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when is it my turn?? :\
ok, i think im cute and attractive, ((brunette w/ hazel eyes here)) and guys like me i thought...but it ive only gotten asked out by a guy ive known since like 2nd grade ((and im in 7th)) i just dont no y guys dont ever say nothin...please help...guys preferably but girls ok
...katie...
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Listen up...a lotta guys dont wanna get rejected by the good looking girls so they just go for the butt ugly ones. Just wait for the right one to come and take a risk with you...I'm sure your worth it!
Much love
~Me
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If you never talked to them, how do you expect them to ask you out?
But if you do know them, and have talked to them, they probably don't like <i>you</i>. Maybe they do think your pretty, but just not you. Or maybe they just want to be friends.
Anyway, don't rush things. Your still young.
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well maybe the guys are scared.. its not just girls who are scared guys are too.. maybe you should just go up to them n start tlking to them , the same thing happened to me but after i got out n started tlking to them i found out ALOT of guys i never thought would like me did so if you just go out n sart tlking they will eventually say someting to you
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maybe your so beautiful that they get really shy and are scared to ask you out. I know when i asked out my last g-friend i was really scared because all of the seniors wanted to date her and + she was 2 yrs older then i was. you just gotta find a guy that you think might like you and start talking to him.
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Since you asked for a guys opinion, I'll give you one. I'm a guy (19), and just earlier this year I asked out a girl for the first time in my life. Every time I've dated in the past, it's always the girl that asked me. It's not that I didn't have my share of crushes, it's just that every girl I liked, I felt I didn't deserve. I know there's guys that go around asking girls like it's no problem, but for most guys (especially at your age), it's incredibly scary. There's a fear of rejection that lurks in the back of almost every guys mind. It's even harder if the girl is pretty, because most guys would think that they're out of their league. Trust me, it's not because your not noticed, it's because they're too afraid you'll turn them down.
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Maybe your more the sisterly type of girl and all the guys just look to you as that and not gf material next time you meet a guy just act more flirty and ect-trix
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everyone has a special someone out there waiting! dont give up! im sure u are pretty! rate me plz!
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I know you would rather have guys answer this question but I have some really good experience in this area. All during junior high, I was decent looking and very flirtacious but I NEVER had a boyfriend. I tried so hard to impress every guy I knew and nothing worked. My freshman year of high school, I just acted like myself and stopped caring about what people thought and that was when I met the love of my life and have been dating for almost 9 months. Not having a boyfriend all during your junior high years is well worth the wait for what you get in high school!! I had about 4 boyfriends in 9th grade and then met *AlEx* It was well worth it!
*Some tips: If you like a guy, tell him and thats a way to get him to say something about you. Be flirtacious and always look cute ;) hehe!
GoOd LuCk SwEeTs!!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR *Rate me please*
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