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I told her before she had a boyfriend. Oh wait, I seriously don't know how I could forget to mention this...she's my ex! There was a point where we stopped talking back in January/February, but since May me and her have become good friends. So I'm in fear that if I "over do it" in flirting I'll scare her away again. But seeing as she's my ex, is there no hope? She's even told me that I'm her best guy friend, and thing is she's only recently just broken up with her ex about 2 weeks ago. I'm in a real mess here! btw I really love your advice!
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haha oh boy, i can't believe you forgot to tell me she was your ex! this might change some things a little bit. so what i would do in your situation is talk to her. ask her if she would ever consider going back out with you. tell her that you want another chance and things will be different this time (i'm not sure why you guys broke up in the first place?) but if it was because of something you did, then tell her it will be different. my cousin really wants to go back out with his ex but he did some pretty mean things to her which would make her not trust him anymore and so she said he will have to earn his chance. and he will have to show her that she can trust him again and that things will be different. when i broke up with my ex, he wanted to get back together of course but i just wasn't happy with him. i didn't have that same smile and i wasn't the same girl i use to be. i wasn't the girl who could make anyone laugh anymore and it was because of him. i told him that i didn't want to lose my happiness, and that he would have to change and be serious about it if he really wanted me back. i finally had my smile back, and i was the lindsay i use to be, and i wasn't going to just let him back into my life so easily. so yes, you may have to work for her. but in the end, i know it will be worth it. there is HOPE! i'm not saying she will want you back, but i'm not saying you should ever give up. it's hard to tell, because i don't know this girl and i don't really know the whole situation very well but i believe if you want something bad enough, you will get it ♥ LU
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