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how to get her attention
well i'm a guy who's 17 and I really like this girl but how do I get the courage to talk to her properly and not make a fool of myself? I want to erm..be all that she thinks of? (well that's going over the top) but I want to get her attention and not just seem like any other guy but just someone that catches her attention. Help?
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To begin with dont act like someone your not just to impress her trust me some girls dont fall for that, you have to know what kind of girl; she is then look at what kind of person you are. Just try to catch her sometime by herself when her friends are away so she dont try to play you cause her friends around. Talk to her and get her number but really dont get to the point that you want to go out with her because most girls i know say that "they want to know a guy befor they start dating them" talk to her see
what she is all about and tell her some about, you can lie a litttle to make your self look good....lol but dont make the the whole thing up. Once you see who is then drop some hints so she can see you into her ask her relationship related questions such as What do you look for in a guy? and get ready, She is going to answer the question then ask why? and from there i think you can handle it...... good luck man.........
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write her a note! i did that with a guy i liked. i pretty much said hey i'm ____. i'm in your gym class and i think you're pretty cute so text me sometime :) and i left my number. we actually talked a few times after that. try it. a note is pretty special cuz it shows the person that you took time out of your day for them and put thought into how you wanted to communicate with them .. i'm sure she would think that it's sweet! the kid i liked thought my note was cute :) good luck!
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all i want from a guy is someone who will actually listen to me and just be there for me when i need someone. i liked this guy, but he just didn't treat me how i wanted to be treated. i hate guys that don't seem interested or are hard to read. what you need to do is show her that she can trust you, show her that if she needs someone to talk to that you will be there to listen. make the first move and text her, or call her. i would love a guy who would do that for me. i hate feeling like i always have to start the conversation because it makes me feel like they're not interested or i'm bugging them. but trust me, when you text us we really do like it :) i love a guy who can be funny and be outgoing, and just put a smile on my face. even if you think you're making a fool of yourself, she will probably actually think its cute. please DONT text her though saying that she is perfect, and that she is all you think about because i've had that happen before to me and it did kind of creep me out lol. guys think that they can talk to all these girls, and they wonder why we think they're not interested! i mean you don't have to stop talking to your girl friends, but don't be flirting with them or anything in front of this girl because then she will either think you are just like any other guy and plays girls, or you simply aren't interested in her. give her attention, thats all we really want :) hope i helped, good luck boy!!!! if you need anything else, feel free to ask ♥ LU
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Be her friend first. That might sound like you're going into the wrong direction, but you're not. As long as you're there for her, treat her nicely, are friendly, give her your attention, and spend time with her, she'll realize that you do care for her and that you'll be there to talk to. You should take her out on a date. Girls like when guys are honest. Tell her how you feel. It isn't a bad thing. That way there will be no confusion. If she doesn't feel the same, at least you'll know. If you're her friend, you can spend time with her and see where things go from there.
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