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My mother is a narcissist and used to abuse me emotionally and psychologically. I just came to college a few weeks ago hoping to heal somewhat from that by being in a different environment. However, my roommate has similar issues with her mom, and when she calls her on the phone I can hear a lot of their conversation. It brings back memories and makes me feel the feelings all over again and it is very uncomfortable. I don't know how to make myself feel better when instances like this arise.

When I found out that her family was like mine, I thought it might be nice because we could share our experiences. We did that once, and I didn't even say a lot. But I started panicking and my hands were shaking. I had to go to the bathroom and calm myself down.

If anyone has any advice on any of these issues, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!

You need therapy, and lucky for you your college surely has free mental health services, or can give you some way to obtain the help you need.

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Im 16 and im dating this 19 guy. How do i tell my mom??

I asked my collegiate buddy, and she said with your mouth. You know she's right because a) she's in college b) she's Indian and c) she's friends with me.

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I have to do a paper on a current sports controversy but I can't think of any and I can't find any on google. So what's a current controversy in sports?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caster_Semenya#Gender_controversy

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Im 16/f and my guy friend from middle school died on monday. His funeral is next monday and I want to go, I dont think my mom will let me because its a school day. What should I do?

Ask your mother if you can. If she says no, ditch school and go.

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Hi. 17/M. Im studying american history, and one topic is the vietnam war. I do not understand why John F. Kennedy is considered a hero, when in reality, his actions worsened the state of the USA in vietnam. Maybe im missing something? anyone help me out?

thanks.

At best, it could have to do with civil rights legislation passed by him.



At worst and most realistically, you're not missing anything.

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Okay, so I get wet and horny SO easily.
Like, just from talking about sex, or getting fingerd. I'm not sexually active, soo yeah?
But I get extremly wet during health class and stuff.
and i never know what to do?
/:

Get off before going to school.

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I like to pole vault so i want somtin cute with polevault in it but with any thing else

iPvaultUsingm4leG3n1t4L14

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Okay i'm 14, and i'm horney like all the time..
i like this guy, but he's a little older then me?
i really want to have sex with him, but i'm scared of all the things that could happen, i've been finger and it's okay, but tomarrow i'm supose to have sex???? what should i do?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9jgP1brUn8&feature=related



That's what sex is like. So don't do it.

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nd then i cum and she swallows and shit could she get pregnant from tht

yo mn not only culd she be pregnant she culd be pregs wit sum aliens or sum shit so u gotta get that shit checked out

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if you really hate cleaning your room like i do whats the fastest and more fun way to do it?

Put on a really horrible song/band. You can't turn it off until you've finished cleaning your room.



Obviously just made that BS up.

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just wondering, haha..

how can you give your guy a boner without touching him?

Flash him.

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nineteen, female.

why is it that i always fall for the players who always cheat on their girlfriends? why am i always so attracted to them, when i know that if i ever got close to them that there going to end up hurting me! i just dont know why i go for them, i do not think cheating is rigth in ANY way, but yet i still like the ones who do it to others? it doesnt make sense to me, yet it happens all the time

Issues with your father probably. Either abuse or absence or general douche baggery.

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So when a guy is done fingering a girl, does he usually wash his hands?? is this normal??? Thanks in advance!

Yeah, or at least wipe it off in a tissue.

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eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!

there are 2 girls that im torn between
one ive known longer
and one ive known for a month and she is crazy about me! idk which to choose!
:O
im a 15 year old guy btw


:[

Who do you find more attractive?





Well that was easy.

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I've fallen in love with old rock and metal, whilst steering away from most modern metal and rock I listen to.
I'm just wondering if anyone can recommend some bands such as Saxon, Iced Earth, Kiss, early Judas Priest, Helloween, Skid Row, Iron Maiden, AC/DC, Whitesnake, Mötley Crüe, Alice Cooper, Dio, Black Sabbath, Heaven & Hell, Ozzy, etc.
If it's a less known band, it's fine :)
Oh, and no Anthrax, I really aren't a fan of them.

Thanks!

No Anthrax!? You have no taste.


Try something heavier, like thrash metal. Anthrax is thrash metal but with falsetto vocals, at least with Joey Belladonna. But try Metallica, Megadeth, Nuclear Assault, Forbidden, Heathen, Suicidal Tendencies, Coroner, Dark Angel, Exodus, Sepultura, etc. Those are all classic thrash.

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I sincerely hope you aren't dying in a fire right now.

Nope, all is well. Couple streets up had mandatory evacuations, but all was okay on the Anson home front. Thanks for the concern dawwwggggggg.

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im cheating on my bf. how do i tell him? im fifteen.

"So... ever had any interest in a threesome?"

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should i have sex?i am in love and we have kissed,and we love each other like mad.he is crazy,and all my used friends to nag me aboutdumping him,but now they want us to sex!i would love to,but all my friends nag and are putting preasure on me too!help!from;desprate house wife(to true!) ps im21and a gorgeousgirl!

Apparently your brains are inversely related to your supposed looks. You want to start a family because your friends tell you to?


Here's to thinking for yourself.

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Next weekend im having a guy friend come over to my house and i dont know what movie to get. We are just friends but the friends with benefits might be included. So my question is what horror movie can i get where there isnt a really awkward sex scene. This sounds dumb but its so awkward for me to watch that stuff with people who arent my best friends. I just want a good movie withtout all the sex. Any recomendations?

My girlfriend says The Orphanage. Which is apparently a foreign film. And you know those foreigners, they pretty much go balls to the walls when it comes to making fucked up stuff.

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I was just wondering were dragons ever real? Ha I was just thinking about that and I just wondered because I've never heard of scientists digging up dragon bones or something ha.

No.

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