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My exboyfriend and I were in a very close relationship. I thought it was perfect. Seriously. Long story short, he eventually told me that he wanted a break. When I changed my status on myspace to "Single" a week later, he told me that he was shocked that I did that.
That happened a month ago. I still love him so much. I miss him. I haven't seen him since he told me he wanted a break. I want to get together and talk to him, and tell him how much of a mistake I think the break was. We were so close. I thought he loved me.
Should I ask him to meet me somewhere? If yes, what do I say? I love him.
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You not wrong in any way and your exboyfriend is not either really you dont know the reason he wanted a break, it could of been family problem or something but really look at it this way Your single and dont have worry about know one on your back when you go out and you can learn from you mistakes and his mistakes. just go out have fun, and take you mind off him and when he do call back just take it slow dont rush in back to the pass, talk about what he wants, and ask him how he been doing..................
...................Take it ONE STEP AT A TIME
Jordan Sparks
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Well if he wants to come back, he will. And if he does, saying "I love you" will make him want to walk away or run because of all the things you made him think about in that amount of time between the break up and the moment you saw him you began to talk.
I would give it time but other than that I would move on. I would consider it a lesson: that you need to think about things more clearly before giving them up without realization for what it is exactly that you're doing. Like changing you're status while you're on a break would probably make anyone cry because you're not giving it a chance and you're just rushing it to the end.
I'm not saying you did anything wrong. You just didn't wait long enough to see how it would all work out.
But I wouldn't dwell on it. You have you're life ahead of you.
-KD/f/15
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He said he wanted a break. That means eventually it should end, and therefore, when HE is ready, HE will contact you.
The more you push him to talk, the more time it will take for him to realize whatever it was that he wanted to realize because of this break.
It's best if you wait for him to talk to you first. Until then, please be patient.
--Jack
(16/m)
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He just may need some space to work out what he really wants. However, that doesn't help the way you feel right now. What I suggest is that you write down in a letter what you are feeling and going through at the moment (without any recriminations) and tell him that you thought the break up was a mistake. Don't pile on any pressure or guilt trips, but do explain that you need some answers when he is ready to talk to you. For you to move on, if that should turn out to be the case, you need to know where you stand. Send the letter and give him some time to read it through, but if you don't get an answer within a reasonable amount of time, forget him and start living for yourself. Good luck.
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