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more than best friends?
me and this guy, we say were "best friends" but we flirt NONSTOP everytime we're together, and i just don't know if its us being comofortable with each other, or if we both want to be more, if we're just really attracted to each other or if its just a best friend kinda thing. i'll give you a couple examples of what we do and i'll get your opinion!(:
i took a shower, and i came out with only a towel on and he was like "daaaaaaang, i'll dry you off;)!" and i started laughing and he took my water and i was like give me my water! and he sat down on a chair and he was like come sit on me. and i shyly was like "noooo:)" and i bent over and he like lifted my towel up, but it wasnt embarassing because we do things like that to each other.
he always knows when something's wrong, and he is always looking out for me and is like "you don't smoke do you, you better not linds i'm serious!" or if i ask him a question and i feel like he's not telling me the truth he'll be like "you know you can trust me, we tell each other everything" and when i'm sad, he does everything he can to make me laugh.
everytime we hangout, and one of us leaves the other, he'll always give me a hug and won't let go for a long time, its so cute:)
he's seen me naked, i've seen him naked. we haven't done anything though not even kissed BUT doing that, was a dare kind of thing and we were totally comfortable with it.
one time i was making food and he came up from behind me, and like put his chin on my shoulder and his arms around me and i like leaned back, if you can picture that and i was like do i smell all sweaty! hahaaa because i just got done running, and he was like noo not at all you smell like your perfume!
we do things like that all the time. i can wear whatever i want around him! hes seen me with no makeup, my hair not done and grubby clothes on and he doesnt care.
i just don't know what to think about our friendship. everyone always asks me if we like each other because they say we flirt all the time but i'm just like "we're just best friends:)"
even though he is really hot! and i know he thinks i am, i just don't know about us!
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Well just ask yourself "do I have feelings for him?" which I think anyone who reads this can answer that for you! :]
Your relationship with him is really cool. I have a guy friend like that but we don't hang out as much. If you're worried about ruining your current friendship with him by saying anything, don't. Since you have such a strong relationship, I don't think that it will screw it up just by mentioning feelings.
My guy friend liked me at one point and I didn't like him back, but we still stayed good friends. From what you explained I think that if you mentioned having feelings, he would feel the same way. The way he acts doesn't seem very friendly, it seems more romantic and loving which is great!
And since you guys are so comfortable around each other, you guys would have an amazing relationship because you wouldn't be afraid of showing anything around each other (physically and emotionally) which is a strong quality in a relationship.
But overall, I say to say something to him about being more then friends and see where it goes! :]
(which I am more then positive that it will turn into something!)
Good Luck!
-Jessie
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Hey there, =]
first off I want to say how its really great how you have that kind of a relationship with a guy,
it sounds exactly the same as me and my guy berstfriend,although I dont see him as more then a friend.
what you need to do is figure out do you want to be more?
from reading that it seems to me like you do,but like everyone else in theese kinds of situations your scared of ruining the friendship right?
well dont be. if you have feelings for him and he does for you then you could be missing out on a really great relationship by holding back.take the risk ask him how he feels about you two if its just comfortable friendship or really is something more,which it seems like a lot to me :)
if things dont work out dont worry about your friendship changing you two are so close its unlikey that things will get so akward that you wont speak or anything like that trust me.
my best guy friend told me he liked me as more but i didnt feel the same and were still as close as ever.
In my opinion I think you two would make an amazing couple your very lucky he sounds great :)
but you have to find out if he feels the same because although it may strongly look that way it isnt always the case so talk to him about it =)
I really hope I helped somehow! and made sense and things work out
much <3 & good luck
Jess.16.f x
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You two flirt a lot. It does seem like you are more than friends and that is also the reason everyone keeps asking if you like each other. It's pretty clear that you do. I suggest you talk to him about it. I'm sure he wants to date you and it seems you like him too. Why not go on a date? I hope this helps and good luck to ya.
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well to me yes it sounds like you guys are more than bestfriends i don't think there is much more to say about it but the information of what you guys do sounds like more!!!
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From what you just told me ... I would say you guys definetly seem like more than best friends. He obviously cares about you, and you obviously cares about you ... I mean, just the way you described how he'll come up behind you and hug you in a very caring embrace ... best friends don't really do that .. I mean some could, but lets analyze everything else..
- he makes you happy.
- you guys are always spending time together
- he thinks youre pretty even when you dont feel pretty
- he compliments you often
- he teases and flirts with you
- he is protective of you
ANDDD.. from what you said here ...
"everytime we hangout, and one of us leaves the other, he'll always give me a hug and won't let go for a long time, its so cute:)"
... you wouldn't really think you're best guy friend is being so cute by doing that. haha, face the facts girl, youre falling for him.
The vibe im getting from what you've told me is definetly not a friend one. you guys have a romantic connection, im 99.9% sure of it.
good luck ! hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo. :]
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