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Friends
This might seem silly but just bare with me. I was good friends with this girl for like 10 months. We've known each other for a really long time but we had just lately become like best friends. Well a few days ago we got in a huge fight for the first time and we're seriously over. This isn't just a fight, we're through. So my question is...do I take down all the pictures of her that I have on my "summer 09" album on myspace? I don't like her anymore, but I can't change my past, you know? I don't know what to do. I have pictures of other people too but mostly of me and her, since we were like best friends. If I leave them she'll probably be annoyed or something. And I really just never wanna see her face again..so should I take them down or not?
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no it doesn't seem silly - i have gone through the same things with a guy i only knew for know 2 years - we have had our fights they would piss me off to the max and i was at the point to were you are know - but just think if you get rid of every single memory use 2 have then thats the end for good - if you guys were such good friends like you said this will pass n use will slowly regroup as friends -
hope this information helped n made sense....
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As you said, you can't change your past... I would suggest leaving them there. Perhaps take down the one's of just you are her but leave the group one's up.
The times you had together have a part in who you are today. Even if you do take them all down. Don't get rid of them. You never know what will happen in the future.
You never thought you would have a fight this big to not be friends anymore so therefore you never know if you two will ever become friends again.
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I would suggest leaving them there, especially if you had a great summer.. You need to cherish the moments you spent with her, even if you feel you don't like her anymore.. As you said we can't change our past. Why would we want to though? Live and learn! Life is a journey!! Let it flurish! :) Okay hope this helps in some way.
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