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Unrequited love so to say
Well...If you hadn't read my other questions, this is a short summary.
I am a senior (high school) and I like this guy..We have been really good friends since like august (even though we knew each other before..offically started talking august) I thought he liked me..but i was wrong.
This past sunday we went out to eat and he told me he just got a girlfriend..since 3 days...and hes known her since july...I smile and acted all happy for him even though i was crying on the inside. I swear i have never felt this way..I didn't even start crying until i woke up the next morning. I knew i wasn't ever gunna tell him how i felt cuz it always ruins the friendship..and thats all guys ever see me as...is a friend...so i guess that's all we are..and that's better than nothing...but i wanted something more.
I don't know how to feel..I don't know what to think...and my crying is different...all i have are tears out of my eyes...no sound at all..i must be really hurt.
What should I do?
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Time will heal. don't worry about that b/c it happens to all of us, and it's very painful I know, but love doesn't always work out for everyone, but just b/c it doesn't work out for you with this guy, doesn't mean it won't work out with anybody else later on or in the future, you've just gotta wait for the right one to come, and don't give up hope. you're a senior in highschool, so you've got a long time ahead of you, in the mean time, enjoy life and have fun being a teenager while you still can, love can wait. I hope I helped:)
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Well you have two options.
One, you can be friends with this guy. If you cant be his girlfriend, and you cant not talk to him, then atleast your able to be in his presence.
Or.
Two, you can tell him how you feel, unless he's told you that he doesn't like you, then you really cant judge how he feels. You can always give it that chance, and even if he does tell you he doesnt feel the same, tell him you don't want nothing to happen to your friendship.
Sure you'll act weird at first, but time heals everything.
I hope I've helped.
I really don't want to tell you what to do in this situation, mainly because, I don't want to be the reason for your mistake.
I just want to give you your options.
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