Im a 26 y/o female and in nursing school and i have a problem . I am very attracted to my male meacher and im pretty sure he likes me too. I am white and 98% of the students and teachers are african including my teacher. He is always talking about me in class saying he has never met a white woman so comfortable around africans and he is always staring at me . So what do i do tell him how i feel ? am i misenterpreting his comments about me? there is only 3 weeks of school left and i need some advice.
BitsandPieces answered Monday October 16 2006, 5:00 pm: You need to wait until you are not his student before going any further. There is a great risk of jeopardizing your grade and academic standing and his job, if it was reported that a student and teacher were personally involved. He is probably attracted to you if he is staring a lot. I don't know if there is a great age difference or if he is married or with someone else, so be aware of those things. Also, if he crosses an ethical line while you are his student, it probably is not the first or last time such a thing has/will happen. I would not pursue a relationship until you are certain that he can be appropriate and wait until you are out of his class at least. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
DiNOxTHUNDER answered Monday October 16 2006, 4:53 pm: first make sure that he has no one else in his life.then one day after class,just ask him out to a drink or ask him if he wants to catch lunch/dinner.if he does what you say he does,im sure he will say yes.good luck! =D [ DiNOxTHUNDER's advice column | Ask DiNOxTHUNDER A Question ]
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