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im 14, female obviously, and i have a problem. i have had my period for a little over a year. i get my period REALLY heavy, as in i have to change my pad every hour, even really heavy ones because they feel disgusting if i dont. I want to try tampons and ive tried before but they wont go in! i thought i knew what hole they went in but aparnetly no, because it wont go in more than an inch and it hurts so badly while doing it. ive asked my mom to help me but even SHE cant get it in...and shes been using tampons for 30 years. ive considered menstrual cups, but i cant use those until something goes IN my vagina. Does anyone have diagrams or advice for me? and the reason i need tampons so badly is because im a swimmer and its such a pain to carry around so many bulky pads...THANKYOU (link)
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i have the same problem! im 16, though. whenever i try to put a tampon in, its very painful and it only goes in halfway and then it just stops. im going to ask my mom's gyno on what to do sometime in the near future tho.
i know this doesnt answer your question, but just letting you know, you're not alone! if you find any solutions, please let me know!
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I just masturbated again. I feel so horibble! I just want to die. I feel like God will never forgiive me. Some one just kill me. I feel like a whore. Some one help me please. Oh my dear God please help me. I feel like such a horibble person. HELP ME!!!!! What can I do. I feel horrible. Will someone please tell me how to stop this? (link)
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God created people KNOWING they would do things like masturbate. its kind of like -- if you dont have sex before marriage, God gives you the option of sexually experimenting with yourself. it's really nothing to be ashamed of. EVERYONE does it because everyone is sexually curious, especially if they are not sexually active. you are just finding yourself and figuring yourself out. dont feel bad at all!!! everyone feels a bit guilty at first, but hey, its YOUR body. as long as you're not doing any harm to yourself, there's nothing wrong with making yourself happy and having some alone time to just figure yourself out. just do what makes you happy, and im SURE God does not think you are a terrible person. bodies were made to recieve pleasure, being sexually active or not. dont worry! God loves you for who you are and wants you to be happy.
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so i love those kind of shirts that are like fitted around the waist and get a little looser towards the top, and then have the loose, flowy short sleeves. does anyone know what im talking about? i dont really know how else to describe it. anyone know of a specific store [not online] that sells them? and please dont say abercrombie hollister blah blah because they dont have them and if they did they'd probably be forty bucks! thanks. (link)
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i dont know if this is what youre talking about .. but i got this one at target and it pretty much fits your description :)
http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Black-Georgette-Novelty-Cappucino/dp/B001JYGCBW/qid=1231707507/ref=br_1_1/176-7075286-2048820?ie=UTF8&node=699993011&frombrowse=1&rh=&page=1
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I'm a 26 year old male would-be author who hasn't been able to find work in the year since he graduated, nor got his book that he worked on published.
I feel like a drain on my family, friends, love life and so on.
I feel like a failure in every sense of the word. And I feel as if I lost faith in so many things, mostly myself, and that my life has run its course as far as mattering goes.
How can I regain my will to try, to persist, to basically live? (link)
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don't give up! you're situation is kind of like acting. sometimes, it can take actors years to find jobs. others, it takes 1 lucky moment and they're stars. but in reality, you have to work really hard to get what you want in life. don't give up just because things did not go your way the first time. if you give up on yourself, you may never know what could have happened. keep trying and i'm sure your friends and family do not think you are a dissapointment. i'm sure theyre really proud of you for trying. please don't give up on yourself! keep your faith up and have a lot of determination. if you really want this, i'm sure you will get this one way or another, even if it takes some more time. keep pushing forward and one of these days, someone will see all your hard work and dedication, and you'll get your book published. don't doubt yourself. you went to school, you're smart, and you've worked hard for several years. someone is bound to notice sooner or later. keep your head up and keep moving forward. your book WILL get published one day. keep telling yourself that and don't give up hope. good luck with everything!
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This is wierd, but whenever something embarassing happens, I get really red. And to add to it, my friends say, your getting so red right now! and im like stop, but I try to make it funny and laugh at myself. But sometimes, when I even talk to my teacher I get red. I try to stay calm, and reverse my thinking by saying, its okay to myself but no luck. even not thinking about it doesnt work. Help??? i really cant deal anymore. (link)
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i have the same exact problem!! that happens ALLLLL the time to me .. even when i think im not people are like wow you turned so red and im like what? i did not feel anything. especially when i present to the class i turn red. just know that youre not the only one! idk i have side bangs, so it makes me feel better when my bangs cover most of my forehead. i mean it doesnt do much but it makes me feel better. and i use a foundation that makes me have a bit of a tan color .. idk i think me and you need to feel more confident! sorry this doesnt really help but just saying you're definetly not alone! good luck!
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well i'm a guy who's 17 and I really like this girl but how do I get the courage to talk to her properly and not make a fool of myself? I want to erm..be all that she thinks of? (well that's going over the top) but I want to get her attention and not just seem like any other guy but just someone that catches her attention. Help?
Thanks! (link)
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write her a note! i did that with a guy i liked. i pretty much said hey i'm ____. i'm in your gym class and i think you're pretty cute so text me sometime :) and i left my number. we actually talked a few times after that. try it. a note is pretty special cuz it shows the person that you took time out of your day for them and put thought into how you wanted to communicate with them .. i'm sure she would think that it's sweet! the kid i liked thought my note was cute :) good luck!
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14/f
Okay, just as a warning, this is going to be REALLY long. Please, anyone who reads this, please read ALL of it, since there are a lot of details to the situation. Okay, here goes!
So, I have been going to the same church for like three years now, and there's this one really awesome guy I like. For this I'll just call him Tom, even though that's not his real name. I just really started liking him this spring, although we had known each other before hand. I'm kind of a tomboy and I'm rather anti-social, as in I like/dislike things most other girls don't/do. Basically, I detest shopping, make-up could go burn in the fiery abyss for all I care, the color pink makes me vomit, perfume can actually give me serious breathing problems, I enjoy being messy, dirt is awesome, I don't give much crap about my appearance, aside from looking slightly presentable, weapons are wonderful, I train obsessively in martial arts, I'm okay with violence/blood, swords make me feel all fuzzy inside, and I get along better with animals than I do with people. I've pretty much always hated all guys because I was pretty much abused by other boys in my early and pre school years, ie getting choked by a kid in 1st grade. As a result, I really hate pretty much all guys and I feel almost violent, so when I find a guy I like and can relax around, it's really nice. So anyway, Tom and I really started talking more early this year when I got seriously PO'd at this other dude who wouldn't leave me alone. For whatever reason, even though I was flipping out at all the other guys, Tom was the only one who could come near me, and he helped me calm down. And even though this sounds weird, he was only able to calm me down by showing me his weapons magazine, full of swords, daggers, archery equipment, rifles, etc. It put me in a happy place, and I was finally able to relax enough to survive the other guys.
Tom is really awesome, he loves a lot of things I do, including hunting, weapons, animals, anime/manga, action movies, etc. After service at church, we're always trying to find each other to talk. It's practically the only thing I've been doing lately at the church I go to. Tom is really nice, at least to me. It feels like he knows everything I do, and knows how I feel, and we act similarly in a situation. He just... Makes me feel amazing, which has never happened to me with a guy before. Tom's technically a year younger than me, but we're in the same age group, and I really wish I could see him more often than once a week.
So anyways, how the heck do I tell him I like him? I have no clue if he feels the same way about me, or w/e. I'm so afraid I'll get rejected or he'll feel all awkward or something. Should I wait for him to say something? I really like him, and I've never had a boyfriend before, and I'm starting to get kinda lonely since even my sister has had a wonderful bf for almost a year now. Please, please help me! I'm really confused! ;_;
~Weapon (link)
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write him a note! i did that to a kid i liked. i pretty much said hey i think youre cute text me sometime :) and i left my number. and we actually talked a few times after that. try it!
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I'm a sophomore and about two weeks ago my best friend and I were walking in the hallway at school and she tells me that this senior was staring at me two days in a row and I got really excited because I had seen him looking at me once or twice before but I didnt really think anything of it. So then she would look at him in the hallways to see if he would look and he did! I was really happy and was determined to make eye contact but now...he looks away or down! Or he scratches his head or eyes, something awkward like that! I think he knows that I know he was staring at me and maybe he feels embarrased..? I dont know! I really want to make something happen but I dont know how to come across it without seeming creepy/stalkerish. Plus I dont have ANY classes with him or anything. Guys, imagine you are that guy what would you want the girl to do? But I'm open to anyone suggesting anything. Thanks (link)
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i definetly think you should facebook him or myspace him. that's an easy way to talk to him and it's not awkward.
i had a similar situation to yours last year. when i was a sophomore and this kid was a junior, he was in my gym class and i thought he was soooooooo cute. and my friend was in his class and shes his next door neighbor .. soo with alot of courage, i wrote him a note & she gave it to him for me! i pretty much said heyy i'm in your gym and i think you're pretty cute :) text me sometime .. and i left my number .. i ended up talking to him a few times after that. i would definetly try that .. plus its a nice surprise to the guy that you made an effort to tell him how you feel :) good luck!
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