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Question Posted Monday December 22 2008, 7:55 pm

ok sometimes i get really angery when I see thing undo when i asked them to get done. i also get the feeling of being over whemled when i see stuff that i need to do. like if someone makes a mess of one of the cabinets i get over whemled by it like it is too much to handle. I get mad an angery. I start to freak out and everything. and i really get upset when things dont go my way. i think i have a mental problem. sometimes i start something and do finsh it like i have alot of great ideals but never start them i want to stop this behavor so i can chill out i hate getting like this and i hurt the feeling of the ones i love. i make nasty comments and everything what is wrong with me

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THINKPOSITIVE7 answered Sunday January 25 2009, 7:32 pm:
Hello sounds like you may have a mild case of anxiety when it comes to getting things done, I wouldnt lean more toward a mood disorder because you mainly get frustrated when things dont get done or do not go the way you want. Sounds similar to a form of perfectionism,impatience, and feeling bogged down bye the simple things in life. What i would advise for now is to try to realx and go with the flow. Everything is not worth getting upset over, their is so much going on in the world that the small things you frustrate yourself over are not worth it at all. You sound like you might be overwhelmed by your job, family issues..etc which can cause you to get very frustrated over little things when you are in actuality overlooking the real problem.It is a defense mechanism know as transference you transfer your anger into different things and all of your anger spills over to little things and unfortunatley to the people around you. Try to sit down and think about what might really be bothering you it can be extremly helpful! I hope this was helpful, If you have any further questions and or comments I am here..the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)

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05natalie05 answered Tuesday December 23 2008, 9:49 am:
Hmm... I will try my best to help, but this might not be correct.

You might be going through pubery or mood swings, it could be a natural thing or maybe you have OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
Or something might be bothering you mentally. Has something happened to you lately, like the death of someone, a break-up or maybe financial issues? Anything like that could trigger this stress and worry. If it gets REALLY bad, maybe you should talk to someone you trust or a doctor.

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