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when my friend is telling me something online, sometimes i will just be like, "alrightty" or "kay". i dont do it alot, either. then she thinks i'm mad or annoyed, when im not. there's just nothing else to say. what should i do? i tell her im not mad but i dont thinks she believes me. (link)
Alrightty :)
Kay :)
Or say, "tell more!"
Something that makes you you more interested into the conversation , say it. Stay away from alrightty and kay because my friends do that, and It seems like they are bored.

Then typing one word, say a little more.


Me and my cousin has this "friendship" going on ..she told me that she was full in love with a guy that I happen to know because he was my neighbour back in the days..I DON'T LIKE THE GUY!!!!! he is a player for far as I know him ...I tried to tell her but she is blind ,she even slept with him many times ...Yesterday my sister told me he was trying to hit on another cousin of us

How do I tell my cousin this ?
Is there a gentle way to tell her ..or should I never ever tell her and let her findout herself ...doesn't that make me a bad friend/cousin?
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Tell her it's a bad thing and she could get easily hurt and peer pressure will possibly happen. If she thinks that's stupid, say this
"If it happens, I told you so!" If she ignores, let her find out herself; something that things must happen to learn about life. This makes you a good cousin/friend. When she comes crying, comfort her and don't tell her I told you so.


my birthday's coming up in 2 weeks. i know its kinda late to think about this, but i have no idea what im gonna do. i might just not do anyhting, but i kinda would like to do something with some of my close friends. any ideas? (link)
Same with me, but mine's about 3 weeks. Close friends party will be fun. Here are some activities you can do.

1. Movie and Popcorn at house
2. Go to movie theature
3. Swimming
4. Restraunt
5. Shopping
6. Slumber party


all of my friends have boyfriends, everytime i sleep over one of they houses they talk on the phone wit them and i tend to get really depressed cause i dont have one... there is this guy that i reeeally like and i think he miight like me but i am not exactly sure i want to ask him out but i am to afraid...what can i do to handle the depression and what do i do about asking him out?
ADVISE PLEASE!! (link)
I can relate with you. A boyfriend isn't all that you know!!! They might have boyfriends, but who cares? Guys that are under 21 are totally overrated and just are retardedly stupid!! Except, I like a guy too. I'm the same, I think he likes me, but I don't want to ask him out. Ask your friends if they can talk to him, and slowly ask him who he likes, but try slowly so he might say. Any your friends really good friends with the guy you like? Count on your friends! That's all I can say.


my friend has tried to kill himself before. i just dont see why somebody why somebody would do that. because if you kill yourself, you automattically go to hell. and hell is more worse than anything you can be going through at the moment. so why would somebody wanna do this? i dont need help explaining this to my friend, he got help and he agrees with me on this. (link)
He wants to commit suicide? Is he nuts?
Well, it all goes in the brain.
Something bad happened to him, and he just doesn't seem the way of life.
A psyhotrist (i know, bad spellin) might help him. Show him the way out of killing himself, or he will regret it. Does he love anyone? Try someone that he loves against him, and might let him not kill himself.

Try


Lately I haven't been able to fall asleep til like 6 oclock in the morning.

I don't mind staying up till 12:00 or 1:30 but this has gotten ridiculous. I can't sleep, and when I do sleep I sleep til all hours of the day.

It seems like I can't get enough sleep when I do fall asleep, and I'm very groggy.

HELP? I need advice on how to make me tired, or what is causing this. (link)
You can't sleep until 6:00 huh? Do you drink pop or caffine during the night before you fall alseep? If you do, STOP. Also, try to keep your day busy because it makes you worn out a little more.
When you try to sleep, do the following.
1. Find a comfortable place on your bed and don't move until you are sleeping or if you have to.
2. The noises around you, try to block out.
3. Nothing should be on your mind, or you stay awake.
4. ZZZZZ

This is what I do. Sometimes if you have so much on your mind, you can't sleep!.

I hope you sleep well.


okay well sorry if this is the wrong category butt
i have very thin/fine hair its about shoulder length and blonde on top black underneath and i always have to backcomb and put tons of hairspray in it to make it look normal I HATE IT IT TAKES FOREVER, so i was wondering if anyone knows any thickening shampoo or creams or hairstyles that would help?

- thanks. (link)
My mom has the same. Her hair is about to her shoulder. She uses Paul Michelle (i don't know how to spell it) Mouse. It thinkens it up, and she curls it and it looks so more better!

Try it


What the hell is laguna beach about? I know this is a really short question but I have no idea what it's about. All I know is it's a reality show with teenagers in it. (link)
haha so uhm its a show (which i dont like but w.e) and they show teenagers and their drama in their lives but its pointless cuz they all look the same and you get confused...lol
i probably didnt help much but i tried :)


What the hell is laguna beach about? I know this is a really short question but I have no idea what it's about. All I know is it's a reality show with teenagers in it. (link)
basically you just watch a group of teenagers going around being like rich and shopping, and talking in hot tubs. its pretty boring cuz you watch them go to the mall and buy dior shoes. wtf?


about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?



f/13 (link)
I'm terribly sorry for your cancer. I've lost a family member and a good friend's father to leukemia and kidney cancer, and you're in my prayers.


And unfortunately, as the doctor's job, he is required to tell you. He is although, supposed to be the least bit sympathetic and not "hey you're going to die". But, whatever way he said it, it's understandable that it'd make your family cry. That's intense stuff.


I also want to tell you though, when my friend's dad was diagnosed, they gave him half a year. But, he lived a whole two years after that. Doctors can be wrong so ask your parents to get a second opinion and look at all the options you have.


Good luck.


i have been searching everywhere on how to do the "messy bun" hairstyle. i know it is just kind of an "i don't care" bun, but whenever i try to do it it turns out all wrong. here are some examples of what i am talking about:

http://static.flickr.com/20/70657747_16822bbda4_m.jpg

http://i.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/style/org/articles/hair_you/0905bun.jpg

could someone just give me like step-by step instructions on how to create a messy bun?

thanks! (link)
Well, those two look completely different. I do mine like the first one. The second one I don't think looks good; the bun is too small.


So this is an easy way to do it that always works--Put your hair up in a pony tail and depending on how many times you put your hair through the pony tail holder, it may be 2 or 3 but definitely more than 1, with the last time you put your hair through, let some of the ends go down and leave some up in the pony tail holder.


It'll look really bad but after you do that, take the strands that are left over, section by section, and get them through the pony tail holder in random places. Keep doing it until all our hair is up in the bun and there ya go! It might take a few tries to get it the way you want but the whole process only takes me like, 2 minutes.


I hope that was easy to understand, I tried to explain it the best I could.


Hi,

I recently bought some clothes from the Hollister at my mall. I am a 17 year old boy and think the clothes are nice.

When I got home and showed my 13 year old brother the clothes I got (a polo and a sweatshirt) he started screaming at me and said that only posers and gays were Hollister.

I know quite a few people don't like Hollister and quite a few people do.

I am wondering what people think of boys who wear Hollister? (link)
if the girls around you are into preppy clothes... then hollister clothes on a boy are hotttttttt=). but like goths and emo might not think that... but haha w/e. hollister is for hotties!


i have to go to the doctors tomorrow, and they always make me pee in a cup, what do they find out from your pee? (link)
they detect whether you are healthy mostly. if they find too much sugar content... then it could lead to symptoms of diabetes. they also can tell whether you have consumed alcohol or drugs in the past 30 days or so. good luck =)


is it normal for people to cry over nothing? like seriously! i think something is wrong with me, maybe depression or something? but i can just sit here and start crying for hours. and so many things will just run throug my head.. do i need help?! (link)
yes. it is totally normal. sometimes you think of a topic... that makes you cry,... then you might think of another topic that is somehow connected to it. and it keeps going on and on and on. dont worry!


and there is nothing wrong with you... its only human!



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hey, well my boyfriend used to have a bestfriend named marc. i used to be friends with marc too. like me, my boyfriend, marc, and lucy could hang out together. even any combination of people. but then marc went away. so to replace marc for being his bestfriend he made bestfriends with this kid named eric. now eric was from his football team and i dont know eric at all. but now my boyfriend is with eric every single day like no lie and has no time for me anymore. and its not like we can all hang out because i dont know eric. also my boyfriend has mentioned to me that eric doesnt like me, but what i dont get is i never even met him before. a month ago we broke up because we never saw each other, but that time it was my my moms fault because she didnt trust my boyfriend yet. so i called him and explained to him what happened. he understood and asked me back out again. but the last time i spent time with my boyfriend was not last tuesday, but the tuesday before that =/. but on last tuesday after football and cheering i saw him for maybe 5 minutes and we talked for 5 minutes, but i dont call that spending time togethter. ive hinted to him many times that we dont see each other and say that we should hang out soon, but he always says oh i have plans with eric and stuff like oh baby im sorry ill call you tommorow, but he never calls cause hes with eric. monday-friday my boyfriend and eric have football. monday-thursday i have cheering. so you think that monday-friday would be enough time to spend with eric. the only real time me and my boyfriend can hangout is saturday and sunday, but of course he already has plans with eric. i mean we could hang out before and after cheering but again he usually has plans with eric and if he doesnt its hard to do because of rides and stuff. when hes with eric he basically never calls me. sometimes there will be 1-2 days of him not calling me because hes been with eric for 1-2 days. if we do talk its only for 30 minutes and its 30 minutes of him yelling at his paintball game. before we used to talk for 3 hours straight and i felt some type of connection and now im not so sure if i do anymore. im starting to feel really bad about this and im getting sort of jealous that eric gets to spend more time with him then i do! schools going to start soon and me and my boyfriend go to different schools so summers basically the time we need to hang out, because of all the homework and football and cheering at night. also yesterday he actually did call me with eric, i was with my two friends allie and jillian, but that didnt make a difference. so he called and said lets meet on razon st. [ near my house ]. so he said to figure it out and call him back. so i did and i was like were not going to meet you there because we cant. then he was like good because me and eric decided that we didnt want to walk there anyways and they were already walking to somewhere else. i foudn taht rude. so today he actually called me and was like hey. i was like oh where did you go yesterday. he said to this girls house. i felt hurt and im usually not this sensitive. i was like oh was it erics friend or yours. he said mine then he said you dont know her. i was like how do you know, i wanna know who it is. then he said too bad. today we only talked for 30 minutes and it was yelling at his paintball thing again most of the time. please help i just dont know what to do anymore. thank you os much for reading! (link)
it sounds like you two dont have feelings for each other anymore. i agree with allishow dump him. hes being mean and crappy and if hes not even spending time with you you might as well be single. hes treating you like shit and he went to another girls house.. get rid of his ass lol.


does anyone know where to get inflatable backpacks that look like http://www.inflateus.com/images/dsi_backpack_blue.gif thanks so much!! (link)
nope i dont know.
...well you asked?


I recently got a photo contract with playboy magazine. they wanted me to be nude... with nothing on... and nothing covering me. i acceptedd... because i need the money. i told them i was 20. but i have a secret. i am only 13 =). i have DD boobs... and quite a large downstairs. do you think i will get in trouble with like the law if they find out im 13. helpp=[

the photoshoot is in 4 days. on monday (link)
uhm thats gross.. theyre going to find out your age anyway because they need ID and do you really want a bunch of guys look at you naked?? i mean your 13 thats wrong. and i dont care if you rate me a 1 im just telling you the truth. find money some other way.. i mean.. what hapened to babysitting. AND what sane REAL PLAYBOY agent or w.e would give a 13 year old a contract.. thats deffinatly a scam.


is masturbating a sin? just a question---cuz i think its completely gross!! (link)
if youre not doing it, then why do you need to know?


i have limewire (not pro)and it wont work. it wont search but it is connected and the inernet is on what do i do (link)
you badddd.
it's illegal,
youre a CRIMINAL.
nah jk. idk, redownload it.


what does the i next to the sn mean on aim triton? (link)
screen name.

like what your im is like fruitygirl556 lol i dunno




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