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Confused about boys.
So my boyfriend broke up with me for his ex about a month ago. and I've been really down. However, i've been kinda dating this other guy and we've been really close, but i just moved to college 2 hours away. and its been hard because i have trust issues. and so a few days ago, i heard that he told personal information about me to a girl that i hate. and i really don't know if i can trust him at all now. and I don't know if i'm willing to get hurt again. but he's trying really hard to make it up to me and make it work because I was his first and he really wants us to be together. Meanwhile, I just started talking to this other guy from back home (he lives 2 hours away too) and we haven't really become anything, but i think we both like each other. this guy has just been hurt by his exgirlfriend and me and him are both going through the same thing. They both know i don't want a "relationship" but I like them both but I don't know what I should do. I don't want to keep leading them both on. Help?
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What does your conscience tell you to do? For one, If this guy truely cared about you then he wouldn't spread dirt about you to someone you don't like as that is your personal buisness and he has no right to disrespect you like that. Therefore I do not blame you for having trust issues. If I were in the same boat I think I would leave him, I would give the other guy a chance but I would be cautious for awhile and careful not to say too much until I know I could fully trust him. However, Are you happy with him? Do you think you could trust this guy again?
If you don't want a relationship there is no harm in taking a break for awhile, Personally I would do the same thing if I had my heart broken. Take some time to heal if you need it if the guy likes you as much as you say he does then he should have no problem waiting for you.
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