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options for alternative birth control
I am 25 years old and pregnant with my second child. I have never been on birth control because I am very against putting any hormones into my body that aren't there already. I have used the pull out method most of my sexual life and the only two times I have gotten pregnant were the times my partner did not pull out. I do realize however that this is not a reliable form of birth control and I am fine with having two children, and do not want another one anytime in the near future if ever. I am sorta afraid of the copper iud since I have heard horror stories, and my partner will not wear a condom (it doesnt pay for me to try...he just won't so do not suggest it). I would like to know what other options i have out there. Probably not many lol as my standards are quite high. thanks!
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I find that I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
If you are absolutely sure you do not want to have any more children the best form of birth control that has no known side effects or chemicals are Vasectomies’ or Tubal Ligations. Both of these are considered to be permanent forms of birth control as reversals are not guaranteed or recommended.
As to just which partner should have the appropriate procedure is something the two of you should decide together then consult with your doctor(s). Both procedures are done on an outpatient basis with some Urologists performing the Vasectomy in their office and others opting for outpatient surgical Centers. Tubal Ligations are done under general Anastasia at outpatient surgical Centers. In most cases only two or three days of bed rest is need before returning to work.
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The copper IUD is about the only RELIABLE thing I can find. My mother had trouble with an IUD so I have never recommended them before. She had hers long ago though and I am sure they make them better these days! Read what you can about them & then discuss it with your doctor. Write down any questions you may have so you don't forget anything.
There are spermicides out there that are either foam or suppositories. The suppositories are what I would recommend. No measuring or guess work needed. They don't have a high reliability rate, but I used them for years myself. I imagine most of the failure rate is probably due to people not using them correctly. You might want to read up on those too. Encare is the one I used.
There is also the diaphragm. Most don't like it because like spermicides they have to be inserted
before you have sex. I think you can insert them an hour before so its not really all that bad. It would mean regular doctors visits, but so does the pill. An unpleasant experience we'd all rather avoid, but shouldn't!
If you want the best chance of avoiding a pregnancy, I would recommend the diaphragm & spermicide combo. Do some reading and then go to your doctor armed with a list of any questions you may have.
I'm sure you know but, others read the answers you get too so I will mention it. The pill is by far the most reliable form of birth control. I do
understand your concerns about hormones but having
a lot of children doesn't fit into many peoples budget these days either. Other forms of birth control have high failure rates for the most part because they aren't used as directed. You have to be very careful to use as directed. Any teens reading this please stick with the pill. :)
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There is the Mirena IUD which is supposed to be 99.99% effective, I've been on it for 2 years nevere had a problem.
There is the Depo Provera shot which is good for 3 months than you need to get the shot again however while I was on this for about 5 years I've exsperienced weight gain.
There is also the pill, Which might be your best option in your case. Take it once a day same time everyday.
There is the birth control patch, Kind of looks like a big bandaide I'm not sure of the work metheod for it as I've never used it before...
You could also get your tubes tied, However again I don't know if that is an option for you but just another suggestion.
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