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how to get her attention..
hey you answered my last question and it was really good advice..the thing is she is kind of my good friend but whenever I do talk to her, most of the time, she talks about other guys to me, so that makes me wonder that she only sees me as a friend. I really do like her but I just don't think she sees me in the same way? Normally when I text her, I text her with a reason behind it (so it isn't just out of the blue, because it can get annoying right?) well again, most of the time when I text her, she texts once expecting a reply (because she asks a question) but then I don't get a reply after that. Is that just because she can't be bothered with me?
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hey :) i will admit, girls are very confusing. most of the time we don't even know what we want haha. but i liked my best friend, but i ALWAYS was talking about other guys to him. you want to know why? to try and make him jealous. i wanted to show him that i wasn't just going to wait around for him to finally do something, and that there are other guys who are interested in me. maybe this is not the best thing to do, but all girls do it. sometimes it will push the guy away but it's definately not our intention. maybe she doesn't know that you like her, maybe she just thinks you see her as a friend! thats what happened with me and my best friend. i think we both just figured neither of us would ever think of each other as anything more than friends UNTIL he made a move, and i knew he was interested. i then could show how i truly felt because i knew he felt the same way. you have to talk to her, please!! you don't have to flat out say, i like you. but flirt with her, you can even ask her who she likes. i do the same thing with guys though, i will only text them if there is a reason behind it because otherwise i feel like i'm bugging them but it's not like that at all. she probably likes it when you text her! we hate having to do all the work. if she is your good friend, she will not think you are annoying, trust me on this one. you have to take chances, even if it may be hard. don't go on wondering "what if.." all the time!! i didn't exactly get the last part you were saying, but maybe she was just busy, or was texting too many people at once. that always happens to me, like five people will be texting me and i will forget to text some people back, oops. but don't let that bother you. if you're comfortable enough with her, then let it all out. i've learned the hard way that if you wait too long, you might miss out on something amazing! and remember, never give up on something you can't go a day without thinking about! i hoped this helped, don't be scared to come back if you have any other questions or i didn't answer something good enough ♥ LU
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