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i feel so alone and forgotten *cries*
i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl
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Well in my opinion your one guyfriend that pays attention to you is probably who you should stick by. He seemd like hes the type of person who won't leave you out. As for the others well THEY ARNT VERY NICE SO LEAV'M! You seem nice and i bet you could find new, better friends. -mike
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try to talk to the people who your friends with and if they are still being a snob to you then dont worry about em and go find new friends, but whenever you talk to them tell em their not the people who you thought they were and that they have changed and that they need to stop being mean to people because thats not right and let them know that how ever mean they are to anyone will come back on them someday, maybe not to day, maybe not tomorrow but someday it will come back on them so if they dont wanna be friends with you and are treating you like their better then you then they are not worth being friends with and they were never a friend to you at all...i hope this advice helps you in some way. *feedback is greatly appreciated*-Nikki
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That's a very typical situation to be in. I think, by experince, that you should focus more on yourself than your friends right now. Popularity gets to everyone at times, and your friends are probably trying to get up to that level. If any given time, you don't like how they act or what they do you do not have to be a part of that. Bascially, try to be your own self, not follow what other people do if you don't like it. All through highschool it will take you years to find out who you really are. I'm in college and I still have no idea what I should change my major to. Anyways, my advice for you is to keep those friends you have now, but only do the things that you want to do. Make other new friends, and keep in touch with that guy who remembers you. Life is all about finding out who you are, so why not live it up? Try new things, meet new people with different interests. That's what I did. I liked it because there's no certain crowd you're part of...you're friends with everyone. Maybe that would be the best thing for you too. Just an idea. Don't get upset over this. If your friendship is tearing up, just relaize that they are doing new things as well. Try to keep in touch, but instead of sitting there waiting for something to happen, go out and meet new people. That's a lot better!
Love,
Mandee
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listen they r aholes u dont need to be around them do this the one guy that remembers you asks him to go somwere wit ya then walk in somewere you kno they hang out show em up lol
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I would just talk to them and see whats up and see if you can tag along with them. I would do that because noone should be left out. -trix
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heyy..well i think you should tell them how you feel n that you guys been friends for so long and that you feel left out..they'll prolly understand n if they dont then their not true friends..hope i helped
Love yah,
SpiCy x0 hoTt xOx
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well being more flirty and making fun of people are normal things to do, its a way to show that you have power and control over some people, its a way to get popular, the more 'bitchier' you are about dissing people the more popular you get because people think its the 'cool' thing to do. dont worry about it, if they leave you out, try hanging out with a few new people, its nice to hang out with different people too. x0
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