Member Since: August 24, 2009 Answers: 7 Last Update: August 24, 2009 Visitors: 787
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14/f
I find it very uncomfortable when people stare at my chest.... it makes me feel annoyed and kind of weirded out....
And this is not only with guys...for some reason I always see one of my friends in particular staring at my chest...it's extremly uncomfortable....I usually say "Hey, my face is up here" but she just laughs and then like awhile later she'll just stare at my chest again....no other girls do that and it's just really weird. And it's not only with low shirts, it's any kind of shirts. And NO, I'm 110% positive she is NOT a lesbian. So i don't know what I'm supposed to do...
What am I supposed to do to make her stop staring??
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i have the same problem - you could tell your friend/s in a nice way that you find it quite uncomfortable that she stares at your chest and you want to know if there is anything else going on with her
hope this helps
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so i'm new at this school and i want people to like me. how can i make this happen? today was my first day and people where nice to me etc but i still have noone to hang out with and i was alone in the breaks. what can i do to have a 'good vibe' ?? (link)
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well walk up to a group introduce yourself - and just be yourself!!!
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me and this guy, we say were "best friends" but we flirt NONSTOP everytime we're together, and i just don't know if its us being comofortable with each other, or if we both want to be more, if we're just really attracted to each other or if its just a best friend kinda thing. i'll give you a couple examples of what we do and i'll get your opinion!(:
i took a shower, and i came out with only a towel on and he was like "daaaaaaang, i'll dry you off;)!" and i started laughing and he took my water and i was like give me my water! and he sat down on a chair and he was like come sit on me. and i shyly was like "noooo:)" and i bent over and he like lifted my towel up, but it wasnt embarassing because we do things like that to each other.
he always knows when something's wrong, and he is always looking out for me and is like "you don't smoke do you, you better not linds i'm serious!" or if i ask him a question and i feel like he's not telling me the truth he'll be like "you know you can trust me, we tell each other everything" and when i'm sad, he does everything he can to make me laugh.
everytime we hangout, and one of us leaves the other, he'll always give me a hug and won't let go for a long time, its so cute:)
he's seen me naked, i've seen him naked. we haven't done anything though not even kissed BUT doing that, was a dare kind of thing and we were totally comfortable with it.
one time i was making food and he came up from behind me, and like put his chin on my shoulder and his arms around me and i like leaned back, if you can picture that and i was like do i smell all sweaty! hahaaa because i just got done running, and he was like noo not at all you smell like your perfume!
we do things like that all the time. i can wear whatever i want around him! hes seen me with no makeup, my hair not done and grubby clothes on and he doesnt care.
i just don't know what to think about our friendship. everyone always asks me if we like each other because they say we flirt all the time but i'm just like "we're just best friends:)"
even though he is really hot! and i know he thinks i am, i just don't know about us! (link)
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well to me yes it sounds like you guys are more than bestfriends i don't think there is much more to say about it but the information of what you guys do sounds like more!!!
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I really want to tell my boyfriend how much he means to me but I'm really nervous about it. I suck at expressing my feelings and I don't want it to come off as something forced, you know? I just want to let him know that he means a lot to me and that I, well, love him.
I mean, I know he might not feel as strongly about me as I do about him but that's okay with me right now. We haven't been going out too long so I don't expect him to say, "I feel the same way about you!" I just feel like I should tell him what I think about our relationship and how I feel about him...
Is it a bad idea since I'm not good at talking about my feelings or is it something that is ok? (link)
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no it isn't bad unless you tend to stumble and say the wrong things then yeh - all you have to do is ease into it or when your with him show him a bit for affection compared to what you normally do - but just not full on - and try to tell him in the most eased way if you now what i mean
hope this made sense and hopefully it helps
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Alright, so I'm in this "summer fling" i guess you could say. I started talking to this guy weeks ago, and Wednesday he asked me out and I said yes. So we've been dating for like three days. Now, before this happened his bestfriend (who also liked me) said he's such a player. Anyways, so I've hungout with my boyfriend now a few times since Wednesday, and we've made out and got real into it if you know what i mean haha. Last night, on my way home from his house, he told me he wanted to have sex with me. I can't help but really think all he wants is sex, and he's compleeeetely using me. But he says no, that he likes and cares about me a lot.
Should I just let this go before i get hurt? Move on into school without this guy, or should I stay with it a while and see if it works out? I like him a lot, but I'm just tired of being used,cause it's already happened this summer a few times.
advice would be appreciated :D thanks guys. (link)
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i was in your situation - he told me he wanted to do all these physical things and i told him i wasn't ready - it turned out that all he wanted was that i asked around some of his other friends and got the same idea in my head - so all you can do is ask some of his other friends - don't show him your freaked out about it - tell him your not ready and if he cant handle that well then it wont work out.....
hope this helped and that things worked out for you
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hey does anyone know any teen chatrooms?
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well i don't know any great ones - but what i normally do is just type in teen chatrooms and it comes up with alot of pretty good sites
hope this helps
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This might seem silly but just bare with me. I was good friends with this girl for like 10 months. We've known each other for a really long time but we had just lately become like best friends. Well a few days ago we got in a huge fight for the first time and we're seriously over. This isn't just a fight, we're through. So my question is...do I take down all the pictures of her that I have on my "summer 09" album on myspace? I don't like her anymore, but I can't change my past, you know? I don't know what to do. I have pictures of other people too but mostly of me and her, since we were like best friends. If I leave them she'll probably be annoyed or something. And I really just never wanna see her face again..so should I take them down or not? (link)
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no it doesn't seem silly - i have gone through the same things with a guy i only knew for know 2 years - we have had our fights they would piss me off to the max and i was at the point to were you are know - but just think if you get rid of every single memory use 2 have then thats the end for good - if you guys were such good friends like you said this will pass n use will slowly regroup as friends -
hope this information helped n made sense....
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