about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

how do i know if a guy really likes me. or he's just saying the things he's saying becuase he figures its what i want to hear?

You can never really, truly tell. All guys are different, therefore it's hard to find out if they do like you. Some will never show expression and others will show little expression. Anyways, if a guy has been liking you for quite sometime, he will probably come straight out and ask you, or gets his friends to. If he always looks at you and smiles, or flirts back, chances are that he probably likes you. Sometimes if a guy is shy around you, he likes you. But then again a guy who seems really outgoing and always talks to you might like you to. It all depends on the guy.



Try building up a friendship with him first, and from there it should take its course if it's supposed to happen. And make sure to look and see if he makes a lot of eye contact and seems interested in what you have to say.



Love,
Mandee

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I'm always craving junk food. When it comes to self-control, I have none in the food category. If I have a bag of chips, I could probably eat the whole bag if nobody was there to stop me. I just get caught up in something else and eat continuously and I don't like when I do it. I need some ideas for (easy) snacks to make right at home (besides like fruits/vegetables). I don't want something that will take forever to make either. I will appreciate any good ideas!

Hey! Lots of people know where you're coming from. We all have our cravings, and it can be difficult to stop them when you're so used to it.



If youlike sugar, instead of reaching for cookies or cupcakes make a smoothie! Here's some of my favorites...



Mango Smoothie
1cup pineapple juice
1cup orange juice
1/2 frozen banana
1cup pineapple sherbet
1 1/2 cups frozen mango slices
Put in blender...blend! lol



Lemon/Pineapple Smoothie
2cups lemonade
1cup lemon yogurt (low fat..if you want)
1 1/2 cups frozen pineapple (cut up)
1 cup pineapple sherbet
Same then..just blend.



Add sugar if you want, there's something called Splenda- taste just like sugar but it isn't and it doesn't have calories and such.



It's okay to eat chips. But you need to watch and cut down on portions. Because if you don't your eatting habits will never change. They do have low fat chips..carb free and what not. But I don't know how those work, they might not taste as good. If you ever have a craving that you can not control, go eat chips...but not a lot. Maybe you aren't as hungry as you think you are. Most people eat because they are bored or they eat to make themselves happy.



You can try crackers as a subsitute for chips or even pretzels.



You can also make a parfait. Which is basically frozen yogurt with fruit such as berries or whatever you'd like.



And there is always popsicles!


Love,
Mandee

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i shave my vagina almost every other day..i was wondering if its bad for me to shave so often.. but i like to be completely clean..ppl say that i shouldnt ( im 22yrs old ) shave there so often but i dont mind if alot of hair grows back coz life is short and i dont want my bf seeing me hairy there. please help..

There's nothing wrong with that! Actually that's good because if your boyfriend wanted to do stuff unexpectedly you'll be prepared! He won't see it hairy if it's shaved. It's really up to you, whatever you wanna do. But yeah I think a lot of people do that, so no worries!

Love,
Mandee

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I cried this morning, and I never cry. I haven`t cried in months so this was somewhat of a big deal and I almost killed myself but my friend calmed me down. I cut myself, I did it not because I wanted to hurt myself or was upset for any good reason just because I could, it's dumb I know. My mother hates me, like seriously unconditionally hates me and tries to ruin my life by thinking anything that makes me a bit happy is stupid or along the lines of stupidity. I can`t talk to her that`ll just make things worse, and I don`t want to bring my dad into this because he tells her everything. Why can`t my life be better?! What did I do?! xxOo

Okay babe, first off you need to realize that other people go through the same thing. I have never been through this because my parents love me and I don't think that I could even imagine how hard it would be.


Believe it or not, from experincing this, it will make you be able to help other in that same situation and you'll be very independent. Now I know that you can't make your mom love you, the choice is hers. So, you will have to support yourself and love yourself. You probably don't realize this just yet, but they do love you. Parents can't "hate" their children, maybe they'll say they hate you and act like they do, but inside they do love you.


Cutting won't solve the problem, it'll just give you another reason to cover yourself up. I know you know this already, but think about it more. What does cutting really do? Does it help you answer your problem? No. It confuses me why people do that. But it's up to you. I wish you'd stop but I'm not going to tell you that you have to. It's your life. I didn't mean for that to sound harsh or mean. So, please don't take it personally. I wouldn't be saying that if I didn't care. But I do care. =D


Here's some of my ideas, maybe you should consider your friends to be your family. That's what they are there for. I think you'll have to learn how to accept the fact that your mom and dad won't really support your dcisions. It's hard, I understand that. But as you said, you've tried talking in the past and that makes it worse. Keep talking to them about it if you want. Maybe in time they'll listen. But if they don't listen you have to keep believing in yourself. You can't waste your life. Do what you want to do and enjoy it. Did I mention that when you are eighteen you can move out. =D I don't know how far off that is for you but until then try to make the best of things.


Get involved in things at school, hang out with your friends if your parents let you. Walking helps. It'll clear your mind, and that's always a good thing to do. You deserve happiness, everyone does. And if anyone ever puts anything that you're serious about down, prove them wrong! Seriously, you have more options as you get older and you'll be able to decide what you want to do. Always here if you need me!

Love,
Mandee

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Me and this guy met online, he's 13 and im 14. We live pretty close to eachother and have so much in common. I dont think he is lieing about his age either. He acts like a kid alot like me. Some of my friends thinks he likes me because of this conversation me and him had (online only, never spoke or seen him in real life). And I know I like him, but should I say anything about me liking him to him? Or just let things play themselves out? Or uhm what do you think I should do? plz help me ~suicidal darkness princess~

Hey babe! There's a chance that he could be afraid to tell you that he likes you if he does. So I think rather than telling him straight out, try to give him a few hints to lead him to believe that you do, infact like him. That way you won't be as embarressed. If he likes you he will probably do the same. For example if he brings up the idea that you two could see each other, you know he's interested. Take it slow and day by day. Unless, you would rather just tell him and get it over with. Does this help? lol I hope so. Well I gotta go, but hopefully things work out!

Love,
Mandee

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ok.. lets see.. me my mom and my sister recently moved in with my moms bf.. and he has two kids of his own. and theyre only 12 and 8 and theyre a bit annoying. but anyways. my mom was recently told she had some rare cancer. and shes going for her 3rd surgery the 14th. i feel so lost. but shes also all run down. and continues to do everything around here and her bf is never home. hes always going out to get drunk. and he used seem like such a great guy and he used to make my mom so happy. and now idk . she never seems to be happy. but anyways. my grandparents and older brother all live down in florida. and we might be moving down there. actually to either boca, west palm beach, or boyton beach. and i was wondering what its like down there. if they kids are anything like the kids up here (selfish,stuckup, and bitchy) and i was just wondering what its like to actually live there year round.thanks

Aww, hey sweetie!! Well sorry it's been a day. I'm on a laptop on vacation in Malibu, California. Sort of like our break from everything!



I am so sorry about your mom and her boyfriend. Maybe he's getting drunk because it's his way of dealing with your mom having cancer? I'm not so sure. But it's important that you live a good life, and that your mother be happy so it's probably best to move.



Well, here in Miami and all around Florida there are thousands of beautiful people! Like almost all places you will have different types of people. Some are very realistic and laid back, others are stuck up and kind of slutty. And then you a have other people that are very fun and very nice. There are so many different people, I wouldn't worry too much because unlike the people back where I used to live, people appreciate their state. And I think that is a good thing. The boys are reallly cute! Oh, yes! Tons of surfers and I found that they are really down to earth and easy going. You should have no problem fitting in!



Baco, West Palm Beach, and Boyton Beach are very nice! I think you'll like it and adapt to it in no time. When I moved to Miami it took me less than a week to adapt to new surroundings. If you love the beach like me, it's such relaxing way to get over some stress you may have. (Your mom would like that.) Florida seems to go by the motto of living it up. At least thats how I see it. But everyone has different opinions.



The weather in Florida is in my opinion, very good. Summertime is awesome in Florida. It never gets colds and you don't have to worry about frost bite. =D If you lived in a place where it snowed there are sometimes when you miss the snow. Keep in mind, I moved to Florida this summer. Recently in Miami beach the temperature has been from 80 degrees to 70 degrees. And I think that's a comfortable temperature. It's nice. You can tan all of the time! Haha.



I never get bored with Florida, there is so much going on and a lot of places to go to. So it keeps you busy and great parties! I don't know where you have been living, but I think you'll grow to like where you moving once you see it for yourself!



Anyways babe, good luck with everything. I will keep your family in my thoughts. And have a great time, don't be nervous! I think you'll like it a lot!

Love,
Mandee

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Ok, well, i have many friends and almost all of them are girls. most of them have bf and im ok with that. but sometimes when i go over to their house to watch movies, they are doin stuff and it doesnt make me jealous, but it makes me want a gf even more. the girls that dont have bf anre my best friends and they wouldnt date me and i wouldnt date them. They are like my sisters and thats kinda wierd. I would do anything for them. I would go the distance for them. Even take the bullet for them. I would die for these girls and i cant tell them this cuz it would creep them out. ya Know?? wat should i do!???? AIM lilneid124

Hey!! Well it just sounds like you need to find the right girl for you who is not one of your friends. And that means get out there, party, and find new people! Seriously, you can't just wait around because if you do that nothing will happen. Ask your friends if they have a friend that you did not meet who is single and they might be able to hook you up. Don't be afraid to take chances! Talk to more girls, get to know them...and start to flirt. Make it obvious that you're single so that girls know that you are and they'll approach you.


Don't be in a rush to get a girlfriend. Most people find a girl or a guy too easily and guess what, their relationship doesn't last. They end up broken-hearted. So remember that you will find a girl, but it takes a lot of time. And when you find one? Maybe you should get to know her first rather than moving on too quickly so that your relationship lasts. Just live your life to the fullest right now. Have fun being single, have a good time and meet people. That's one of the perks of being single! =D

Love,
Mandee

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Ok, please help me. Well me and this guy, he's 13 and im 14, met online from Xanga. We have alot in common and he seems really kind. We never spoke or seen eachother in real life. I think I like him, but im not sure if he likes me, and were friends (I think) thus I don't know what to do. And then I am afraid if I say anything, I'll scare him away, but if I don't do anything I don't know what would happen. Please help me? '~The Suicidal Blade Baby~'

You're right that nothing would happen if you didn't say anything. So, why don't you talk more to him on AIM or e-mail if that makes you more comfortable? As long as you talk to him in some way you'll get more answers. You don't know if you're friends with him or if he likes you so I think you should keep talking to him and find out. You don't even have to ask. As time goes by you'll know whether or not you're his friend. I don't think you would scare him away, just make sure that he knows that you're not a stalker. And bring it up when you're ready to, hun. Get to know him better, and through conversations you'll be able to tell if he likes you.


If you're tired of talking to him by the computer and want to talk to him in person just be careful. Hopefully he isn't a stalker and you know it. (lol) Because, it happened to me before. Anyways, if he likes you, he likes you for your personality so act yourself. Think of it as calling another one of your friends. Only call when you feel secure about it. If you're nervous try and calm down. It would be just like calling anyone else. If time goes by and you've been calling and he's been calling maybe you can see each other. But really, really think about that idea. If you trust him, go for it. If you're having some thoughts, don't meet him yet. Just do what you want to do when you're ready. I hope things work out!! :D If you need more info, I'm always around.

Love,
Mandee

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This is embarrassing but here goes i am impotent
and my penis is just over 2 inches long and i was seeing this girl and when she found out she did'nt hang around long im worried that this will happen often does it matter that much will i be able to have a relationship with a girl sometime?

Don't be embarrassed, sweetie. I'm going to be honest with you about this. Please don't take it too personally or get upset.


Girls tend to make a big deal out of the penis-size thing, but remember that it's not all girls, just some. A girl might freak out if she saw it, or she might blow it off and be cool about it. Yes, I think there will be girls who will stay with you in a relationship. Because she should want you for you. Your size should not matter because she will be drawn to you and not your penis. Be aware that some girls won't feel the same. What I'm trying to say is that: Sometimes it matters and sometimes it doesn't depending on the girl. And yes, it's possible to find a girl that wouldn't mind it much. :)

Love,
Mandee

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I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???

It's definitely okay! After all, it is yours..right? Sweetie, if you like the necklace and want to wear it, no ones going to stop you! Wear what you want to wear, I think it's not a bad idea. Haha. Have a good time! :D

Love,
Mandee

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hey im 14/m and im about 5'4" and weight around 130 (1 day i might weigh 128 or 129 then the next day 131 or 132) I know that im not fat at all, but i do have a little gut. I have been working out every other day for about 7 months and my arms and chest and legs and everything is starting to get really strong, but i cant lose this little gut..the rest of my body is pretty damn muscular but my stomach isnt. I asked the doctor and he said i have a much slower metabolism then most other kids, and there is nuthing wrong with that. what can i do to get rid of this?? ( o yea byu the way i run about a mile and a half every 2 or 3 days and i eat REALLLY HEALTHY) ???

Yeah, your doctors right that there is nothing wrong with slow metabolism, but it does make more effort on your part to maintain a healthy weight.


By eatting really healthy, what do you mean? I advise you to try a low fat diet. Reason why? Your body needs limits on what can be digested, and because you have a slow metabolism as you get older the struggle for staying in shape might be worse.


The low-carb diet does not work. Don't try it. (lol) Instead find a diet that you can stay on for life and when you need to take a day off, it is possible to come back to that diet motivated. Since you're a guy, I think you should consider taking in 4,000 kcalories a day. Stick to the no sugar or sweets method. Just eat regularly. It suprises me why many people find this hard. Meat and veggies are probably ideal for you right now. Throw in fruit if you like it. But limit some fruit, because some have sugars. Keep in mind this isn't a bad kind of sugar. Citrus fruits are okay, but let's take pineapple for example. It has tons of sugars in it, so only have maybe 5-6 peices of it.


5'4 for men- 132-138 is a small frame. The reason why you have a little gut could be just extra fat from foods. I'm not sure about that, so if you're concerned about it ask your doctor. I think you just need to turn that into muscle. Body building is best lol. Try to go to a gym regularly. I know that's hard because of school and activites but try to go on the weekends. They will have a lot of weight lifting equipment. I don't weight life so I'm not sure what kind of machines would help you in your stomach area. Do a lot of sit ups, I know that helps. Ask your gym teacher about this, I'm sure he/she could suggest a few ideas on what could help that area. Good luck!!

Love,
Mandee

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my family and i have a major probleam.... we get into arguments a lot!!!! i think it happenes almost everyday!! and i get pissed by my family so does anybody know how to not have an argument and juss talk???

Well, that's going to take some time. Everyone needs to agree to this and make an effort. Find whatever the main cause of the arguments are and try to solve that problem. For example: if your mom doesn't like the people you hang out with because she thinks that they are a "bad influence" for you, see if you can bring them over your house so she'll be more secure with them being your friends. Try to consider your families side too. If you ask them to be more open minded and attempt to negotiate with you. Not everyone is going to agree with what you say, so instead of yelling or fighting just walk away and find something to do. Or explain why you think this is right for you. It will take some work, but hopefully this helps a little bit. :) Good luck sweetie!

Love,
Mandee

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i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl

That's a very typical situation to be in. I think, by experince, that you should focus more on yourself than your friends right now. Popularity gets to everyone at times, and your friends are probably trying to get up to that level. If any given time, you don't like how they act or what they do you do not have to be a part of that. Bascially, try to be your own self, not follow what other people do if you don't like it. All through highschool it will take you years to find out who you really are. I'm in college and I still have no idea what I should change my major to. Anyways, my advice for you is to keep those friends you have now, but only do the things that you want to do. Make other new friends, and keep in touch with that guy who remembers you. Life is all about finding out who you are, so why not live it up? Try new things, meet new people with different interests. That's what I did. I liked it because there's no certain crowd you're part of...you're friends with everyone. Maybe that would be the best thing for you too. Just an idea. Don't get upset over this. If your friendship is tearing up, just relaize that they are doing new things as well. Try to keep in touch, but instead of sitting there waiting for something to happen, go out and meet new people. That's a lot better!

Love,
Mandee

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My parents are always smoking and i hate the small of smoke!! They are always smoking and I don't know how to stop them!! I have tryed talking to them and it doesn't help!!! Please help me!!!

Your parents know how bad smoking is for their health, but try to understand that it is an addiction. They are entitled to make their own decisions and do what they want. It's very hard to quit smoking, and if they have never made an effort to try and stop you should push them into that. It's great that you want them to stop, but there is really nothing you can do. It has to be on their action alone. And talking only gets you so far.


I see why you would be upset, they are not respecting you. Ask them kindly if they would smoke outdoors instead of inside the house. You would be better off by asking them to do that than to tell them to stop smoking all together. Make it clear that they do have that right to keep smoking if they wish, but you wouldn't like them to do it near you. I think that will make everyone be on good terms. They can still smoke, you won't have to smell it. (lol) I know you're trying to get them to stop all together, but what else could you do? If you stole their cigs they would be really upset and you might get in trouble. If all of this fails, you will just have to try and deal with it. :( Try you're best to keep your room and other areas of the house smelling clean.


Hopefully they'll listen to you. But it's always hard to get people to stop an addiction. Good luck babe!

Love,
Mandee

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okay. i am a fourteen female. and i weigh one hundred and fourty eight pounds. but everyone says i look like i weigh onehundred and twenty pounds. so if i lost lets say ten pounds. would i look like i weigh onehundred and ten pounds? just curious.

+Ill Die Drowned by Your Standards+

Well sweetie, my guess is that you may look like you lost more than you actually did if you look less of what you weigh now. But no one really knows until you try! Make sure if you're going to loose weight that you don't get into those low carb diets. I'm currently studying nutrition, and I think it would best to exercise a decent amount of time and watch portions. Have a wonderful holiday hun!! I hope you get everything you wanted! :D
Love,
Mandee

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I want to die my hair like lindsay lohans in freaky friday. But i dont actually kno what color it is..so if anyone know and can tell me that'd be awsome ..thanks...

I'm pretty sure they are light brown, blonde, and a light red color. So when you get your hair done maybe print a picture of her hair and show it to the people doing your hair.

Try this: http://pub.tv2.no/multimedia/TV2/archive/00128/07_freaky_friday_20_128205a.jpg

Happy Holidays, babe!
Love,
Mandee

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Ok well there were these rumors goin round bout this girl and my bf liek she supposadly gave him head and stuff so i finally gut a chance to talk to her and sed oh that wasnt true she neva sed that and decided to tell me that my bf did a whole buncha stuff wid her ova the summer at some party or suntin. so i talked to my bf who i have been wid for ova a year and he sed it wasnt true but this girl seems so convincing and i mean i should trust and believe my bf and he sez he swears he really didnt do n e thing wid her but im juss so CONFUSED so help me out plz......

...lost soul...

Oh man, that is so tough! Seriously hearing opposite sides always keep you guessing.


Well, since you don't have proof that he did anything with her you have to go by words. If you are not friends or know this girl, she might be saying this just to get you jealous or possibly break up with him so that she can have him. Girls are like that and it's such bullshit.


But on the other side, your boyfriend could be lying just so you wouldn't break up with him and get mad.


Ask your friends if they know or heard anything. If they didn't hear anything...and you really have no idea who is telling the truth or not maybe you should let it go. I know that the idea of him cheating is bad, but if you have no idea who is wrong you would be trying to figure this out for months. However, if you stay together with him and notice he could be cheating again, definitely consider moving on. I don't know who's right..I'm sorry sweetie, I wish I knew but I don't. And you have no clue either. The only thing I can tell you is that only you know in your heart who is right. Take some time and think about it. Was your boyfriend looking you straight in the eye with he said he did not do anything with that girl? And has that girl been notorious for saying stuff like that? Find out who she is, and if people know that she is an honest person. That should help. But don't get yourself worked up over this for a long time because you'll be stressed out all the time.


I hope I helped you out somewhat. It's hard without knowing what happened, you know? But I think you'll be able to tell in sometime. Good luck. I hate when that happens. Rumors carry on through out your life and you just have to have to find out from yourself, not anyone else. Have a wonderful holiday, sweetie!! Enjoy break! :D
Love,
Mandee

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Ok I have been dating this guy for about 2 months and hes almost 16 and im 13 but a few days ago we started talking about sex and he said he would never wear a condom and after 6 months is a good time to have sex but I don’t thing it is imp 13 years old I feel like hes not respecting my feelings and we live right next door so he expects something and last night I cried so hard and I felt like I was going to throw up I was so nervous please help me mandee!!!! I see all of your questions you’ve answered and they are excellent you’re a really good columnist!!


**IM me some time XxJadoreXx0175

**kristen**

Thank a ton, Kristen!! I'm so glad you asked me this, I relate to it so well from previous relationships.


I'm sure you probably heard of this, but this is the truth so: If he has no respect for you and your feelings, he's simply not worth having around. You know what can happen if he didn't wear a condom and you don't take the pill. Sweetie, never ever ever let someone tell you what to do if you know it's wrong. And if you don't feel comfortable with anything, don't do it. Just because you don't feel safe doing this doesn't mean you are a loser. You know what? I respect that so much! You're the only one who can make your own decisions for you, so why not make the right one? And if he keeps telling you he won't wear a condom and you do it because of him, why would you put yourself through that? Could you trust him enough to support your baby if you got pregnant? Or would he walk out and leave you their with your child?


I think it's best if you ask yourself questions before you make a decision. Even if you are daring, this is the kind of decision that could change your life forever. Most of your hopes for the future would be gone. I think you also need to talk to him. Since he is older, he will pressure you to do things that you don't want to. And if you say no and he continues maybe it's time to move on. Please don't make yourself sick over this. You have such intelligence and you know what's right in your heart. You're only doing yourself a favor, sweetie. I've been through a relationship in the past and it turned into hell. If a guy thinks he can control you on one thing, what makes you think that he won't try to push his limits even further? Never be the one being told what to do. Speak up and tell him if you don't fell comfortable doing what he says. You owe that to yourself, honestly. You deserve a good relationship..so make sure you know when to get out of a bad one and start a good one.


If you want to talk to me about this more personal or what to hear what happened to me, you can IM me. I just want to make sure that you don't go through what I did. Anyways, Happy Holidays, sweetheart!! Try to enjoy your Christmas Break...vacations: so don't stress! Haha love ya! :D
Love,
Mandee

***Aww thank you so much! That was awesome feedback haha...it always makes my day to know that I helped someone! You're such a sweetheart, good luck with everything!***

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Well, my brother told me that if you put up blue christmas lights it meant that you were Jewish. So does anyone know if this is true or is my brother smoking something? Thanks!!

xo_sherry_ox
I rate 5's!

Yes and no. One of my friends are Jewish and he decorates his house with blue lights. But I know people that aren't Jewish and decorate their houses with blue lights too. So blue lights don't really make you Jewish. Your brother is right that some Jewish people decorate their houses with blue, but it's not all of the Jewish people who do that. Blue lights are for anyone. :D Have a wonderful holiday, hun!
Love,
Mandee

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what site do you got to, 2 make a doll like on ur page. i've tried finding it but had no luck. so if u could help i'd really appreciate it. o and im not tryin 2 copy you i want this for another page of mine that's not on advicenators.

thanks
Lots Of Luv

Hey Sweetie! Well I go to www.dollzmania.com
They have a lot there, so that's where I make them. You just copy what item you want and paste it into Paint under accessories. Good luck. It's so fun to make them! Haha. :D
Love,
Mandee

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