Hey, l'm 13 and I've liked this boy for 13 months..lol.. and we started going out in april and he broke up with me in june. i was heartbroken but i kind of saw it coming..i dont know he kind of just stopped calling as much. then i found out after he broke up with me that it was because he felt bad because..he still liked me..but he still had feelings for his ex. but i still like him A TON!!!! we have kept talking and hanging out after we broke up. i have noticed that hes starting to act like he likes me...also he usually tells people who he likes..he wont tell any of my friends..i wont dare ask him myself because i dont want him to know that i still like him if he doesnt like me..i dont want him to feel uncomfortable. my friend has also noticed that it seems like he likes me. What should I do? haha i dont even know what im asking you..just tell me what you think about this whole thing and what i should do..please?
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 16 2004, 4:20 pm: Lol confused are ya? its okay but i would think that you to should just continue as you are and go about that and if something happans like you to go out then so be it that would be good but if he still gots a few feeling for his x.. then that is going to be in the way for awhile so i'd leave it at that or try to get to the bottom of weather he still really likes you as you do like him-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Friday July 16 2004, 2:39 pm: Hey! You guys went out for along time for your age... how cute! But, since you don't want to tell him you still like him. Then when you guys are hanging out, just be like "So, do you still like your ex girlfriend or is there someone else in mind?" And just like smile when you say it, like giving him a hint like "I LIKE YOU!!" kind of look. And, it seems like he wouldn't ever want to hurt you because he felt bad that he still liked his ex girlfriend, he could of cheated on you, instead he just broke up with you so, you wouldn't find out the bad way. And you two still hang out, hmmm I think he still likes you, but try doing what I just told you and see if that works, if it doesn't then tell me and I'll think of something else for you =D. Good luck and tell me how it goes!! Hope this works!
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Friday July 16 2004, 2:16 pm: hi, u guys had been going out for a long time...and its mad cool n i bet that u guys will still have feelings for eachother cuz u guys went out for a long time..so u guys kinda got use to eachother...i think that since u N ur friend has noticed the way he acts its like he likes u then he prolly does...so since u dont want to make the move ur self...then wait till he makes dat move on u!...if he doesnt make that move on u...then forget him n more on..cuz he prolly tryin to lead u on then ;) feel me? ight well thats wut i think n thats my opinion ;) hope i helped :) xoxo effy
if anything else holla at yr gurl =) [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:39 pm: Well,since you 2 are still friends,ask him first of all how he's feeling about his ex right now.Maybe he's over her by now.It seems like he must really care about you,if he took into consideration your feelings,and got out of the relationship before it got any deeper,and didn't want to lead you on or let you get hurt.I think he most likely does still like you and care about you a lot.Maybe one night when you guys are hanging out or talking on the phone or online,start talking just about dating in general,and how you feel about it.Maybe say something like "It really sucks cuz I always seem to meet real jerks,except you.It's hard to find a guy as good as you out there." Then hopefully that will open up the flood gates as they say,and allow you guys to talk it thru,and you can find out how he feels.Let him know how you feel!Say,"I don't wanna rope & tie you or pressure you at all,I just really like you a lot.I care a lot for you,and I've always wanted to give things between us another chance".Make it clear to him that you value your friendship and that you'll always be friends,you'll always be there for him.You said you like him "a ton",compliment him!!Let him know all the things about him that make you like him so much.Let him know how special he is to you,and then let fate take over from there!! ;) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:26 pm: Since he broke up with you, and because of the reason for him doing so, I think you should wait for him to make a move. He still might not be over his ex yet. My friend did something very similar to a guy, and she later got back together with her ex. Then she turned around and got back together with the other guy. There's no telling what's going on in his mind. I think he's starting to fall for you, so just keep talking to him and he'll eventually come around if he does. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
iLuVkOaLaS answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:20 pm: Well i think you should tell him. The only way you to r gonna go out again is if u tell him.
hope my advice works. please rate me *jessica [ iLuVkOaLaS's advice column | Ask iLuVkOaLaS A Question ]
shweetxtemptati0n answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:17 pm: Awww thats so qt. Keep hangin out with him like you are. N I think after a while if he does like you he'll make sure u knw trust me. I knw it sucks to wait. But yeah. Cause u don't want to ask him so just waittt [ shweetxtemptati0n's advice column | Ask shweetxtemptati0n A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:17 pm: I think it's a very common thing. I think you need to speak with him, and ask him if he still has feelings for you. Who cares if he still thinks you have feelings for him?? You shouldn't be worried about him finding out, because you need to be able to express yourself to possible boyfriends. Swallow your pride and go for it! Goodluck! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:16 pm: Just tell make your friends tell him that you have feelings for him becuase if he likes you back you guyz might have chance you just have to tell him how you feel
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