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player, liar, cheater.
15/girl.
so i liked this guy for nine months and two weeks ago he finally asked me out. i was soo happy even though i knew he was a player and "soo many girls like him, he could have any girl he wanted". and he had told me he had cheated on a girl before but he said he wouldn't do it again and i believed him. and so we were going out for one week and we didn't talk everyday more like every other. and we don't go to the same school. but like one night i was talking to my friend and she was like yaa but he has a gf, and i was like yaa i'm going out with him, and she goes um he's going out with my friend, and i was like um since when and she goes since last night. so she texted him and was like your going out with both of them and he broke up with me when he found i knew. so i called him and was like you cheated on me? and he was like what? nooo. he so denied it. and my friend that told me, they were talking and he was saying how he didnt mean to cheat on me cause he wouldnt wanna hurt me like that and feels really bad and feels like crap. but he should be telling me this and he never wanted to cheat againand then i think he blocked my number or something? cuz like when i call from my cell it rings once and then goes to voicemail? why do you think that is? cuz when i call from a different phone it rings all the way. and idont know if he gets my texts but like just last night my friend was texting him and she mentioned me and he didn't reply or say anything. sooo i really don't know what to do at all???? like i really REALLY need to talk to him. and i don't know what to do because of his phone and stuff?
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I am married now and trust me I have been cheated on by more times you can count.. I came to the conclusion.. a man cheats on you one time lose him he isnt worth it. one day you will find a man who wouldnt to a thing in the world to hurt you. you may argue once in a while be he wouldnt disgrace you by dating another girl. you are better then the hun. you dont need a man to make you happy but it sure does help find that right guy. take the time to get to know them.
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As they say...once a cheater, always a cheater. I'm soo sorry he did this to you though :(. Honestly, he's never going to change. I understand you want to talk to him because the relationship ended so fast..but, I doubt he'll talk to you. He's (in all honesty) being a jerk. He won't answer your calls or texts. I would say, if possible, try and talk to him in person. That's the best way to do it.
Is he blocking your number?: Most likely, he did.
Here's links to a few sites that may help you see if he did actually block you or not!:
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After reading a few of these myself..I'm pretty sure he may have blocked you. However, I don't know for sure. It's possible his cell phone service sucks. You never know. If it's at all possible..try and get your friend to ask him why he's ignoring you. Hopefully he'll tell her.
The cheating thing: He's lying to you. He knows what he did. The first step when a guy gets caught is to DENY! Every guy denies something they did. I don't know why, but they do. Ever hear that song "It wasn't me" by Shaggy?..that's exactly how they are. haha. Not very smart. I'm guessing he's close to your age? Basically, guy's (especially younger ones) like to "play the field". It's possible he just wants a "good time" sort of thing. It's rude..but, that's how some of them are.
You're 15 though, I didn't even have a boyfriend when I was 15. I waited until I turned 16. You're not going to find a perfect guy in High School. If you do, congratulations! haha. All you can do is just look around, get to know a guy, and make sure he remains faithful to you! Don't date those player guy's..they are NEVER faithful!
Good luck, hope I helped :)
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Usually when I guy cheats on someone they are always likely to do it again, He told you that he cheated on a girl before you two started dating therefore you had the red flag right in front of you. If he cheated on you than hell he isn't worth it, He played with your feelings and wasted your time. Move on you deserve someone better than that. If the phone rang once and went to voicemail either he blocked your number or shut off his phone..Find someone that will treat you right
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Go back and read yoor question. You sound pathetic and silly. He broke up with you, he blocked your number, and he has a girfriend. He doesn't want to be with you. Move on and find someone who will be faithful and won't cheat.
You've reported me? Lol. My advice is not harmful, just honest and blunt. So really, I could report you. But I am not going to take the time :) I understand you are upset, it's understandable. I just hope you realize that I am right, before you embarrass yourself and end up looking like a fool. Good luck. I mean that.
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