all of my friends have boyfriends, everytime i sleep over one of they houses they talk on the phone wit them and i tend to get really depressed cause i dont have one... there is this guy that i reeeally like and i think he miight like me but i am not exactly sure i want to ask him out but i am to afraid...what can i do to handle the depression and what do i do about asking him out?
ADVISE PLEASE!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Friday August 18 2006, 11:27 am: I can relate with you. A boyfriend isn't all that you know!!! They might have boyfriends, but who cares? Guys that are under 21 are totally overrated and just are retardedly stupid!! Except, I like a guy too. I'm the same, I think he likes me, but I don't want to ask him out. Ask your friends if they can talk to him, and slowly ask him who he likes, but try slowly so he might say. Any your friends really good friends with the guy you like? Count on your friends! That's all I can say. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
HeavensAngel01 answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 10:45 am: ask him out in a note it'z much easier and i mean i have had this before i would think of all the good things i've done that have made me happiee without a bf now if yu want wun yu gotta get out there gurl and ask him! [ HeavensAngel01's advice column | Ask HeavensAngel01 A Question ]
Kmayline719 answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 8:54 am: Okay sweety...
First of all, ask yourself this-
Do you actually want a boyfriend,
or do you want a boyfriend just because
your friends have boyfriends?
If you really do like this boy..
then I say go for it.
But honestly, you shouldnt be stressing
& getting depressed over not having a bf.
I know it may suck hearin all of your friends
talk about their bfs, but you'll eventually find one. Having a boyfriend may seem like fun, but sometimes being in an actuall "releationship" involves soo mucn more. think about that!
Back to this boy you like. Heres a few clues he might like you...
*He might start talking loudly when hes with you. Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common signals!)
*He might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you.
*If he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively"
*If he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally.
*If he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you (:
dont be scared. If you really like him & you think that he likes you, go for it!
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