Member Since: January 11, 2009
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Last Update: January 11, 2009
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We were best friends all during high school, and thouht maybe we should give it a shot & got together. well the begining of the relationship was amazing. he made me feel like i was the only girl in the world who could ever feel like this, until one day he got so mad he hit me. not in the face or where it would show. It was on my thiegh. I tried to look past it, but he just kept hitting me. It started out only when he got mad & we were arguing, but then it started to be an everyday thing. if i was "driving wrong" he would hit me, or i "said something stupid" he would hit me. then he stopped cause my family found out. but, he started again a few months later. i always ask him why he feels like he needs to hit me, why cant he jus express his anger to me in a different way. I want to know what to do. Im so lost. I love him so much, & i know that this relationship could work, i jus dont know what to say to him. Please,, i need some help. (link)
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I know everyone is going to tell you to get out of the relationship so you don't get hurt but suprisingly that isnt what im going to tell you. I have been in the same situation as a matter of fact i still am. I know if you love someone it is nearly impossible to leave them not matter what they do. When my boyfriend started hitting me i tried everything. First i was so nice to him even when he hit me he couldnt stand it. The first time i cried so hard and asked him how he could do such a thing to me. Unfortuently he didnt sympothize much. I think you should try being a little mean back, try back bone stand up for yourself. next time he swings at you grab his hand and say iadvise you not to do that and bend his finger back until it really hurts him or something. or be really shady towards him almost like you dont like him it will leave him on edge and adventually he will ask you whats up with you and say i was respect and since you stopped showing it to me ive stopped caring about you. I can almost gaurentee it will work.
it did for me
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I was on birth control for about a year and a half and decided to come off of it after I finished my period in early December. My boyfriend and I had sex on New Year's Eve. It was protected sex all but once when we were in the bathtub. I was no longer on birth control at this time (i stopped taking it around the 15th at the end of the pack), but I took Plan B when I woke up the morning after(about 4 hours later). I am about a week late on my period. Is this because of coming off of the birth control? I understood that Plan B makes your period come sooner. Can anybody help me underdstand this situation.
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Hey, I wouldnt worry! I take birth control and when i miss one pill it has me all messed up! ill either be extremly late starting or i will be very early.and sometimes i wont have one for that month at all. It is most likley where you came off of the pill and it has your body confused if you dont have your period next month then i would worry. just take care of your body until then.
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