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making a family
should i have sex?i am in love and we have kissed,and we love each other like mad.he is crazy,and all my used friends to nag me aboutdumping him,but now they want us to sex!i would love to,but all my friends nag and are putting preasure on me too!help!from;desprate house wife(to true!) ps im21and a gorgeousgirl!
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Okay lets get this straight..
Not only do you sound concieted but any sane 21 year old should know enough that love isn't just about looks and listening to what your friends say. Unless you are a full blown blonde..I don't think you should start a family just yet because you don't sound close to being ready as to what the person below me said it takes a lot more than someone who thinks highly of herself to support another.
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okay girl first of all, are you ready for sex? ask yourself that. But the thing is, do you want to get married some day? When you get married are you going to be able to look into your husbands eyes and tell them that you've already had sex and didn't save yourself for him? See your friends don't decide for you, you do. You need to be very careful about your choice. You may have a different viewpoint about sex or different opinion than me, and thats okay. I don't know if you're a christian or not, but if you are think about what it says in the bible about sex before marriage. i don't mean to affend you or make you uncomfortable if you don't believe in that stuff. All i have to say is that my advice to you is to save your body for that special man that you marry one day. hope i helped.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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Your friends do not control your relationship. If you want to have sex with your boyfriend, then do it because you WANT to - NOT because your friends are TELLING you to.
However, I think that if you're so conceited & so into yourself, you shouldn't even start a family. Self obsessed people should not try to take care of others.
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i agree with Matt not only do I think you sound a little concieted but you also do not sound ready to have a family. looks are NOT everything and if your friends tell you they think you should and you are asking us if you should take there advice well obviously you haven't thought for yourself. grow up first and then rethink that thought
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Apparently your brains are inversely related to your supposed looks. You want to start a family because your friends tell you to?
Here's to thinking for yourself.
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