Member Since: August 23, 2009
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I love my boyfriend, well ex now. We broke up like a month ago. The break up was my idea. I felt ignored, unwanted, but I knew he loved me. I was always at the bottom of his priorities and I couldn't deal with that anymore. Ne ways we still say we're together when people ask though. We haven't really talked. But I can't get him out of my mind. I see him everyday at school and it hurts to just walk past him and pretend I don't care. When people tell me they seen him flirting with other girls and holding their hands I pretend I don't care. When I hear he even told some other girl that he likes her, I have to pretend I don't care. Well I'm tired of pretending. I finally had a real face to face conversation with him a few days ago. He said he missed me, but he never expressed any desire that he wanted to be with me anymore or that he still felt the same way about me. Even when I told him I still felt the same way about him. He called me yesterday but I was sleep and left a message, he even said "I love you" at the end. It made me happy to hear him say those words again. I really don't know what to do at this point. I love this guy, he means so much to me, I want to be with him. Its not like I haven't tried to talk to other guys because I have. They just don't give me the same feeling that my ex does. I really need advice on what to do. I don't want to bed to be with him but I don't want to truly lose him either DX. (link)
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your at the bottom of his prioraty?did you tell him you feel that way?at the bottom?the best way to keep a realtionship healty is to talk about things.maybe he is so used to you being there that he forget to remind you that he cares about you.and you should tell him exactly how you feel.and tell him to do the same even write a letter if you cant talk about it,or make him write one :) if i where with a guy that ignored me even know i told him i felt that way and he didnt do anything to change it, he could sail his own sea far away from me for all i'd care.
but since you've known this guy for so long he might just have forgotten what you mean to him since you've always been there..a relation ship is suposed to go both ways,both need to work on it not only one, its a two person job :) if he dosent se that it wont work in the lenght.and finding a new boyfrind that you work well with might take some time :) nothing happens over night,dont be so stressed about boys,theyr everywhere :)
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Alright, so I'm in this "summer fling" i guess you could say. I started talking to this guy weeks ago, and Wednesday he asked me out and I said yes. So we've been dating for like three days. Now, before this happened his bestfriend (who also liked me) said he's such a player. Anyways, so I've hungout with my boyfriend now a few times since Wednesday, and we've made out and got real into it if you know what i mean haha. Last night, on my way home from his house, he told me he wanted to have sex with me. I can't help but really think all he wants is sex, and he's compleeeetely using me. But he says no, that he likes and cares about me a lot.
Should I just let this go before i get hurt? Move on into school without this guy, or should I stay with it a while and see if it works out? I like him a lot, but I'm just tired of being used,cause it's already happened this summer a few times.
advice would be appreciated :D thanks guys. (link)
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so was watching oprah one day and she had a man there who had writen a book,about Men.anyway he said if you can wait 90 days to have sex and the guy stays for 90 days he wants more than sex.cause if a man want you for who you are he will stay and wait..so give him a 90 days trail and se what happens.and ofc he tells you no if he said yes i only want sex you would leave him would you not?:)
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