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suicide


Question Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 12:02 am

my friend has tried to kill himself before. i just dont see why somebody why somebody would do that. because if you kill yourself, you automattically go to hell. and hell is more worse than anything you can be going through at the moment. so why would somebody wanna do this? i dont need help explaining this to my friend, he got help and he agrees with me on this.

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orphans answered Friday August 18 2006, 11:25 am:
He wants to commit suicide? Is he nuts?
Well, it all goes in the brain.
Something bad happened to him, and he just doesn't seem the way of life.
A psyhotrist (i know, bad spellin) might help him. Show him the way out of killing himself, or he will regret it. Does he love anyone? Try someone that he loves against him, and might let him not kill himself.

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captainL answered Thursday August 17 2006, 5:13 pm:
1.Suicidal is a part of Depression, which is a real disease. The person who is suicidal is just the way they think. When they're going through a tough time, instead of crying and talking it through, they find it easier to physically hurt themselves, or in this case, kill themselves.

2.Another reason people are suicidal is they want attention.

Both of those are reasons why people are suicidal, and reading your story I do believe your friend was the first.

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LuvYa12 answered Thursday August 17 2006, 2:17 pm:
Hun People in their lives it is a diseas that can be cured thank god!!. You do not necisarilly go to hell if god loves you enough you will go to heaven.

Hope I helped

Jenna<33

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chakra answered Thursday August 17 2006, 10:37 am:
They don't nessesarly go to hell as no one knows for certain that hell exists.
It depends on their religion and beliefs.
If they aren't religious then the fear of going to hell won't be an issue for them because they'll just think when they die, thats it, your gone, you dont live in heaven or hell, and if your so depressed and alone and in pain, and you don't want to live anymore and you don't believe anything happens when you die then they'll just feel they have nothing to lose.

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duudee_advicer answered Thursday August 17 2006, 7:28 am:
This is what I have to say:
When things get tough, wouldn't it be easier to quit and say forget this? Take a math test for example. If you can't solve the equations you'd rather just stop the test all together.

Well when people reach the stage of depression, or overload, they think of death as a permanant choice to get out of all of it. They don't take the time to realize the consiquences for them, and their families.

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Vikki27 answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 5:26 pm:
The truth is that nobody can ever really understand the reasons behind wanting to die so badly that you try to go through with it. Unless you have been there yourself.

When you're living every single day of your life, not hating anything, not liking anything but just not FEELING anything, it just doesn't matter any more. There are those of us who believe in God who truly believe that at that point, nothing could be worse than the black hole they are in. For those of us who don't believe in God, it just doesn't matter. Heaven and hell don't enter into the equation and the only thing that matters is getting away from yourself because you can't stand to be you, in your mind, in your body, for another minute.

Everyone who goes through this has their own personal opinions as to why they want it all to end and their own explanation of how they got there, so you can't generalise it perfectly for everyone. However, the closest I can get is that it seems like the only option for escape for many people out there, even though the light at the end of the tunnel could be 10 minutes, 10 days or 10 weeks away.

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ringo8mybaby answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 1:34 pm:
You lose hope, see the only way out as killing yourself. As far as the hell and suicide, there is no such thing as hell. The suicide going to hell deal was created so people wouldn't do it.

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fatalxheart answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 12:46 pm:
There is no such thing as "hell".

And people lose faith. They lose hope. They want to let go. I've tried it, and I was completely lost when I tried it (several times, in fact). I felt like there was no reason to continue and I was pained too much. That is why.

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eternitysofbliss answered Wednesday August 16 2006, 8:39 am:
Could it be that at the time they lose faith in god and thus no longer believe in hell for that moment?

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