy, etc in other baloons until he pops the one with the tickets in it. i'm not sure how much money you want to spend, but you could also customize a cookie, or if you go out to eat somewhere have the resauraunt customize a desert and have it say something like, "disneyland?" or think of a creative saying. if you don't like any of these, let me know and i can try and think of some more. i am so sorry if you didn't like any of the ideas ♥ LU
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Its been awhile since me and troy my best friend have seen each other, and we made plans to hang out. We have know each other for 5 years and we have been unseperable since then; until I moved 5 moths ago to attend UC San Diego. He lives in La and he wanted to pay me a visit yesterday. He arrived early in the morning, luckily, we are getting ready for finals so we didn't have class and my room mates were gone for the weekend. When he arrived, it was weird, but it felt like it always did, i had butterflies in my stomach and when he hugged me i felt like the world had disappeared, and it was just me and him in this universe. He laughed and wanted to go inside. I showed him the apartment, went grocery shopping to make some breakfast and we hold hands, it was weird because he had a girlfriend, I tried not to think about it and I just enjoyed his company. When we arrived back we cooked, he made waffles and eggs and i made hash browns and bacon. It was the cutest thing ever. I have never felt that comfortable with him. We talked for hours and hours, and when silences would occur we would just laugh and start new conversation. Once it got late, I sighed. I didn't want him to leave, it had been a while since were together, He noticed and gave me one of his bear like hugs. I was his perfect size, my head fit perfectly under his chin, I wrapped my arms around him and he gently put his chin on the top of my head. After couple of minutes, I looked up and stared into his deep brown eyes, His eyes were full of sincerity and love, he pulled a little forward and his lips were inches away from mine. I couldn't resist and reached for his lips and gave him a tiny peck. I broke away from his arms even though I never wanted to leave his embrace. He pulled me to him once again and kissed me. he tasted so sweet, I let him search my mouth with his lips. His kiss grew passionate and before you know it we were both grasping for air. he led me to my room and we continued to make love. That morning, i woke up in his arms, I smiled at him and he reached for me. he told me he wasn't going to let go.... he left a couple of minutes ago, I miss him terribly. i don't know what to do... I need advice do you think he will leave his girlfriend to be with me? umm.. His girlfriend is my friend. I know it will hurt her a lot. But I'm hurting... am i being selfish?
OHHHH MYYYYYYYY!! this is so cute :)
isn't that feeling great, knowing you have someone like that there for you? the same thing pretty much happened to me too. i loved my best friend, and he also had a girlfriend. Everytime i'm with him, i can't resist him. We ended up hooking up while him and his girlfriend were on a break, and well i hoped that he would eventually break things off with his girlfriend and come to realize that it was me who he really wanted. The sad part, two and a half years later and they're still together. I really really hope that the outcome is different for you. I know what you're going through, it's like people don't understand, at all. Many people would think that your best friend is a bad guy for cheating on his girlfriend like that but i'm sure he is not at all. My best friend, god i know he is the sweetest guy ever and treats his girlfriend like a princess and deep down, he is a great guy. He is still my best friend. I can't tell you if he will leave his girlfriend but you need to communicate with him. Ask him what his intentions are, ask him if what happened meant as much to him as it did to you. Ask him whats going on with him and his current girlfriend. Please talk to him, i do NOT want you to get hurt like i got hurt. I'm still dealing with everything, and even though at the time it was the best feeling in the world, i am now miserable. I don't want to scare you at all, but you just need to communicate otherwise you will never know. Good luck hun, i really hope things work out for the best. If you feel like you need to talk about it more, feel free to e-mail me ♥ LU
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How many of you would cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband/fiancee/fiance if you knew they would never find out?
I adore my boyfriend, we've been dating for almost two year and I am head over heels in love. But, he doesn't completely...satisfy me if yall know what I mean. And he is aware of this at times. I have a chance do be satisfied by a guy I've know for a long time and does not really have any connections to my friends, or my bfs friends so there just about no chance of him finding out. I can't hurt my boyfriend, and I don't want to cheat on him but I need to be satisfied atleast once... I would just like some input on what yall would do. Thanks
My best friend went through something very very similar to this. He wanted to cheat on his girlfriend of two and a half years, with me. He loved her, they were together whenever they got the chance, they would do anything for each other BUT he did get pretty bored with her. I was the other girl, i didn't really know his girlfriend very well and i also didn't really talk to alot of his friends. I told him it was wrong, and i couldn't do anything with him while he was going out with her, and he said but there is no way she would find out. He honestly didn't know what he wanted, i could tell that he loved that girl but he also wanted me. I didn't let him cheat on his girlfriend with me because i knew it would be wrong, and i didn't want him to regret it. I knew deep down that he was not a cheater, i knew he was better than that and so was i. They are still going out, and i told him that if he wanted to do anything sexual with me that he would have to be completely done with her and he agreed with what i was saying. I don't think that you should cheat on your boyfriend but i completely understand where your coming from. I don't want you to regret something that you did, and it may take an emotional turn on you if you did cheat on your boy. If you want to be satisfied then maybe you should think about breaking up with your boyfriend, but i don't think you really want that :) I know this is hard, but cheating is a painful thing. Whether your boyfriend would find out or not, it's not acceptable. I hoped i helped you out somewhat, just think about everything before you make a decision. Be smart, be safe, be strong. I know you will make the right decision ♥ LU
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alright, soo i heard a song the other day and it said something like
i fell in love with a cutie
and then at another part its like
we were kissin at the movies
whats the name of this sonnnng?!
pllease help.
thanks
it's called "showtime" by lil wayne.
this was the beginning right?..
i'm in love with a beauty, she is a cutie, somebody say they saw us kissin' in da movies
we had a drink or two, we saw Rush Hour Two
then we went home and we made our own movie
let me know if it's the right one :)
♥ LU
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ok, so there was this guy that I liked for a long time. A little while ago I decided I didn't like him anymore (even though part of me still went back to liking him whenever eye-connection was made or we talked) sometimes I still think about him, and I think I noticed that no, i'm not completely over him. I know that we've had a past for liking each other quite a bit, and then one of my friends started liking him in october.
Now, yes, they are going out. I haven't told anyone that it bugs me, just now they are bf & gf and get to do all that girlfriend boyfriend stuff I would think about.
Also I kinda like another guy now, but i'm kinda confused why I'm feeling so down.
Because I really do still like that guy who I've liked for a LOT longer than just October, or am I just jealous that I never got the chance with him? A bit of both maybe?
I have to admit I was really shy with him the past years & now am just getting more confident (before I would lie about liking him when he didn't lie about liking me). So yeah, I had really messed up, though this year im not nearly as shy & had decided I wouldn't lie anymore about it, though I also was sure I lost all my chances because I had so many. Now I'm regretting it again I think?
I'm just confused with my bummed-ness :P
also didn't tell my friend that I'm bummedbecause, I thought it would maybe ruin things for her? Idk, idk even if I should have told her.
I haven't tld anyone, I kindawanna keep quiet about it, not sure which of my friends to talk to if I even should..
btw that guy I'm kinda crushing on now has been calling me pretty & beautiful (and has gone through phases of that ever since coming to our school last year, kinda has asked meout about twice too). Also one time he called that guy a jerk for saying something rude about me & can be really nice to me, though not always so nice to others.. maybe its just a show though. He can also say some gross things sometimes. What do you think about him?
I hope I'm not coming across as wanting to ruin a friendship or breaking them apart or anything. Just kinda confused with why I'm feeling how I am ^.^
hey sweetie, i know exactly what your going through because i went through it for three years. i tried to get over him, we never did date or anything but we both knew we had feelings for each other. i think he thought i didn't like him like that, and only as my best friend and he moved on and got a girlfriend who he has now been going out with for two and a half years. it's probably one of the hardest things i've been dealing with. i think you feel bummed out because you didn't get a chance with him, and you feel like it's your fault because you didn't show how you truly felt and i feel the exact same way. i wish i could of done things differently, i wish i could of had more courage and told him flat out i liked him because maybe that could of been me, instead of her. i know how you feel about having so many chances, i had many opportunities too and i didn't take them and i do regret it alot. i think about how different it could of been if i would of had more courage, but the past is the past. i didn't tell any of my friends, i denied it all the time because i didn't want anyone to know how jealous i was of his girlfriend, and how much i still liked him because they would of thought i was crazy. if your starting to like this other guy, go for it. i wish i could have feelings for ANYONE else, i wish i could move on but it's too hard for me and if you can, please take the chance. don't waste your time on that guy, you have another guy who likes you and who wants you. you can talk to your friend who is going out with that guy if you'd like, and tell her how it hurt you how she went out with him but that you hope she is happy, and that you will move on and also be happy. maybe your friend didn't know that it hurt you so much that she went out with him, i'm like 99.9% sure she would never want to do anything that would ever hurt you, and i'm sure she will understand where your coming from. tell her your intentions aren't to break them up, but you just wanted to get that off your chest and i know it will make you feel better. don't miss the chance with the new boy, just see how things work out. maybe he is the right one for you, maybe he isn't but it's worth a shot :) if you need anything, i'm always here to talk. i know what you're dealing with. you can always come to me with situations like this. good luck, i know things will work out for the best ♥ LU
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Over the summer, this guy and i were friends with benefits. i know friends with benefits are never a good thing but anyway.. a friend of mine told me he had been dating someone. So i stopped talking to him to get him out of the picture. Well, i haven't talked to him in about 2 months and he texted me tonight saying that he missed me and how he wanted me to come over soon. I don't miss him, just doing things with him. I asked him about his girlfriend and he just said "yeaaah we can keep it between us" so i said umm ill think about it. so should i do it? i don't know the girl at all that hes dating so i wouldnt feel bad at all about that.
okay i know many people have answered this but this is like exactly what i have been going through for a long time now. this guy, we hooked up but didn't have sex or anything. well i've always liked him but he has a girlfriend of two and a half years. he has always wanted to hook up with me, and of course i wanted to because i can't resist the damn kid, but in my mind i knew that it wasn't right. i was stuck inbetween. i know what your thinking, if he wants to why not? right? thats what i was thinking too, if he is willing to and i don't like his girlfriend anyway then who cares. but then i realized i couldn't let myself do it anymore. i asked him why he was still with her if he was trying to hook up with me still and he said he would feel too bad breaking up with her and all this bullshit which in my head meant..RED FLAG. i also ended up telling him i couldn't do anything while he was going out with her, even though i wanted to SO bad and so he told her he wanted to go on a break with her. he then thought he could get with me, and again i had doubts because i knew what was running through his mind, and that was hooking up with me and then getting back with his girl. i wasn't going to put myself through that, i even told him that i couldn't do anything while they were on a break and he said why not? and i told him because i don't want to be put in that situation, and he didn't understand which clearly meant there was going to be nothing more between us, and he just wanted to mess around with me. that was not okay with me, at all. everytime i see him, i can't resist him but i have to know that i'm better than that. i'm not going to just let someone use me, i'm not going to give him what he wants. he wants me and her and you know what, i'm going to show him he cant have two things at once. honestly, i don't want you to get hurt like i did. i'm still trying to deal with the whole situation, i know what your going through. i know what it feels like being stuck inbetween. it's like your heart knows that its wrong but your mind is telling you its okay, and that you should do it. if you want to talk about anything else, or more of your situation don't be scared to e-mail me at: lindsayluxo@yahoo.com
goodluck sweetie, i know you'll make the right decision. be smart and strong :) ♥ LU
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I am a basketball player and I have a game on monday but I am scared if I get my period before the game because if I do when I run back and forth around the court I don't want my pad to leak while running what should I do to prevent my underwear and shorts to leak through???
please please please try wearing a tampon! it's pretty much one of the best things ever invented haha. but it does not hurt, at all i promise you. you can get the tampax pearl ones which is plastic, don't get the cardboard ones i made the mistake of getting those my first time and i did have alot of trouble. otherwise what you could do is, wear two pads? but that may not be very comfortable. i'm sorry if im too late answering this question, but it wouldn't let me get on yesterday for some odd reason ♥ LU
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how do you know if you have come across love and what is it anyways?
what feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. some say love is mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and undefinable. perhaps. love is waking up to find the object of your affection in the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder. love is a bond or connection between two people that results in trust, intimacy, and an interdependence that enhances both partners. love is the ability and willingness to allow those you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you. you are more yourself when with your boyfriend/girlfriend than you are with anybody else. love is loving someone without expecting anything in return, no judgments, no restrictions, no limitations, no expectations! love is expressed when you are being someone who loves someone for who they are, not who you think they should be. love is needing someone and putting up with someone's bad qualities because they somehow complete you. love must be experienced. its meaning is infinite and can never be totally defined. love is one of the most amazing things you will ever experience and if you find it, don't ever let it go because it's truly the best feeling in the world ♥ LU
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i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have talked about marriege. he is my first love and i can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. we have had our ups and downs but i trust him and do love him. i just wonder if we're to young to get married. we're both 19 and are going to college. the fact that we are both still teenagers scares me. should age matter if you know for a fact its true love?
yes and no. it really does depend on you and your boyfriend. my brother and his fiance met while he was 19 and she was 18 and they have been going out for two and a half years. she is now turning 20 in a month, and he is 21 and they are getting married in a year. they got engaged when she was 19, and i know that this is true love. i can see it and they would do anything for each other but they also are very committed. they bought a house together, and have a cat. they put their bank accounts together, so it's now both of their money, it's not seperate. it's a cute little family:) and i know they are very much in love. on the other hand my best friend is 18 and he has also been going out with his girlfriend for two and a half years. i know that they do love each other and they are also each other's first loves, and they do have their ups and downs but they recently are on a break because they have been fighting alot, and even though they say they are in love i know he just may be falling out of love with her. i know she loves him, would do anything for him and never wants any other girl to have the chance to see how amazing he really is but he, he doesn't feel the same way and i can just see it. he doesn't want to be tied down at 18 years old, he has so much ahead of him and i know he wants to see what else is out there yet he still stays with her because he is scared to not have anyone there, and he does not want to hurt her family and especially HER. i'm not sure where it will end up with them, but i do know that they were in love. love to me, has nothing to do with age. just make sure you think about all the possible situations before you decide to do anything. i am happy for you, i am glad that you found such an amazing person who makes you happy and i wish you two the best of luck ♥ LU
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I need to find a big purse
From anywhere
Color doesn't matter just it has to be big. It doesn't have to be designer.
Thanksss!
you can pretty much find a big purse anywhere.
target
kohls
jcpenney
macys
nordstroms
marshalls
victorias secret has bags
if you need more places, let me know! ♥ LU
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im 15 and have had regular periods for my entire life...well time of having them..whatever you get it. so i just started my 2nd pack or the Yaz birth control and my period is now just a little blood and some weird brownish discharge..help? is it becuase of yaz? is it bad?
your period is going to be a little abnormal while first taking the birth control. i was on birth control for two years and now i'm going to be switching to yaz also and the doctor said there may be some spotting and my period will most likely be irregular. your body is getting use to the birth control, and it will take some time to regulate. if you have any other questions, feel free to ask ♥ LU
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I like different clothes not like Hot Topic different I mean girly stuff rarly anyone knows about.
What are some stores like that?
I alredy know:
Forever 21
Charrolate Rouse (spelling)
I don't really like American Eagle, Holister, Abercrombie because its not unique and they have the same thing EVERY YEARR!
So stores or places i can get stuff.
The price doesn't really matter that much but i can't afford to spend like 200 dollors on everything. Like probally a max of 100 dollors for stuff. But, whatefver, just give me store ideas please
Thanks a ton!!!
EXPRESS AND THE BUCKLE!
my two favorite stores :) i like to be different too, i hate having what everyone else has and those two stores have really cute clothes. also H&M has cute clothes. i'm pretty sure every state has these stores, i hope so at least! if they don't let me know and i'll try to help you out more! ♥ LU
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you already gave me advice on david (im the girl who had the incredibly long story) but something happened that jumbeled my mind even more. this weekend i went to a party. i was the designated driver. anyways, me and my friends marykate and jamie were there at 810 ish and there was only 1 other car. we got out and i called the host as we walked up his driveway, he picked up. it was pitch black but this guy came walking towards up. i couldnt make out his face. he told us how the host wasnt home yet and wasnt picking up his calls. i wasnt really interested in what the guy was saying untill he said btw.. its david, who am i talking to? my friend marykate went into a rant about how she didnt have a name and wasnt a person, then we went to my car and kind of left him in the dark. i hadnt seen him in so long and i couldnt believe he was here. he started texting me asking if i had told my friends he was an ass and saying how fun the party was so far. every time i didnt answer he sent another text. like what the hell?! he doesnt respond to me but then he sees me after a little over a month hes allowed to text me? so finally at party marykate made sure to inform me of the fact david had been hardcore eyeraping me all night. i wasnt feeling too well so i went to pass david to sit on the couch. he ended up stopping me and hugging me. he just wouldnt let go. then i asked why he hugged me when he hates me and he was like "i never hated you, i was just mad about homecomming." And i said that he had no right to be mad considering the fact that when we were together he got head from the ugly model. he pulled me in for another hug and denied the fact that he had his phone after hc claiming he wasnt ignoring me. LIES!! well he was on me all night and noone else. following me around, putting his arm around me, w/e. then i decided i needed to speak my mind. i was flat out and told him that i was sorry for hc but that everything he did our whole relationship was so much worse than that one night i messed up. and he was like "how so?". i reminded him of how he told me i wasnt as skinny as most girls he goes for and how he told me how much better i looked after losing 10 pds from the mono he gave me and that i shouldnt gain my weight back, and how he got head from one of the most repulsive human beings in the whole world while we were together. lastly how he puked in my sink and got me grounded for the rest of the summer. he sat there kind of stunned and admitted defeat saying "yeah, youre right, im sorry." that was all. he didnt make more of an apology, or deny anything, he only said that. we left and i havent talked to him since our hug goodbye. clearly, hes still hasnt changed. why do i still care so much? why am i restraining so hard texting him right now? what the hell is wrong with me? and what kind of apology is that? lastly, how does he think he can just jump into and out of my life? like play little mind games of hot and cold.
hey sweetie, unfortunately i'm going through something like this right now too. this guy i loved, treated me like shit. he hurt me, really bad and he never realized what he did to me. i didn't see him for awhile and when i ran into him, all my feelings came rushing back and i felt like no matter what he did to me, it didn't matter anymore. i started falling for him all over again, and i thought after i told him how much he hurt me and he realized what he did things would be different but he doesn't text me anymore, i got my hopes up and i ended up hurt once again. you care so much because you liked him so much, you loved the attention he was giving you and you realized how much you missed him. i always try to restrain myself from just saying "i miss you.." but i know that i can't do it, it's not something i can do. you need to stay strong, if he really wanted to talk to you he would call or text you first. nothing is wrong with you, i hope it makes you feel better that i'm going through the same thing. i think about this guy everyday and all i can think about is what he is doing, who is he with. every time i get a text, i hope its him but it never is. it's like you hope he is thinking about you, thinking about what you're doing but something in your heart is telling you he doesn't care at all. maybe he just wanted to hook up with you that night, and was just saying sorry so he could get you back. i really hope it wasn't but i always look at every possible situation. i hate how guys won't talk to you, and then you start forgetting about them and the pain goes away and then they come back right when you were doing better, and that just makes everything back to how it was before. guys don't know what they want, they think they can do whatever they want and it won't hurt anyone. they really only do care about themselves, it might sound harsh but i thought the guy i was talking to was different than the other guys but he is not at all. it does make me lose hope but i'm not going to let it ruin my life. you have to be strong and i know you are. it's hard to get over him, i know. i bet all your friends say you can do better, to just move on and forget about him and that he doesn't deserve you. that he treated you like shit, and you don't need that. i've heard that so many times but people don't understand that you can't just forget about someone, it's not that easy. you can't just move on, it's so much easier said than done. i wish i could tell you how to get over him, but you can't stop yourself from liking someone, you can't tell your heart what to do. it's not your fault. don't bring yourself down, keep your head held high. if you ever need to talk about anything else, or just to get things off your chest don't ever hesitate to e-mail me at: lindsayluxo@yahoo.com
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im a blonde 5'7 116 pounds and i wana get some peircings but idk what kind I want. I want to be creative. Any ideas on what would look good on me?
I rate high
im 5'5 and 110 pounds, so pretty close to you and i have:
my bellybutton
my ears triple pierced
my cartiladge, more in the middle of my ear
and my tragus
i'm not sure if your talking about on your face or your ears but you could always get a small earring in your nose if you don't already, many people say i would look really cute with that. if you're talking about your ears there are MANY unique places that you can get pierced. it all depends on where you're thinking about getting it done! let me know and i can help you out more :) ♥ LU
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okay,well about a month ago i met this kid. He's a year younger than me and i really liked him. we've hungout at one highschool eventt, with my friends. he became friends with my best friend's boyfriend. and when they went away to "bond", he kept asking my friends boyfriend things about me like "what was her face like when i was hugging her? how did she do thiss or that?" things like that.wouldn't you think that would mean he liked me?-or is it some kind of sick-twisted way of him keeping track on how hard he made me fall for him?(what do you think?)
So after that good time, we didn't hug goodbye. even though he was right next to me. and then he ignores me for two weeks straight in school after that,not even one look. He's always around other girls, and my friends always tell me how hes with at least 5 girls at a time in the hall. I decided it was time to let go and i did. FINNALLY. and what do you know, he starts talking to me again and flirting with me hard core.He always trys to impress me.(supposidly)I CANT HELP BUT FALL FOR HIM AGAIN. he doesn't realize, but he really hurt me. And i'm not sure if he's just trying to make me jealous,or for real is just a player. Anything you know about guys like these? How can i stop falling for him? Any help because i'm so sad about this. thanks
oh sweetie this is the worst. i'm dealing with a guy like this right now too. i thought i was different than the other girls, when i was with him he made it seem like there was nobody else he cared about but then i started realizing he was always texting other girls, he wouldn't talk to me except for when he wanted something and he didn't treat me the best. i didn't want to let him go though, i fell so hard for him. it's not like i could just give up and move on, even though thats what i wanted more than anything. after i started to tell myself i needed to do better, and i did deserve better i stopped talking to him and just like that boy did to you, he started texting me and wanting to hang out again and as always, i gave in. i let myself keep getting hurt over and over, ask me why? i couldn't tell ya. i'm finally going to be strong, be the girl i know i can be and move on from this. i could be missing out on a boy who really does want me and would treat me like a princess, and thats what you need to do too. stop talking to him, even though it will be hard but make him realize that he is not going to get away with this. make him realize you're not just another girl, make him realize that he missed out on the best thing that could of happened to him. he will probably start to miss you, but let him. let him get hurt, just like he hurt you. hang out with your girls, focus on school and your family. a guy will come around who wants you, who wants only the best for you and who knows you are the only one for him. i'm not sure when it will be, but i know that he will come and when he does, he will make you the happiest girl ever and you will look back and just realize that this boy made you stronger. he will probably still be trying to play girls, and he will end up alone and hurt while you're happy with your life :) i hope you realize that you're an amazing person, don't let this boy get to you. i know what you're going through and it is hard, but we just have to know that this is now what we deserve. good luck hun, i know things will work out ♥ LU
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