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how do you do it? I mean what are you exactly supposed to do with your tongue? And what does it taste like....Detail would be very appreciated, and tips too (link)
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This seems to be a really popular question as I will give you the best answer I can possibly give you!
Like I've said in all the other questions, If you like the smell of a fish market or the taste of fish knock yourself out because that is what you are more than likely going to get yourself into. Not all girls smell that bad but we also don't smell like peaches and creame. If you want to eat her out make sure she takes a shower first as it will help the smell from being as foul.
If you do eat her out, Focusing on the clit is usually a bonus as it will get her to react the way you want her too.
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So my boyfriend broke up with me for his ex about a month ago. and I've been really down. However, i've been kinda dating this other guy and we've been really close, but i just moved to college 2 hours away. and its been hard because i have trust issues. and so a few days ago, i heard that he told personal information about me to a girl that i hate. and i really don't know if i can trust him at all now. and I don't know if i'm willing to get hurt again. but he's trying really hard to make it up to me and make it work because I was his first and he really wants us to be together. Meanwhile, I just started talking to this other guy from back home (he lives 2 hours away too) and we haven't really become anything, but i think we both like each other. this guy has just been hurt by his exgirlfriend and me and him are both going through the same thing. They both know i don't want a "relationship" but I like them both but I don't know what I should do. I don't want to keep leading them both on. Help? (link)
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What does your conscience tell you to do? For one, If this guy truely cared about you then he wouldn't spread dirt about you to someone you don't like as that is your personal buisness and he has no right to disrespect you like that. Therefore I do not blame you for having trust issues. If I were in the same boat I think I would leave him, I would give the other guy a chance but I would be cautious for awhile and careful not to say too much until I know I could fully trust him. However, Are you happy with him? Do you think you could trust this guy again?
If you don't want a relationship there is no harm in taking a break for awhile, Personally I would do the same thing if I had my heart broken. Take some time to heal if you need it if the guy likes you as much as you say he does then he should have no problem waiting for you.
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Okay so the other night my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time. She is a bit younger than me, and it was her first time ever. After a little ways into it she started crying so I asked her what was wrong. She then informed me that I reminded her of her dad... what the hell do I do now?? (link)
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Wow..
I would talk to her, It sounds like she might have a history with her father that you might not know about. She could of been sexually abused. Exsplain to her that you love and care about her and that you are not her father you are her boyfriend and you would never do anything to hurt her. It sounds like she has some emotional issues and some unresolved feelings as well as anger.
If I am right and she does have a history with her father I would try and see if you could help her get some counseling as I said she could have some unresolved issues that she never spoke about. Don't blame yourself, Just try talking to her.
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i am lifeguarding this summer and this guy jake who is 18 and my manager keeps teasing me. i always thought he kind of liked me because my first day of working he would do almost ANYTHING to get my attention. he started teasing me about little things (ewww gross what is that you are eating?) but now it's gotten a lot worse (i heard you gave tim a blow job!) he also orders me to do stuff and clean things and says i'm "whipped" aka his bitch. He also asks me if i'm a virgin (which i told him i am) and if i think he's hot and asks things like, "would you rather have sex with matt or me?" now other guys who i work with start teasing me, nothing as intense as that but still bad like, "i heard you had sex with josh!" or other things. this girl i work with says for me to not listen to him or other guys and that they just want to get reactions out of me. i'm not fat and i'm definitely not ugly so i don't see why they are doing this! jake doesn't act like this with any other girls (even girls he likes) so WHY is he doing this to me?
also on rare occasions he actually talks to me and tells me personal stuff (haha like how many kids he wants...what he is doing the next day...how it bothers him when he hangs out with some girls they don't put forth an effort to look good and don't wear makeup because they see him as a friend and only that) and is nice to me but what is up with the random mood swings??
another thing that has happened is i asked to take off of work and he demanded why and then i told him i was going on a date with this guy and he kept asking who and i finally told him. the date wasn't for a few days but he kept asking "how was your date?" everytime i walked in.
p.s. he left for college today and i was like "bye, jake have fun in college!" and gave him a hug and he didn't hug back he just left his arms open and was like "AHHHH!" (like in disgust) and then as i was walking up to the stand he said, "BYE KELLY!"
he came in later that day and saw me sitting on this guy's lap who was really into me and he was yelled at me "you whore!" (the whole time i was mouthing "help" because i really was not interested in the guy at all and wanted to get away from him) i explained this to him later and another guard was listening and said, "she's your girl why don't you do something about it?" this same guard earlier today told me "i bet in college he is going to find someone just like you to yell at and mess with!" i am sooo confused with what he thinks about me, and why he and other guys mess with me! advice please?
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The guy sounds like a jerk, Not only was he getting personal with asking stupid questions but it sounds like he somewhat harrassed you as well. He maybe 18 but from the things you said he said he is also immature. Some guys like to pick on people to get a "rise" out of them. If the guy liked you I would think he would be flattered to recieve a hug from the girl he liked and wouldn't ask personal questions exspecially ones that have to do with sex and blowjobs as that is your personal buisness. There doesn't have to be a reason for someone to pick on you all you need to do is give a reaction or be an "easy target" to them.
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So around Sunday I was laying on my floor at like 12am talking to my bestfriend on the phone and on my laptop. I was really itchy on my legs, and I thought maybe a misquito bite but I hadent been outside that day.
I have tons of bites on my legs!
And I continued to get them on my ankles.
Now Monday through today (Wendsday) I spelt at my bestfriends, my legs didnt itch.
I'm now back home on my desktop in my room, and I notice my ankles and feet are now extremely itchy.
Could there be fleas or something in my carpet?
I'm not allergic, my living room carpet is the same stuff and I'm fine down there.
If they're might be bugs, what kinda, and how would I get rid of them? (link)
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It could be a number of things I personally would need to see a picture to get a better idea of what type of bite it is...
I would check the bed for any possible bed bug problem. If you have any pets in the house then it could be fleas as the summer is the time where they come out most. I would check the cats and dogs for any flea eggs or fleas if this is the case then I would buy Frontline for treatment to your pets if you have a good amount of fleas in the house then I would do some carpet cleaning and fully vaccume the couch if you have dogs I would suggest giving them a bath using shampoo that is for helping flea problems. If you spend a good time outdoors I would start using some bug spray also.
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Ok my story is a little bit long am sorry.
My boyfriend and i roke up in april 18 of 2009. then in may 03 he got with another girl. after that i made them brake up because i didnt liked the fact that he was with another girl. Ok he broke up with her in may29. Then in july 30th he got back with me.He was telling me all this stuff that he cantk with him because i really do love him. Then now in agust 1 he left to the dominican republic.Just 2 days ago i found out he has another live without me and sooo on.I whent bacgirl ovethere. at fisrt i thought his friend were just kidding but then i saw some pictures of him huggind with the girl and too closed together.there is another one with them in the pool together.right now he doesnt know that i know he has another girl. he is coming back on sunday. i dont want to call him and insult him because then he will end up staying ovethere,and i will be debastated.If you were in this position what will you do?? (link)
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Well,
You two broke up in April 18 2009 then he was already with someone in May? How long were you two together because for him too find someone that quickly sounds a bit fast...
If you have proof that he is seeing another girl I would leave him, Afterall that is concidered cheating and therefore he is not being honest yet alone loyal to you. This guy sounds like he likes to toy with your feelings. If you comfront him about it all he has to do is lie, That IS what he has been doing all along anyway. I think it's time to move on and get a guy that is faithful and will treat you right
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I am having an affair with a wonderful man and the sex is the best I've ever had. We both agree it's as if our bodies were made for each other. There is no issue with getting him hard - the minute we're in the same room together I can tell how "excited" he becomes! Our issue is that he can go for hours without losing his erection and I cum over and over again. While this may sound amazing, it's frustrating because we wear out and the only way he has an orgasm is by masturbating himself. He said it's been like this with every woman. He's not on medication and is healthy. How can I stimulate him to cum inside me? What's wrong? (link)
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Okay
So basically you are telling us that you are having an affair and you want advice on how to pleasure this man that is NOT your husband?
Please grow a brain
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i've been with my current boyfriend for 8 months. i love him, there's no doubt in that.
my ex boyfriend, i was with him for a short while, but he was my first serious boyfriend. i got over him last year. but recently, we've become better friends. and because of that, i've been having dreams about him and i, alone, kissing, etc.
and i think that's because last year when we broke up, he never gave me complete reason why. he just shut the door on me. we didn't talk for 8 months last year.
in my dreams, i'm just kissing him, showing him who i am, i'm the same girl he fell for. but i'm never in a relationship with him in my dreams or when i think about it.
could this be because i needed closure? (link)
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You may have some unresolved feelings for your ex. If you have a boyfriend than you should be happy with him and not thinking about your ex...As we dream about things not only what we want but what we think about. If you are dreaming of being passionate with your exboyfriend then clearly you have not fully forgotten about him yet alone got over him. A year is a long time to not be with someone, 8 months is a long time to be with someone. Your exboyfriend was the past, However concidering he was your first serious boyfriend then you will always have the memories but it is not good to dwell on those memories if you are with someone eles. You may acknowledge the fact that you are no longer with your ex but the question is are you excepting it?
Realize what you have now, If it is a wonderful thing then let it continue to be wonderful by apprechiating the fact that you two are together and forget about the ex boyfriend.
ADDED ON: By having contact with your ex boyfriend you are allowing yourself to think about him and you prolong the pain. Honestly, In most cases having contact with an ex only puts your current relationship in jeopardy.
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i hav a 16 yrold daughter who has been living with me for 2 mth,and she tells me last nite she is 5 months preg.she is a below average student,with out a plan for the future.she wants to keep the baby and i am against it,i have told her my reason.i also told her she cant live with me with a baby.was i to hard on her? (link)
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No you were not too hard on her, However at 5 months it is too late to have an abortion as the baby is now a fetus. It is your house you make the rules, I would of done and said the same thing because I personally do not approve of young people having babies..If you are against it seeing she is a minor and you are the adult you can put the child up for adoption which might be her best option at this point concidering abortion is now not an option.
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I am pretty early in my pregnancy still, I guess, but was thinking I should probably start buying things for the baby. I just don't know where to start! What do I buy first for the baby? It's, of course, my first and we aren't going to find out it's gender until the baby is born :D
Should I get newborn clothes or diapers or a crib or should I wait until it's closer to my delivery date? Should I buy the expensive, necessary things right now? I just want to be prepared, that's all. (link)
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I would focus on the important things and the most exspensive things just to get it out of the way. Here is a list of ideas...
Crib
Changing Table
Diapers
Strollers
Car Seat
Booster Seat
Play Pen
If you have bought those things already you could buy clothing but you might want to buy "Yellow" as you do not know the gender of the baby yet. Once you hit about 8 months I would start stacking up on Formula, Towels, etc.
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ummm lol i don't know if this is in the right category or not but.. 14 F
Do guys like girls to have shaven pussy's or the hair doesn't really bother them? I was wondering...
What razor would you use to shave "down there"
thanks! (link)
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I have been shaving down there for 11 years and found that Intuition razors are the best as they are also non-cut razors and reusuable they can be found at Walmart for about $9.00 but the refills for the blades are about $20.00 however they seem to last me about a month before I need a refill maybe even longer.
Here is a picture
http://weepingcherries.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/intuition-plus.jpg
All guys are different, Some guys like the bush and others like it clean shaved depends on the guy.
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What do Americans speak? I know that people from England speak English but I've always called what I spoke English. I'm in the United States though, not from England so I'm not English. Am I still considered to be English-speaking or is it referred to as something else? I'm confused (link)
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English and Spanish are the common languages in America
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Alright, so I'm in this "summer fling" i guess you could say. I started talking to this guy weeks ago, and Wednesday he asked me out and I said yes. So we've been dating for like three days. Now, before this happened his bestfriend (who also liked me) said he's such a player. Anyways, so I've hungout with my boyfriend now a few times since Wednesday, and we've made out and got real into it if you know what i mean haha. Last night, on my way home from his house, he told me he wanted to have sex with me. I can't help but really think all he wants is sex, and he's compleeeetely using me. But he says no, that he likes and cares about me a lot.
Should I just let this go before i get hurt? Move on into school without this guy, or should I stay with it a while and see if it works out? I like him a lot, but I'm just tired of being used,cause it's already happened this summer a few times.
advice would be appreciated :D thanks guys. (link)
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I am going to have to agree with the very last person, I think he is more interested in the sexual part than actually having a relationship. (I'm just guessing) From what you've posted I would say that is what his goal is. You two just started dating..If you are not ready than don't do it if you push yourself into having sex while not ready it will turn into something you will regret. If you don't think it is going to work out than there must be a reason for it. The question is will it hold strong while you to are in school or is he just playing you? Only you know the real answer
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hi! i am a male of 20 and i have a very nice girlfriend who is very satisfying in sex and otherwise too. she knows that males love to have oral sex and i d too and so she does ti for me. but i have never done the same for her , if u know what i mean , means i have never given her some tongue action down there. although i want to do it but i am afraid how would it feel like.. i am afraid that it might make me feel a bit gross means i dont know how would it taste like and all. its not anything related to hygein. she has it very clean and nicely shaved up but still i dont know what to do... any helps... (link)
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You could try to buy some flavored lubricant but even that isn't also so tasty. If you love the smell of a fish market or the taste of fish than knock yourself out because that is what most woman smell like. If she showers before you attempt to do oral sex on her than the smell shouldn't be as foul. If you do perform oral sex on her the best tip I can give you is focus on the clit
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I love my boyfriend, well ex now. We broke up like a month ago. The break up was my idea. I felt ignored, unwanted, but I knew he loved me. I was always at the bottom of his priorities and I couldn't deal with that anymore. Ne ways we still say we're together when people ask though. We haven't really talked. But I can't get him out of my mind. I see him everyday at school and it hurts to just walk past him and pretend I don't care. When people tell me they seen him flirting with other girls and holding their hands I pretend I don't care. When I hear he even told some other girl that he likes her, I have to pretend I don't care. Well I'm tired of pretending. I finally had a real face to face conversation with him a few days ago. He said he missed me, but he never expressed any desire that he wanted to be with me anymore or that he still felt the same way about me. Even when I told him I still felt the same way about him. He called me yesterday but I was sleep and left a message, he even said "I love you" at the end. It made me happy to hear him say those words again. I really don't know what to do at this point. I love this guy, he means so much to me, I want to be with him. Its not like I haven't tried to talk to other guys because I have. They just don't give me the same feeling that my ex does. I really need advice on what to do. I don't want to bed to be with him but I don't want to truly lose him either DX. (link)
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Did you try to talk to him about how you feel? Is it too late?..It very well could be. In a months time someones feeling can gradually fade away, They do things to take there mind off the hurt and start to focus on other things. If he is flirting with other girls then clearly he is trying to move on. If you didn't want to loose the connection you two had than you should of tried to talk to him about it. Communication is what keeps a relationship going and it is also what keeps it strong, You could try to talk to him but I certainly wouldn't get your hopes up on getting back together with him..afterall you were the one that broke up with him. Yes, You could talk it out and he could say no you two could become friends but there isn't any guareentee that friendship would last as he "could" very well develope trust issues. Try to talk to him but again don't hold your breath
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i want to learn australian sign language.. does anyone know any good sites that have more then just the alpherbet?? that have differnt words and stuff.
i really wanna learn it!!!! THANKYOU xxx (link)
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I have been in a relationship with a musician since I was 14yrs. old now I am 25. We have two girls and I am pregnant now again.Occasionnally we like to have threesomes. Now just found out he went back to one of the girl's and made out with her. She told me they kissed and well almost had sex, but didn't happened because her mom was coming home. She told me he wanted her to call him so they can hang out once in a while. She couldn't bare the pain and ended up telling me. I asked him and of course he blamed everything on her. Now the only part is He was the one that showed up at her house, so obviously he wanted something else other than his girlfriend/ fiance back at home. I don't know what to do,...I want to leave him, should I? OH, AND another thing always has his phone on locked and on vibrate. Tells me his phone is his business. Is this right? or am I just another victim who falls in the hand of a cheater. (link)
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Honestly, I must say I am not totally suprised by this. Like I've always said when you have a threesome you take a risk and it doesn't always go as exspected. Not only is your boyfriend/fiance a cheater but he isn't the only one who is totally at fault...afterall you've agreed to take the risk. The only thing I can say is yes, from what you have written above you are clearly a victim. I would move on like they say "Once a cheater, Always a cheater" We all learn from our mistakes.
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I am 25 years old and pregnant with my second child. I have never been on birth control because I am very against putting any hormones into my body that aren't there already. I have used the pull out method most of my sexual life and the only two times I have gotten pregnant were the times my partner did not pull out. I do realize however that this is not a reliable form of birth control and I am fine with having two children, and do not want another one anytime in the near future if ever. I am sorta afraid of the copper iud since I have heard horror stories, and my partner will not wear a condom (it doesnt pay for me to try...he just won't so do not suggest it). I would like to know what other options i have out there. Probably not many lol as my standards are quite high. thanks! (link)
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There is the Mirena IUD which is supposed to be 99.99% effective, I've been on it for 2 years nevere had a problem.
There is the Depo Provera shot which is good for 3 months than you need to get the shot again however while I was on this for about 5 years I've exsperienced weight gain.
There is also the pill, Which might be your best option in your case. Take it once a day same time everyday.
There is the birth control patch, Kind of looks like a big bandaide I'm not sure of the work metheod for it as I've never used it before...
You could also get your tubes tied, However again I don't know if that is an option for you but just another suggestion.
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15/girl.
so i liked this guy for nine months and two weeks ago he finally asked me out. i was soo happy even though i knew he was a player and "soo many girls like him, he could have any girl he wanted". and he had told me he had cheated on a girl before but he said he wouldn't do it again and i believed him. and so we were going out for one week and we didn't talk everyday more like every other. and we don't go to the same school. but like one night i was talking to my friend and she was like yaa but he has a gf, and i was like yaa i'm going out with him, and she goes um he's going out with my friend, and i was like um since when and she goes since last night. so she texted him and was like your going out with both of them and he broke up with me when he found i knew. so i called him and was like you cheated on me? and he was like what? nooo. he so denied it. and my friend that told me, they were talking and he was saying how he didnt mean to cheat on me cause he wouldnt wanna hurt me like that and feels really bad and feels like crap. but he should be telling me this and he never wanted to cheat againand then i think he blocked my number or something? cuz like when i call from my cell it rings once and then goes to voicemail? why do you think that is? cuz when i call from a different phone it rings all the way. and idont know if he gets my texts but like just last night my friend was texting him and she mentioned me and he didn't reply or say anything. sooo i really don't know what to do at all???? like i really REALLY need to talk to him. and i don't know what to do because of his phone and stuff?
h e l p:( (link)
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Usually when I guy cheats on someone they are always likely to do it again, He told you that he cheated on a girl before you two started dating therefore you had the red flag right in front of you. If he cheated on you than hell he isn't worth it, He played with your feelings and wasted your time. Move on you deserve someone better than that. If the phone rang once and went to voicemail either he blocked your number or shut off his phone..Find someone that will treat you right
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is being a tease a bad thing? cause i think its fun to tease my boyfriend...like ill tease him for awhile, but i always end up doing it. but i think the teasing part is the funnest lol...so guys and girls opinions pleasee :) (link)
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Depends,
If you are teasing guys in general depending on how much you do it than it could give off the wrong impression. It is okay to tease a little bit here and there just keep in mind not to overdo it.
If you are teasing your boyfriend than I say it's fine, Afterall he is with you and you two are a couple but then again some guys tend to eventually get annoyed at times. Again, just don't overdo it.
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