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Question Posted Monday September 14 2009, 8:12 pm

Im 16 and im dating this 19 guy. How do i tell my mom??

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sousou1234567 answered Wednesday September 16 2009, 3:44 pm:
Well .. Screw age, and the most ridiculous law in the world is this age law, I mean come on, we all know some girls mature faster and guys hates growing up.

Hello .. 19 isn't old at all.

If you want to be with him, you should be with him no matter what people say/think. But be on your parent's good side even if it's going to cost you lying, because if they did anything to him because they wanted to look after you and all this crap, it will suck.

My sister is 16 and she just moved in with her 19 year old boyfriend. My dad disagreed but she didn't care, and my mom didn't really care. The thing is my sister didn't give up, and they want to get married first she turns 18 which is crazy but as long as it makes them happy it's sane.

If it makes you happy by being with him, then you should stand by your word.

Explain to your parents how you exactly feel, and if your feelings are mature, i think your parents are mature enough to realize that and support you.

Good Luck =]=]

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christina answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 9:05 pm:
Just tell her.

However, you really shouldn't be dating this guy to begin with. You're a minor & he's an adult which it makes it illegal for him to be with you.

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Matt answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 12:42 am:
I asked my collegiate buddy, and she said with your mouth. You know she's right because a) she's in college b) she's Indian and c) she's friends with me.

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perdidaeneltiempo answered Monday September 14 2009, 11:39 pm:
hey its not that bad. samething happend to me but i was 16 and my boyfriend was 28..know there is something to freak out. my parents did not like him at first but they supported me and i am know 20 hes 31 and guess wat we are married and happy.just introduce him as a friend wait for their respond and wait a few week then tell them u decieded to date him.

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sweeethoney answered Monday September 14 2009, 9:13 pm:
i just went through the exact same thing, same age. just bring him around your house and introduce him as a person, and just hang out with your parents for a little bit so he can get to know them. thennn after he leaves, if your parents like him ofcourse, tell them they you guys like each other and that you guys are seein each other. 19 isnt really that old, especially when girls mature way faster than guys. just make sure no legal things get in the way, just be smart with who you tell.

good luck :)
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