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Okay im only 13 and i have a neice (or however you spell it) and shes 6, so the other day me and her went to a school dance (we go to the same school) and she likes this guy in my class (little 6 yr old crush...how cute) and she was begging me to tell him, so i go up to hima nd im like "hey josh, my neice here has the biggest crush on you?" she started to burry herself in my stomache and i cant help but feel bad, i mean, 6 year old dont know what they're talking about, and it was annoying so i just went right up to him and told him. Am i a bad aunt? and can you give me advice please.
-Jan

i can totally relate.im 13 and i have 2 nieces and 3 nephews.something very similar to this happened to me before.my niece got over it though.try letting her paint your nails or do your makeup.that always works with my niece.good luck.=]

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well i like this girl i asked her out several times but she said i need to think so i guess when i asked her out she liked another guy from another school so i have no clue what to do because now the guy asked her out and now they are going out and there is a dance next friday and i want to dance with her but im afraid to get turned down like well i have him so i cant rly dance with you i have no clue so.......WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!?!?!?!?!?!

well if she said she would think about it she had to have liked u a little.and im pretty sure the girl you like isnt even dating him yet,she just likes him.since girls from other schools cant come to our dances anyway,you should go for it! if she has any heart at all she will dance with you.thats all the advice i have,sorry i wasnt much help.=/

go for it!!

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ok well there is this boy at school that i like and my friends keep asking him if he likes me and stuff and he is getting frustrated. so when ever i try to talk him online he always says i have to go immedeltley. i'm am to embarressd to talk to him face to face becouse of what my friends did. so i think he doesn't like me as a friend anymore becuz we used to me good buds. so what my qustion is ,is well actully i dunno what my qustion is i just need some pointers to boost my confidents on talking to him!

just talk to him face to face.or call him.just explain to him that you had nothing to do with it and that u are sorry for it.if he doesnt forgive you then just give it some time.eventually he will get over it.good luck.=]

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okay, our school puts on a halloween haunt concert every year. I already have a gorgeous dress that I need to make use of, I just don't know how to incorporate it into a costume. Can you give me ideas on what I could dress up as using ths dress? Please, nothing like throwing fake blood or getting the dress dirty. Also I want to look pretty, not some sort of monster.

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you could be a prom queen.you could wear a tiara and it will give you an excuse to get all pretty.=D

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I wrote a question earlier about irregular periods, and I would like to know if there is anyway to stop one from comming or to help one start? My wedding is in a couple of days, and I never know when my period will come and I hope it doesnt that night. Is there anything I can do to stop it or prevent it..?

unfortunately,there is nothing you can do to stop or start your period.if you could,i guarentee 99.99% of all women would be alot happier.=].just make sure you are safe and all.change your pad/tampon every 2-3 hours to make sure you dont leak.as for at night,i guess all you can do is pray.maybe God will take pity and cut you come slack.=]

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hi! well ive been into tight-skin pants for a couple years now. like...ive sewed them myself makin them skin tight. but the thing is, now that these new "skinny jeans" are in, i admit i like them better then my old skin tight jeans. Also, the real thing is, that whenever i wore my skin tight jeans (all i ever had) i would wear my black converse! but those are crappy now i had to throw them away and honestly they dont look good with my skinny jeans. So heres my problem: i dont like flats. but skinny jeans def. dont look good with my new reg shoes. so what do i do about my flats problem? What other shoes look good with skinny jeans? And its winter so i cant wear flip flops. thanks so much (long question) plz help fashion!

i personally think that converse look fine with skinny jeans as long as you dont wear like a size 12 so they dont look too big.i dont know why you dont like flats,but ill send you some examples of some other shoes you can wear with them.it sounds like you are a little punk [the style im not calling you a name],so ill send you something you could wear with punk and other outfits.

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u like flat sneakers right?

http://store.alloy.com/item.do?categoryID=37&itemID=45912&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

http://store.alloy.com/item.do?categoryID=37&itemID=46061&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

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for more,visit www.alloy.com & www.delias.com

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is masterbating to much harfull? i mena i know if you do it , it's not bad, but i do it almost 4-5 times a day and i have been for a very very long time... by the way i am 20...and male, anway, is doing it to much bad, like can it stop your penius form grow? a low sperm count? what, please help

im like 99.99% positive that nothing will happen as long as you arent too rough or anything.

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I met this guy at a party about two weeks ago. There was drinking and we started dancing. He seemed pretty into me. We we talking and i was sitting on his lap. Before i left we exchanged numbers and we kissed. It was such an innocent kiss though.
He called me the week after. and we've been talking since. He invited me to a concert but i didnt go. Now he invited me to his house to hang out and watch a movie this weekend. I want to go but i'm unsure.
He's 19 and i'm 14. He knows it but he doesnt really care. His last girlfriend was 15. Im pretty sure he likes me...i Guess i dont really have a specific question...i just want to know some of your opinions.

age is just a number.if you are into this guy,then go ahead.just dont get yourself into a mess and get pressured into doing things you dont want to.good luck.=D

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ok i have this friend.by da way im 13/f
well my b-day is on sunday...and ma friend called me 2 ask if i wanted to hang out with him.i dont know y but im always finding myself talkin about him like non stop...he and i have become kindah close because now we kick it together in lunch in da mornin passing 2 3rd and 5th period and afterskool.everybody thinks we go out but we dont! a-ny-wayz today we were at our kick it spot and my homegurl who is totally slutty was flirtin with him.we had a camera and were taking pictures and so i took one with him and he was holding me so close to him like b/f&g/f but then my friend came and said i wanna b in da picture too so all 3 of us took it.so afterskool i asked him if he liked her and he said yeh shes cool but i dont know in witch way he meant it but da point is dat ive been tripin ever since! i mean y would he ask me to hang out with him and wait for me in every place he knew i walked trough...&&everybody says we get along so good that we should just go out...and he starts smiling but im scared to loose his friendship because of my girl friend! i feel that they are gonna become closer and ima b left out and shes a player so i know shes gonna hurt him! wut should i do???plzz help!!

i think that when he said he liked her,he meant as a friend.he prolly would say that even if he didnt like her though bcause shes your friend and he wouldnt wanna hurt ur feelings.it seems like this guy likes you alot.and it sounds like you have a really special relationship with him.you should go out,but dont let it ruin your friendship.good luck.=]

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i get good grades in school. but someone i know doesnt he is always upset and thinks he's sooo dumb... should i don anything?

just talk to him and tell him thats hes not dumb.if you really care about him,you can invite him over after school to study with you,and help him ace a test or two,maybe that will give him the motivation he needs to do better.good luck.=D

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earlier i asked about my friend who keeps ignoring me and a lot of other people... who get jealous. i've tried talking to him/her but all they say is i'm trying to be better, but they're really not... he/she said they just need to have some fun in their life!!!??? I don't know what to say to the other kids who come to me for advice too??!!

if your friend is trying,then you have to give him/her some points,but if they are just using that as an excuse to get away with being nasty,then they arent a good friend.tell him/her that its really hurting your feelings and you dont want to lose them as a friend.if they continue to do it,just take a break from them for a while,and just give him/her some space.after a while i guarentee him/her will coem crawling back wanting to be your friend again.either because he or she misses you,or because the people he or she dumped you for.either way you get your friend back.it will just take some time.if you dont want to do that,just sit her down and talk to her and open her up to the reality of the situation.good luck.=D

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Im a 26 y/o female and in nursing school and i have a problem . I am very attracted to my male meacher and im pretty sure he likes me too. I am white and 98% of the students and teachers are african including my teacher. He is always talking about me in class saying he has never met a white woman so comfortable around africans and he is always staring at me . So what do i do tell him how i feel ? am i misenterpreting his comments about me? there is only 3 weeks of school left and i need some advice.

first make sure that he has no one else in his life.then one day after class,just ask him out to a drink or ask him if he wants to catch lunch/dinner.if he does what you say he does,im sure he will say yes.good luck! =D

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One of my friends just stsrted hanging out with some new kids at school. A lot of people are getting jealous, and i am a little to. When you try to talk to her/him, he/she just ignores you!!!???

i deffinately know how it is.just talk to him/her privately on the fone or online one day.dont be mean about it just tell him/her how you are feeling and how its making you upset.if they still ignore you they arent a good friend so you have nothing to worry about.good luck.=]

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I like this 8th grader alot.But I am in the 6th grade.Should I go up to him and say I like you and also say age doesn't matter.What should I do?My bestfriends says I should do that but I am not sure.Help!!!!!!!!!!!!

if you like him then go ahead.age is just a number.good luck! =]

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I'm a fourteen year old female.
Ever since I was eight, I've noticed these little patterns I have. Before I throw a backhand spring at cheerleading practice I have to count to eight three times.

Sometimes I wish for somethings, such as longer hair, and before I completed my wish I have to touch every end of my hair. (same if I wished for new clothes, I'd have to touch all my clothes atleast once.)
I feel as if I don't touch all of them, my wish won't come true.

Everything has to be in ABC order and all my sentenced have to have a period at the end, even if they're questions.


Is there something wrong with me?
What should I do?

it sounds like you have OCD [obsessive compulsive disorder.]alot of people have it,and it doesnt make you weird or anything.just talk to your parents about it,and your doctor.i know there is special therapy you can go to get rid of it.dont worry,i do they same thing sometimes.like at school when the bell rings i will stand up but then i feel like i have to sit back down straight and stand up again and sometimes i do it 3-4 times.ya so no worries,just talk to your parents.i could be wrong,but it sounds like OCD.good luck.=]

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15/f. has anybody (ages 13-18) have used Proactive? I'd like to here your opinions on it, good or bad. my mom is considering getting it for me if it is good. i've heard that it clears up you acne really well, but it is really drying. so i'm thinking of using proactive along with another oil free lotion.

has anybody (again ages 13-18) used the Clinique acne products? i was looking for like a good acne regiman using the clinique products if the proactive stuff doesn't look too good. i know that clinique has 3-step programs...but i was looking for a 3-step program specially made for acne. i took the quiz thing on clinique and i'm a skin type III is that helps at all.

thanks so much you guys! this will really help me out.

although i havent used either,my brother uses proactiv and he says it works great.proactiv also offers a 3 step system,and as far as ive heard,isnt too drying.good luck.if you leave your info. in my inbox,ill get back to you with more information.=D

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my friends and i are being the fanta girls (fantanas) for halloween. does anyone know where we could get costumes? we dont want the exact costumes, more like a shirt and skirt or something. does anyone know any good stores where we could find those at or have any other ideas of what we could wear? thank you sooo much!

ps: we would need the costumes by the 26th

they have them in ebay for $51.00 a costume.or you can buy the set for i think like $140.cuz me and my friends were gonna be that this year too.lol.have funn!=]

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Okay so I like this boy and I thought he liked me but all he wants to do is have sex. Should I or should'nt I? I always told myself I would never think of things like this I would always just say no, but for some reason I think this is the boy for me and i wouldnt wanna ruin anything by saying no. What should I do?

never,ever,ever do anything you dont want to just because someone else wants you to.if he is gonna not like you because you wont sleep with him,then he isnt right for you.but if you want to and you feel you are ready,then go ahead.i dont mean to be rude,but if you are second guessing it,then idt he is the right one or it is the right time.good luck,i hope you make the right decision.=]

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Okay, I like this guy a lot. His locker is about 20 lockers away from mine. Well, I catch him staring at me in I.Tech. a lot, and my friends even see him staring at me, too. Well, I.Tech. is the only class that we have together, and he sits way on the other side of the room. We also have the same lunch period as well, and he only stares at me a couple of times during lunch.

Well, I had my friend ask him if he liked me, and he shook his head, "No". But he still continues to stare at me. I don't know if he was just lying to my friend, or not, but I have to find out if he does like me or not!

Than, there was a or going around the school that I was going out with him, which was not true of course, so I asked him why people are saying that we're going out. He didn't even know that it was happening! Than another guy right next to him told me that the ors were true, and I, as well as him, were just like, "What?".

My friends think that he likes me, but I'm still not sure...

So, please, help me clear some stuff up! I am so clueless! :D

Thank you so much!

i think he likes you if he stares at you.he may have just told your friend that because he knew she would tell you,and he wasnt sure if you liked him back.you could leave him a note,or get his s/n from a friend of his,or from him.talk to him online and just be like,do u like me?good luck.sorry i wasnt much help.=/

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I really want to be a singer. It's my dream. But I need work and I know that, it's just I dont know where to turn for help! I feel completely lost! I'm torn between going to college and not going to college...I'm torn between doing American Idol next season or not..should I talk to my school couselor? I dont know what to do!!

you could always do american idol,because that will at least get you some publicity.also,you could sing in things like church and school choirs.i no it sounds wierd,but thats where alot of really famous singers started off.school plays also hope a ton.you could go to college and major in theater.if you try hard enough and follow your heart,you will get discovered.good luck.=D

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