well i'm a guy who's 17 and I really like this girl but how do I get the courage to talk to her properly and not make a fool of myself? I want to erm..be all that she thinks of? (well that's going over the top) but I want to get her attention and not just seem like any other guy but just someone that catches her attention. Help?
Thanks!
To begin with dont act like someone your not just to impress her trust me some girls dont fall for that, you have to know what kind of girl; she is then look at what kind of person you are. Just try to catch her sometime by herself when her friends are away so she dont try to play you cause her friends around. Talk to her and get her number but really dont get to the point that you want to go out with her because most girls i know say that "they want to know a guy befor they start dating them" talk to her see
what she is all about and tell her some about, you can lie a litttle to make your self look good....lol but dont make the the whole thing up. Once you see who is then drop some hints so she can see you into her ask her relationship related questions such as What do you look for in a guy? and get ready, She is going to answer the question then ask why? and from there i think you can handle it...... good luck man.........
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I've been dating this guy for two months and he's always making me upset and then happy and then upset. It's always an emotional rollercoaster because I end up getting disappointed most of the time. We're both gay by the way. Anyway, for his birthday I bought him massage oil and bubble bath liquid from Bath and Body works and he turned it down telling me he should've told me what he wanted and been more specific. Lame right? So I kept the gift X_X. Now Christmas comes around and I ask for a wallet from Fossil since he doesn't "do suprises" he said that, "he would feel better knowing exactly what I wanted that way he wouldn't feel bad spending money on me." Lame again eh? So anyway, he texts me telling me he's at the mall at fossil so I call him and tell him what color I want. 2 days come along and he tells me that he actually didn't buy me the wallet because I sounded unsure on the phone. Truth be told I didn't really care THAT much but I still need a wallet since mine is getting stuffed... Lame again anyone? This is what he said me regarding his new gift to me. "Since neither of us know what we want for christmas how about we just spend time together?" Now I don't feel so bad about this since we hardly spend time together and since it's christmas break we haven't spent any time together for about a month. He goes, "I don't want to sound cheap since you already got me a gift but this is probably the best that I can do." Now hahah this just doesn't seem right... Anyway... I need help honestly. I've asked a ton of questions regarding whether or not I should keep him and most of them come to the conclusion as "no." But I do like him, and everytime that we ARE together it's fantastic but recently it just seems that he's not paying any attention to me and always playing games over me and we never talk since he's always playing World of Warcraft and his absence of attention is starting to make me lose interest in whatever it is that we have. We're not exclusively in a relationship since he's still in the closet but seriously... if he wants a relationship with me he needs to know how to have one... I've had many talks with him regarding "us" and all the questions that I ask him are answered with "I don't know =/" and now I just don't know if he's worth the stress and nights where I stay awake just wondering what I should do with him. I hate having to be angry about him and I ALWAYS have to comfort myself by saying to myself, "we're just friends" since we're obviously nothing more... This statement also confuses me since he keeps telling me to tell people that are interested in me that i'm "currently dating someone." Blah... Please help!@! and sorry it was so long I just needed to get all of this out...
WOW! All i can tell you is to follow your heart Does he make you happy? Do you enjoy being with him? Why do you think he acting like that? so you say he tells you to tell people you in a relationship so that means he wants you but at the same time scared someone will find out. You have to understand that he cares about but really dont show it when all he do is play that game. Dont stress your self out trust me i been there, Talk to him ask him Whats going between us? do you want to be with me or not? take the time to feel what he is feeling "IF" you really like him but if NOT i guess you know what to do.........lol
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I'm 15 (a sophomore in HS), and I have never really dated anyone. It's not that i don't like guys (i'm a girl if you couldn't tell), because i have in the past, but they just never seem into me. I mean i don't think I'm ugly or anything of that sort, and i have guy friends, so i'm not socially awkward. Am i being very paranoid, or is this common (or both?)?
Teens these days just have boyfriends and girlfriends just for the fun of, just to say they did this with this person!, not all of them but most of them, the question is not rather or not you start dating but the question is Why do you haver a boyfriend? IM 17 and i have a girlfriend because i can tell her anything and everything, and i can be cool with her and i just feel myself around her, when im with her all my stress is gone, thats why i have a girl, thats something you should think bout.
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My exboyfriend and I were in a very close relationship. I thought it was perfect. Seriously. Long story short, he eventually told me that he wanted a break. When I changed my status on myspace to "Single" a week later, he told me that he was shocked that I did that.
That happened a month ago. I still love him so much. I miss him. I haven't seen him since he told me he wanted a break. I want to get together and talk to him, and tell him how much of a mistake I think the break was. We were so close. I thought he loved me.
Should I ask him to meet me somewhere? If yes, what do I say? I love him.
You not wrong in any way and your exboyfriend is not either really you dont know the reason he wanted a break, it could of been family problem or something but really look at it this way Your single and dont have worry about know one on your back when you go out and you can learn from you mistakes and his mistakes. just go out have fun, and take you mind off him and when he do call back just take it slow dont rush in back to the pass, talk about what he wants, and ask him how he been doing..................
...................Take it ONE STEP AT A TIME
Jordan Sparks
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k so i have this reaaalllyyy good friend that used to have a gf and i had a bf so we didn't hang out that much then i broke up with my bf and started hanging out with him A LOT like almost 4 5 times per week. oh yea his gf lived in another town so they never see each toher ..anyway we became really close friends adn then she broke up with him so we started going out even more frecuently...one day we finally started kissing...then hooked up and we've been like that since almost 2 months ago and he broke up with her prolly 3 ago ...anyway ..so i once told him i didn't want us to make out anymore or go further because i really really liked him, ( meaning like if he is not looking for a relationship with me dont make out with me anymroe cause i was serious about him) and he was like we've been close friends since almost 3 years and you know i wouldnt do that to you (kiss me and all if he didn't like me ) i wouldnt be doing that to you i like you too. so that was okey..but its been a month and a half of that!!! thats like 2723 hang outs . and 2324 times making out.
and i get confused cause one day we make out and the next day we go to the movies or somethign and just hang out as friends!and kiss goodbye on the cheek..then the next day we hang out and we're making out and kisses me goodbye on the lips ..i mean like wtf is he thinkin??? i¿d prefer getting a guys opinion about this..cause he said he wouldnt hurt me or anything (like using me blabla ) and it just seems to me like he's doing it by treating me like we're dating one day and the next we're just friends then like we're dating blablabla ..like i dont know where we're standing. and i feel like i dont want to ask him cause thats what i mean when i told him i didnt wanted to hook up if this was meaningless to him i dont want to look like im rushing it to be in a relationship with me or somethign ...i was just wondering ...do you guys find this normal if you where dating someone?cause its like we're "dating " in an intermitent way i guess
thanks in advance
WOW! Really in my opinion i think he is either really feeling you but dont want to show that a little too much, because he knows this relationship is a real strong one and feels like its moving a little too fast, he might want to just have fun, just slow down take the time to talk and understand each other. Have you ever watched the movie Diary of a mad black woman? thats one of my favorites and you and your friend remind me of that movie alot. thats just my opinion.
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Has anyone else noticed that questions are the same? I mean I love this site, but latly i've been getting bored because every question is the same!! It bothers me. Like 13 year olds talking about boyfriends, friends, and sex. It's like how difficult is your life at 13?! Anyone else feel the same? ANd how can i make this site more interesting for me?
Well if you really get tired of this site maybe you should just change you catagory and move on toll the other talk and take some time away from all the sex talks and things like that, thats just my opinion but you are right you're only 13 you already being talked to about sex and everything.
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