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i liked this one kid for a really long time.. i only ended up telling a few people becuz i dont like every1 knowin.. then after awhile i found out he liked me for awhile too.. then he asked me out at 1:00 A.M on my birthday.. i said yea of course.. and then i didnt get a phone call from him or nothing.. then at 11:O0 P.M that night.. he told me he doesnt think we should go out anymore.. he never told me a reason though.. i asked him why he even asked me out in the first place and he said i dunno.. he said he was sorry n everythin.. i think i might still like him but i cant say i loved him cuz we were neva together long.. wat shuld i do.. try n get ova him or still like him? (link)
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Forget about him. Relationships at this age rarely last.
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Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
Please help ME!!! (link)
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I told a friend how I felt about her(I'm a guy) and the only one who really changed was me. I was just too uncomfortable for certain reasons. Tell him how you feel. You should never be afraid to tell close friends anything. They're close because they like you, and they rarely wish for your discomfort. Regardless his response, I doubt the closeness of you two will diminish from this.
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okay i was thinking about getting a tattoo( a little one somewhere) and i wanted to know the best place to put it other than lower back for girls. i know someday i want to have a baby, so i dont want to put it where it's going to get all stretched out. also, what should i get and do guys think its attractive for a girl to have tattoos? (link)
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I'm a guy, and I think it's sexy when a girl gets a tatoo. However, it's a huge turn off when it isn't really small.
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I have medium-long super straight blonde hair. i was going to go super hippie and grow it out to my butt, but lately i have been wanting to cut it really short.. any opinions? (link)
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To be honest, 2 of the girls I find extremely attractive have completely different hair styles. One has extremely long hair, the other has really short hair. They wouldn't look as attractive if the switched. The point is that your face and body affect what looks best for your hair. I'd need to see your face at least to see what looks better.
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Whats the average weight if your 5`1 - 5`2 ish. (link)
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Between 110 and 132, I think.
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site error (link)
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I've noticed. When will it be fixed?
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is rub on tan bad for u? (link)
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I can tell you one thing, it's better than using cancerous, ultra-violet rays or tanning beds.
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Do you think diet pills really work? If so what kind is the best to take? Thanks (link)
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It's difficult to tell which diet pills will help you lose weight because weight-loss is partially in the mind. If people believe a pill will help them lose weight, then they may become convinced that they are when they are not. Several diet pills out there are dredfully unhealthy to take, so I wouldn't advise taking any of them. The healthiest way is to diet and exercize. It may take longer than riskier methods, but it's the safest.
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I belive in God, but i was wondering, if God created us, and all the earth, how was he created and how did he create everything, what was it it all like w/o God, how can he just appear from thin air when there is no thin air, were does he appear from if there's nuthin to appear from, how did he create the universe and beyond, if there was never anything to create it from, if there was once no such thing as the universe, where did he create it from, was there sumthin before God, and if so how did he/she make stuff, where did God come from????????
if it helps, i belive in Christianity, and I'm a catholic (my parents are catholic, and i was brought up in a catholic church, but when i moved, i started goin to a non denominational church, i haven't been to church in about 7.5 months, and im thinkin about goin back to church so i wanted info)
if u don't know how to answer this, please just put ur input, like even if all u said was unexplainable i'd still rate ya a 3, unless i get a rude remark, i'll rate you a 3,4,or 5 usually i rate 4s and 5s tho!!
i've asked my really religious nayber, and she said God was always there, ALWAYS WHERE? (link)
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In this, the belief that God always existed is popular. Nothing existed before him, because he always existed. To be perfectlty honest, in most religions the theories on God's existence is the same. What separates them is how people percieve how God wants us to live. Muslims main difference from Christianity is that they feel Jesus shouldn't be worshiped, only God is holy enough to be. Some beleive God exists in everything. As to how he created the universe, well I couldn't tell you. I wasn't there. I think with true omnipotence he could just fabricate existence with a mere thought. Unlimitless power is a tricky concept to grasp, that's why several people choose atheism. It's easier to understand. Personally, I believe in the possibility that God exists, but only through the mouths of others can I learn about him. Which doesn't make sense to me, because all they know is what they've been told. With, of course, the exception of those claiming to have heard from God. Since I haven't, however, I'm not sure which version is the true version, or if there is one.
After feedback: Sorry. Omnipotence means having unlimited power.
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I'm stuck between two guys.. I don't know which one to choose even tho I already go out with one of them. Before I started going out with boy 1, my friend introduced me to boy 2 and things were going great. Then, I went to hershey park with boy 1 (and the rest of my school) and we hit it off! we went of every ride together and he was being such a sweetheart (and still is) and we cuddled the whole ride home! After that, we started going out. The day after we started going out I left for soccer camp and the beach, so I was gone for 2 weeks. When i came back I was hanging out with boy 1 alot and everything was going great... and then I saw boy 2 the other day at the pool.. and OMG he looked so cute! I've started talking to boy 2 a lot now.. i still talk to boy 1 a lot tho.. I'm confused about who i like more tho. I really like my boyfriend, but then i remember that if i hadnt started going out with him I'd be going out with boy 2. boy 2 still has feelings for me.. he was asking about me while i was gone and i do like him too. Boy 2 is also a year older than me, not that it makes a difference. but i like that he's older.. and its not like he's some older badboy, he's a nice guy. I'm just not sure if i should stick with my boyfriend for the summer, or break up with him and be single for the rest of the summer so i can have both, or stay with him and just flirt with boy 2 still? HELP ME! (link)
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Well, you can always empty your mind, close your eyes, and see who the first guy you think about is, then go with that guy. I wish I had you're problem. 2 great people, both you love, loves you back. From the way you talk, you like guy number two more than your current boyfriend, and you're not sure if you want to break his heart just to start seeing the other guy. I think you should try dating guy number two for a while. Guy number one will be crushed, but it's something all of us guys go through sooner or later. Tell him that you need a break, then start dating the other guy. If it turns out you miss guy number one and liked dating him more, then find out if guy number one still has feelings for you. Afterwhich you can dump guy number two and continue to date guy number one.
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Does anyone know any sad songs maybe something that makes you or someone u know cry? The name and who sings it? (link)
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Well, depends on what you're into. Several of Barry Manilow's songs are extremely depressing, but majority of his fanbase is older women. "Even Now" and "Weekend in New England" are amongst the saddest. The entire Cranberries album "No Need to Argue" is incredibly depressing if you don't mind the Irish accent. If you're more into metal, then "Metallica's Fade to Black" and Korn's "Daddy" are pretty depressing. "Silence" by Blindside got to me a little bit. Tell me what you're into and I'll tell you the saddest song I've heard from that genre.
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okay i like this guy awhole lot! and hes been on vaca for awhile now.. and EVERYDAY he calls or texts messages me. his text messages are like "you just ran through my mind. i just wanted to say hey." and junk like that.. does this mean he likes me back? (link)
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Without a doubt. I don't even talk to my best friend (She is a girl, I'm a guy) like that. Talk to him about this as soon as possible.
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I am sure that this question has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.
My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined? (link)
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Well, I've been in this position more than once. The first was with a friend who pretty much knew how I felt. Were still best friends, and feel if we dated it would ruin our closeness (She tends to date a lot). The most recent time ended terribly. I made the mistake of telling her how I feel when I knew she didn't feel the same way. She made up lies involving the guy she about to date, saying she wouldn't date either of us, and that she couldn't chose between us anyway (They started to date shortly after, during which she made up more obvious lies in a pathetic attempt to spare my feelings and keep her image intact).
You say that you know she felt the same way? Chances are if she felt that way then, she feels that way now. There's no rule saying that you have to change your relationship if she doesn't feel the same way. If you're worried about what would happen if you two broke up, don't be. Can you honestly think of a good reason why you would break up in the future? From what I have seen, relationships are far more meaningful when you're friends first. What you should do is tell her in person. Tell her that you've always liked her more than a friend, and ask her if she feels the same way. You can also keep it really short and to the point and tell her you think you're in love with her, sometimes that's the best way. If she doesn't feel the same way, I'm almost sure she'll empathetic for you. It may be awkward (As you have feared), but it's definitely something you two can get over. I would definitely tell her as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. You'll beat yourself up if you don't.
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there this guy who really likes me. he follows me home and offers me rides home and gives me gifts for no reason. he ask me out and i said no. now he likes a girl who disses him. so now he is even worse. what should i do? (link)
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I really don't think you should do anything, but if you feel you must, tell him what you think of her. If you tell him, you may come off as jealous of the attention he gives her. If this happens, he'll fall into the same place and start thinking about you more. It doesn't sound like you want that considering you turned him down when he asked. What does she do to him? does she make fun of him or talk about him behind his back? If she's talking to him behind his back, I would tell him. If he really didn't like the way she treated him, then he would probably stop paying attention to her. Truthfully, I doubt there's anything you could do to make him stop liking her. No one can chose who they like, so I don't think any outside parties can either.
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Look no further, this is real.
I express the way I feel.
I am proud that I am me.
I am what I want to be.
I feel used; I feel alone.
I feel upset; I want to groan.
I feel hurt; I feel deprived.
I feel angry; I hate lies.
I feel hunger; I feel pain.
I feel like I have gone insane.
I feel happy, I’m all smiles.
At least for just a little while,
I put my true feelings away
To face another lonely day.
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Before I say anything, I think you are young. Am I right? It's very good for a young person's work. It sounds like an honest piece, but I don't know your age. I can't honestly criticize it without knowing how far along you are in writing.
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okay, well me and my husband got married like almost a year ago. the problem is im ready to have kids, but he says he doesn't want to have kids..ever! i really love him, and we have so much in common and we always have fun together, but this is like the first thing we have disagreed on and i really don't no what to do. please help. (link)
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Consider the future. What matters more to you. Would you be happier with children and with someone else, or with your current husband. Having children is probably one of the topics you two should have covered before you got married. If you think you'd be happier with children, then leave your husband if he's too stubborn to have any. If you can't imagine being happier without him, then stay. Having fun and having things in common are great for a relationship, but not a key element in a marriage. Finding someone who has these but also has similar dreams for the future (Kids, a dog, that perfect house, etc)is probably more important in a marriage.
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My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything! (link)
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Your boyfriend should be more concerned with what you want to do. Don't do anything you're not completely comfortable doing. Besides, your moving. I wouldn't want to go further into a relationship if I was moving. Some of my friends had mono, it lasts a while. It can be spread very easily, so I would be careful around other people. There's not much you can do to get out of moving, considering your dad's job. It's tough meeting new people, but it can also be fun. Make sure everyone knows how you feel. Most uncomfortable situations are the result of miscommunication. Tell your father how you feel about moving, and ask if there's anyway he can keep his job here, or get another one close by. Tell your boyfriend that you're afraid of going too far, if he doesn't understand, then he's not worth it.
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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I have yet to see a long distance relationship work. Several have tried, all have failed. The strength of the love was never a factor in determining whether or not the relationship would work. It would be healthier to move on. Dating him and never seeing him would be too painful.
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this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap? (link)
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It's just their taste. I absolutely hate bands that consider themselves punk, but have no angst nor are they political in any way. Punk is supposed to be about rebellion, what's so rebellious about singing about relationships, and life styles of the rich and famous? Even though most punk bands are a walking contradiction. "Fight corporations, down with the government, but buy our much publicized cd. Be original and never conform, never follow structured systems, anarchy, but if you don't follow the very structured rules of sounding punk (Power chords, etc.) then your not, even if you deliver a powerful political message and consider yourself punk." To me, the best punk artist was Dennis Lyxzen, one of the ones who broke the structure of power chords and typical punk routines. I wouldn't call them fag rock bands, Mindless Self Indulgence is a little homoerotic and I think they're all right. It's probably just the fad right now. Fads fade, they'll hate them in a year and love something else. Personally, I like most types of music; but rap, country, and pop punk are a few of the exceptions.
If your curious as to what I listen to: Ephel Duath, Refused, T(I)NC, The Dead Kennedys, Mike Patton, Blindside, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Opeth, Liszt, Metallica (80's), Rachmaninoff, The Cranberries (At least the first three), The Beatles, BTBAM, Simon and Garfunkel, Porcupine Tree, Lamb of God, Black Sabbath, The Berzerker, Norma Jean, etc. I think that covers all my favorite genres.
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Yesterday I was outside helping my sister out when my brothers friend Jason was outside working on his truck. Im 17, hes 22. We always just play around and flirt back and forth, like he will make kissing faces in the air towards me and I will do it back. He even helped me with my science project. Well he called me over to where he was and the first thing he said is "when are you ever gonna go out with me, I wanna be with you?" My jaw like totaly dropped because I NEVER expected that. I told him that its not nice to mess around with my feelings like that and he swore up and down that he was being serious & that I could call my brother and ask him if they ever talked about me . My brother told me that they talk about me and that hes cool with us going out, but my brother always jokes around with me. When I walk by my brothers shop Jason always checks me out and whistles at me and stuff.
So my question is:
Do you think hes being serious? I mean IM really attracted to him.. Is he only in it for the ass? What do you think of the age diff?
thnx. and sorry its kinda long........ (link)
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There is a little bit of an age difference. If I was 22, I probably wouldn't date a girl who was 17. As for him being serious, I can almost guarantee that he is. Guys, at least guys I know, only flirt with girls they're into. As to whether or not he's just "in it for the ass", I can't tell without knowing him. I don't think he is though, your brother wouldn't let him date you if he was, right? If you're really attracted to him, give him a shot.
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