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attracted to players
nineteen, female.
why is it that i always fall for the players who always cheat on their girlfriends? why am i always so attracted to them, when i know that if i ever got close to them that there going to end up hurting me! i just dont know why i go for them, i do not think cheating is rigth in ANY way, but yet i still like the ones who do it to others? it doesnt make sense to me, yet it happens all the time
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ha hun i was just like you until i meet my husband. i think i have dated one guy who didnt cheat on me. it takes time. learn to wait and get to know a guy do it the old fashion way.. actully go on dates before your a couple. Play the field a while.. if he cant see you want to get to know him before dating before having sex then he isnt the one tell him to hit the curb and try again. dont give up you will find the one.
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To elaborate on what Matt said, yeah, chaotic situations related to a significant male in your past has probably programmed your brain to be attracted to these sorts of guys.
You know it's wrong and you know you don't like it. So why don't you get with someone that's the total opposite (a gentleman that will treat you well) and when you start experiencing that, it may be easier. It might be a challenge though and you might have to force yourself. Just give it time and go for it or else if you keep going with the guys you get with now, it'll could only lead to horrible situations in the future. You want to avoid that as much as possible. Good luck!
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Issues with your father probably. Either abuse or absence or general douche baggery.
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