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Me and my cousin has this "friendship" going on ..she told me that she was full in love with a guy that I happen to know because he was my neighbour back in the days..I DON'T LIKE THE GUY!!!!! he is a player for far as I know him ...I tried to tell her but she is blind ,she even slept with him many times ...Yesterday my sister told me he was trying to hit on another cousin of us
How do I tell my cousin this ?
Is there a gentle way to tell her ..or should I never ever tell her and let her findout herself ...doesn't that make me a bad friend/cousin?
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Tell her it's a bad thing and she could get easily hurt and peer pressure will possibly happen. If she thinks that's stupid, say this
"If it happens, I told you so!" If she ignores, let her find out herself; something that things must happen to learn about life. This makes you a good cousin/friend. When she comes crying, comfort her and don't tell her I told you so.
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Sounds like you warned her about this guy already. If it makes you feel better to tell her about his latest player antics, then do it. I think you sound like a good friend and cousin. However, if she does not listen to you again don't be surprised! Maybe just suggest she invest in some protection (condoms) so she at least will reduce her chances of disease and/or pregnancy. At least you can learn from her mistakes, and be the "smart cousin."
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No not at all! I do not think this makes you a bad cousin/ friend in anyway. Its actually trying to help her. Wouldnt you wanna know if you might be getting played? I sure would. Just sit her down tell her about how you know him and you know how he is. Tell her that your not *hating* or anything like that you are just trying to HELP* her.But if she doesnt wanna listen, fine...let her find out on her own. Maybe next time she'll learn. well hope i helped hun<333
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I think you should straight out come out and tell her.She really needs to know, before she gets hurt.
Sit her down, maybe even make a joke out of it, but make sure she gets it and knows what kinda guy he is.
Good luck!
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