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ok, i think im cute and attractive, ((brunette w/ hazel eyes here)) and guys like me i thought...but it ive only gotten asked out by a guy ive known since like 2nd grade ((and im in 7th)) i just dont no y guys dont ever say nothin...please help...guys preferably but girls ok
...katie... (link)
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Since you asked for a guys opinion, I'll give you one. I'm a guy (19), and just earlier this year I asked out a girl for the first time in my life. Every time I've dated in the past, it's always the girl that asked me. It's not that I didn't have my share of crushes, it's just that every girl I liked, I felt I didn't deserve. I know there's guys that go around asking girls like it's no problem, but for most guys (especially at your age), it's incredibly scary. There's a fear of rejection that lurks in the back of almost every guys mind. It's even harder if the girl is pretty, because most guys would think that they're out of their league. Trust me, it's not because your not noticed, it's because they're too afraid you'll turn them down.
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okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!! (link)
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Well, it could be kind of fun. The way she introduced herself, she seemed nice enough to get to know. You two can talk about each other, she could tell you stories of when you were younger. If you're mad about her leaving your life, then that's understandable. But you have to take into account what her view was at the time. I don't know the whole situation, so I'm assuming she left to live with your father 8 years ago, while you stayed with your mother. If this is true, it may have been awkward if she stayed with you, considering your mother isn't her birth mother. 8 years is a long time, so maybe you can finally forgive her for leaving. You may regret never spending time with her later on. But, of course, you feel that you think something bad could come from getting to know her again, it's totally up to you.
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ok if your a lord of the rings fan you might get this but you might anyway.
into the south
int othe south we go
through danger we do not know
we'll give it our best
to finish our quest
with only a sword and bow
to mordor we must fly
where darkness fills the sky
throught dark shadows and mirk meadows
the end of all comes nigh
--- ok i know thats not that good but how do yall like it?--- (link)
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It's nice. I'm a big fan of the extended versions of the movies, but I have yet to read the books. I know, I'm missing a lot.
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Hey, l'm 13 and I've liked this boy for 13 months..lol.. and we started going out in april and he broke up with me in june. i was heartbroken but i kind of saw it coming..i dont know he kind of just stopped calling as much. then i found out after he broke up with me that it was because he felt bad because..he still liked me..but he still had feelings for his ex. but i still like him A TON!!!! we have kept talking and hanging out after we broke up. i have noticed that hes starting to act like he likes me...also he usually tells people who he likes..he wont tell any of my friends..i wont dare ask him myself because i dont want him to know that i still like him if he doesnt like me..i dont want him to feel uncomfortable. my friend has also noticed that it seems like he likes me. What should I do? haha i dont even know what im asking you..just tell me what you think about this whole thing and what i should do..please?
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Since he broke up with you, and because of the reason for him doing so, I think you should wait for him to make a move. He still might not be over his ex yet. My friend did something very similar to a guy, and she later got back together with her ex. Then she turned around and got back together with the other guy. There's no telling what's going on in his mind. I think he's starting to fall for you, so just keep talking to him and he'll eventually come around if he does.
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I need some songs... any song would be good and who its by!! (link)
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The Deadly Rhythm by Refused; The Blue Period by Beloved; The 20th Century was Entirely Mine by Fear Before the March of Flames; Gagged in a Casket by The Blood Brothers; Twenty-Three Lubed up Schizophrenics with Delusions of Grandeur by Locust; Mordecai by Between the Buried and Me, Where Eye Meets Eye by Blindside; Tremor by Converge; The First Conspiracy by T(I)NC; and Baby Dream in Cellophane by Porcupine Tree.
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ok, sry if this is real long:
last summer, at the pool i belonged to, there was this guy that i liked. he liked me too i thought bc we would always like give each other stares and stuff but we never actually met. we dont go to the same schools so i didnt see him but once the whole schools year and that was at the freaking vet. so now, ive seen him at the pool again this summer, but i dont think he likes me any more bc he never like looks at me or anything like he used too. i just relized how much i do like him and im really mad that he doesnt like me back (bc im pretty sure he doesnt) does he just not want to show hes """affection""" or does he just not like me and i cant stop thinking about him...I NEED HELP
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Well, I think he does still like you. There are several reasons other than no longer liking you. He may think you no longer like him, or maybe he has a girlfriend now. The only way to really find out is to go over and talk to him. Introduce yourself and start up a conversation.
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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...
Bush?
or
Kerry?
moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!! (link)
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None of the above. But since I've grown a dislike towards Bush, if I had to choose, Had To, then Kerry.
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Can u help me ? .. ok i liked this kid named james and my friend said he was hot to but then there was this other kid named nick that liked me he was ok but my friend was persuading me to go out with the nick because she thought it would be good she was like " give him a chance james styll has a girlfriend u wont be able to go out with him " [ cuz he did ] but he told everyone he was gonna break up with her for me but i didn't know that so i went out with nick cuz everything my friend said i thought made sence but no it really didn't because then yesturday shes all up on him kissen and stuff when i`m ova here with my boyfriend that i`m not even sure if i like .. i know i shouldn't of went out with him so i told him in a nice way we should just be friends.. so now james tells me online he likes me and doesn't like my friend and he broke up with his girlfriend to go out with me and i told him i broke up with nick because i liked him to .. so now i think he is gonna ask me out because thats wat his friend said but what can i do b.c if i go out with him my friend will probably be madd but i really like him tho !! PLEASSE HELP !!! (link)
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In my opinion, it's only fair. Your a little mad at her for convincing you not to go for him just so she could date him, right? She already knew how you felt about him. Since she knew how you felt about him, she shouldn't be surprised. If you are worried about her opinion, however, tell her how much you want to date him. Tell her you want to go out with him but you don't want to hurt your friendship. Just make sure you tell her before you start to date this guy.
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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*
LOVE the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü (link)
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Ask yourself what you always catch him looking at, your body or your face. Also think about the conversations you have, whether or not he consistantly drifts off and forgets what you say.
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My best friend that is a boy likes me, we have been really close for like 2 years now. And hes obcessed and even tells my boyfriend how lucky that my boyfriend is that he has me, is there anyway i can get him to lay off a bit without hurting his feelings? Cuz hes always there for me and idont wanna loose him as a best friend, but i dont want him as more than that.. (link)
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It would be impossible to not hurt his feelings. You have to be honest with him though, considering the fact that he's your best friend. Since he's obsessed, he might be in this friendship just to try to date you if it doesn't work out with your boyfriend. I know it sounds terrible, but it does happen. Talk to him about how you feel, if he's not just in this to date you, he'll understand. You won't lose him over something like this if he really does value your friendship.
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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I agree, he's not worth your love. Find someone who respects you. I know you probably love him, but there's no point in continuing this relationship if he's not going to love you back.
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There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.
I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks (link)
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If you like him so much you need advice because of him, then you have to tell him. The fact that he's your best friend is a sign that he likes you. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, I doubt you'll lose your friendship.
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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Anyone who wants to get you to do something you don't want to do, and uses the line "If you loved me you would" can't be good for you. He may like you, but it doesn't sound like he respects you. Besides, you don't even feel comfortable around him anymore. If I were you, I'd leave him.
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I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it.... (link)
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I've made several mistakes too. I just try to do things to keep my mind off of them. I convince myself that I was younger then, and different now. They don't haunt me nearly as much as they used to.
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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Lets think about this. You've liked this guy for a long time. For now lets pretend that you didn't. So what we have now is just a guy whom you've known for a while, who just said he likes you. We know that he has a reputation as a "player", and we know he said that he wants to have sex with you. Let's not forget that you're only 13. Would you really think it would be wise to date him in this situation? I really don't. So why would it change just because you like him? It's all the more reason not to. Since you like him, it would only be painful and you would have your heart broken. i wouldn't see him if I were you.
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My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
Signed,
Fed Up (link)
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Don't tell him that you can only stay friends. Stop being friends with him. Guys like this won't give up if you say this. Why can't you tell your friend? It might be helpful if she gets the whole picture. Personally, if I was your friend, I'd kick his ass. I hate guys like this.
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Hey! OK, I'm really shy. Its not that I enjoy being all by myself because I totally hate it... I love to be with people... but it’s hard for me to just walk up to someone because last year in classes we got to sit around and talk for the end of each period. When I tried to talk to someone they would be like "uh huh. Ok" and then walk away. However I’ve talked to each of them individually and they seem interested in talking to me (No, they were not just being nice) I’m moving to a totally new country next year which means a new school. I want to redo myself… like not be so shy anymore. Could you all give me some tips for me to be less shy? And please no advice like "just talk to people"… that doesn't work. I've tried. Thank you so much everyone!! Any advice is appreciated!
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From what I've seen, it's easier for new people. Your more interesting than anyone else because no one knows much about you. Find clubs that you might be interested in. Talk to people about what interests you. I'm not sure that you can do anything about your shyness at first, but the more you talk to the same people, the more comfortable you'll become. Just don't talk to people for too long, you may appear needy. If this happens, you may drive them away.
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I have almost no ones instant messaging address. My mom walked in while i was talking to one of my friends online and saw that i only had ten people on my list. Since i had a different s/n last year i didn't bother getting a lot of people's IM, so she sent me to this counsiling group for teens who can't get along with others. I went to the group once and they said that i just don't want to talk to people. Should i stay in the group, or leave, i don't think i belong in there, but should i give it another day?
Please help
Lizzy (link)
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what harm could be caused by sticking around another day? Afterwhich you should quit if you know you don't belong there.
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This is gonna sound so weird. I read this advicenators collumn, and it seems like he is the kewlest guy ever. At first i thought maybe he was like 20 something, but he's my age, and i don't know, the picture of him kinda just made me feel weird, but i am not a person who starts that kinda thing. What should i do?
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I guess you can ask him a question through this sight. I wouldn't advise seriously considering dating this guy though. there's no telling who he really is. Besides, what are the chances he lives remotely close to you.
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Well uhh I love this person and well he says Im pretty and stuff and he SAYS he doesnt like me im 13 by the way........one time my friend goes "what do u think of katie" and he goes silent for like 15 seconds and goes "nothing..." i dont know what to do!!!!!!! and he moved, and my other friend says we werent meant to be......ok, i LOVE him....im serious....could you please help someone who cries every night????????
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Even though you might not like what I have to say, know that I feel for you. I can relate to the tears, but I don't think this is love. In my personal opinion, love, unless returned, can't reach passed the boundaries of a crush. You need to find something to occupy your time and thoughts other than this boy. Late at night, try sleeping to something funny or uplifting so he isn't the last thing on your mind. I've never seen a case where someone finds who they were meant to be with at this age. Talking to other boys will lead to thinking about other boys, which will, in turn, result in desiring to date other boys.
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