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question to guys "dating" girls?
k so i have this reaaalllyyy good friend that used to have a gf and i had a bf so we didn't hang out that much then i broke up with my bf and started hanging out with him A LOT like almost 4 5 times per week. oh yea his gf lived in another town so they never see each toher ..anyway we became really close friends adn then she broke up with him so we started going out even more frecuently...one day we finally started kissing...then hooked up and we've been like that since almost 2 months ago and he broke up with her prolly 3 ago ...anyway ..so i once told him i didn't want us to make out anymore or go further because i really really liked him, ( meaning like if he is not looking for a relationship with me dont make out with me anymroe cause i was serious about him) and he was like we've been close friends since almost 3 years and you know i wouldnt do that to you (kiss me and all if he didn't like me ) i wouldnt be doing that to you i like you too. so that was okey..but its been a month and a half of that!!! thats like 2723 hang outs . and 2324 times making out.
and i get confused cause one day we make out and the next day we go to the movies or somethign and just hang out as friends!and kiss goodbye on the cheek..then the next day we hang out and we're making out and kisses me goodbye on the lips ..i mean like wtf is he thinkin??? i¿d prefer getting a guys opinion about this..cause he said he wouldnt hurt me or anything (like using me blabla ) and it just seems to me like he's doing it by treating me like we're dating one day and the next we're just friends then like we're dating blablabla ..like i dont know where we're standing. and i feel like i dont want to ask him cause thats what i mean when i told him i didnt wanted to hook up if this was meaningless to him i dont want to look like im rushing it to be in a relationship with me or somethign ...i was just wondering ...do you guys find this normal if you where dating someone?cause its like we're "dating " in an intermitent way i guess
thanks in advance
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WOW! Really in my opinion i think he is either really feeling you but dont want to show that a little too much, because he knows this relationship is a real strong one and feels like its moving a little too fast, he might want to just have fun, just slow down take the time to talk and understand each other. Have you ever watched the movie Diary of a mad black woman? thats one of my favorites and you and your friend remind me of that movie alot. thats just my opinion.
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Guess what? You're a lucky girl. You are dating a guy who likes to hang out and talk with you as much as he likes kissing you. At least you know he's not only interested in one thing. You guys have been friends for a long time, and there's no reason to forget about that important part of your relationship because that is what will make it so strong. Most girls are complaining that their boyfriend only wants to mess around, and you are one of the lucky ones who has a guy who wants the complete package. He started liking you because of your friendship, and all of the stuff you talk about, and the kissing is a plus.
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